DO i stay here or move to be closer to my fiance's family?

Question

MY fiance is going overseas soon. we live 1000 miles away. his dad was wondering if i wanted to move down to be closer to them. i live with my mom and my sister, but they don't really get it how big a deal it is for him to be deployed. i spent the summer with his fam, so it's not like they are strangers to me. Any advice?

Answer 1

That's your decision but personally I would rather be with my family and plan to visit my future in-laws periodically and keep in touch with them often by phone or e-mail. I agree it's a BIG DEAL for him to be deployed! I didn't sleep good for a year when my son-in-law was in Iraq. If you're close to your mother and sister, they should be a lot of support even though right now they don't fully understand what deployment can mean when it's happening to someone you love.

Answer 2

My question to you is how do you feel about it? Where are you more comfortable, with your family or his? Go to where you know you can have a lot of support, because you will need it now that he's gone for a while. Plus you have to take in consideration your job (if you work) or your school and all the complications about a move like this. My personal opinion is to be where you are.
Good luck!
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Answer 3

As a military spouse, I would stay where you are. I would say the same thing even if you and your Fiance were already married. Your future in-laws may be wonderful people, but it would be best to go visit them rather than live with them.

Answer 4

I would deeply consider moving. Your marying him, so getting close to his family is the worst idea. And you know, if things don't work out there, you'll always have a place to come home-to!

Answer 5

In my opinon I would say simoky move... if you love him is the trick though. You must be certain that you are in love before you go and uproot yourself from a location that you like. Its your call.

Answer 6

stay

Answer 7

STAY!!!!!!!!!!!