ok me and my boyfirned are living in his mothers house cuz she took on a businnes which meant she'd be moving out so we deccided to take on the house to save her find ppl for it and we'r paying rent. but at the time his other brother was surpose to take it but it wasnt good enough so as we said we'd take it on! now his brother wants to take it till june till his house its ready so thats means we have to move out as he wants this house now cuz he has a dog but so do we! do you actually think this is fair? like it wasnt good enough for him then WHY now? help plz what are we surpose to do?
2007-01-12 10:31:44 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
we have suggested for them to live with us but they want the house to them selfs! and also his g/friend thinks she higher up than anyone else! she's got issues
2007-01-12 10:41:37 · update #1
Let the family get on with what ever the underlying problem your boyf and his brother has. Just stay out of it. At the end of the day your mother in law knows that you and boyf wanted the house, she has now been placed in a difficult position as to who she chooses to live in the house.
This isn't going to be easy for her. I agree, it isn't fair, but nor is life. support your boyf in whatever he wants to do. If he wants to leave the house, just pack your things and go, if he wants to stay and fight, let him do it.... it's his family at stake here, not just the house.
2007-01-12 11:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Possession is four fifths of ownership."
Essentially, they passed the house up when they had the chance to take it, so now it's YOU who are in control. You've offered to let them share it with you, and that is good. If they refuse, that's their choice.
But they have NO right to kick you out because they made a bad judgement. It's not even their house.
My advice is to discuss it with your boyfriends mother, and see if she can't mediate the dispute. After all, as owner of the house it is her decision, legally, so it's best that you keep her informed of the situation so that she's prepared when they complain to her about their situation (which they will probably do if given the chance).
Don't back down, and I hope it works out. Good luck!
2007-01-12 18:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♂ « Hybrid » ♀ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does the Mother say? It seems like it should be her call and you would think that it would have already been decided. snooze ya lose. If they want you out now, have them find you a place and let them cover the costs of relocating again. How can they not understand that you made your decisions based partly on their previous decisions and now they are putting you in a complicated circumstances, it should be their problem not yours.
Just stay put and let them make an offer you can't refuse. : )
2007-01-12 18:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by pduke2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he had his chance, you boy friend should be taking a stance and make you happy, but i know what its like when families start fighting - yes you will get the blame what does the mother think? - can't you share until June???
2007-01-12 18:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by mickeyblueeyes777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had his chance he turned it down if it was not good enough for him then it is not now tell him to take a run and jump.
2007-01-12 18:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ding Dong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry he gave up his rights to the house when he had the chance to , too late now , I wouldn't move it is his problem, let him solve it
2007-01-12 19:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a house therefore it must have more than one bedroom so why can't you all live in it?
2007-01-12 18:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋