Sigh... At the moment I'm not going on so well with my mother. For reasons to complicated to explain, my mom has banned me from many of my sports, such as LifeSaving and Swimming. She has kicked out one of my other sisters and has attempted the same with me and another of my siblings. She only seems to do this when she gets on the red wine. She is as stubborn as a mule and I don't know how to talk to her anymore. She called me a coward and I blew up at her. What do I do?
2007-01-11 19:20:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You may be angry with her but never ever talk back to her. She is your mother and if not because of her you won't be here today.
Regardless of her being stubborn or being unreasonable sometimes, that is okey. It is not the end of the world.
Be patient with her and always be a good son to her. Treat her well and look after her well-beings one day she will come to realize how good you are.
2007-01-11 20:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's stupid that she isn't allowing you to do what you love (sports). It depends on your age, because you don't want to get kicked out. It sounds like she has the issues, not you. And it also sounds like she shouldn't be drinking red wine. I hope the best for you, but if you can afford it, maybe your siblings could all pitch in and get a place of your own. .. you know, like go on strike against mom. (Could you go live with dad, or could he intervene if he lives with you guys..??)
Good luck!!
2007-01-11 19:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by natalie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there well this is a bit of a mess ...so i take it you want to patch things up and get back on talking terms .....ok ..how about writing her a letter and see what that brings explain that you do not want to end up shouting and fighting tell her that you love her and that you want to get things back on track with her ....us mums can have our sessions where we do tend to lose it every so often ....but we do not really mean it .....spoil her a little make her a meal ....do breakfast for her in bed on sunday .....look this will all help you get things back on track ......and then you can start to talk to her ....good luck and take care xx
2007-01-11 19:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you're concerned about moving into difficulty because of her age, then you honestly recognize finished nicely you have not any excellent to do this. Your daughter did not get the way she is that if she had good parenting. She's your DAUGHTER. do some thing about it.
2016-10-30 21:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RED WINE? Wait til she hits the moonshine girl!!
2007-01-11 19:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has a drinking problem and she needs help. Talk to one of your counselors at school and maybe they can direct you to programs to help you and your family.
2007-01-11 19:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You reali got to talk some senses into her head!! She reali got to know wat life is!! show ur dearest mother this messages we reply u dear... she got to reali ''wash her brains with detergent''!! so that her mind gets cleared...
Sorry to hear this gal.... take care k..
2007-01-11 19:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋