could this be normal?

Question

My husband always help his family financially and especially his sister even he knows she shopping a lot. Whatever he gives to me he would gives his sis. the same or even extra. He wants to get me the handbag, of course he gets her one. She used to ask him money and ask him to buy this or that for his family members.We live wit his family.I understand that he loves his family but what about my daughter and I. could it be over the limit? He paid 80% of her bedroom set and yesterday he asked for my help when we bought the our bedroom set.
thanks

Answer 1

it is normal and annoying I think, the fact said some people still do that,he just love his familly much, much,,much,...tooo much..
it is your consequency, because you already married him so its like also married his family
in your case if you can talk with your husband, it will be better.
talk honestly and with respect. tell that you respect your husband family, but your husband also have another family( you and your daughter),,so please ask his repect with same portion,..

Answer 2

Ok who does he love he sounds like hes in love with his sister. U 2 need to get out and away from his family.

Answer 3

I have never in my life heard of anything like this, something is not right. You and your child should come first, than parents and siblings. I don't understand why he is doing this.Maybe yall need to save your money and get your own place. Good Luck hope it works out.

Answer 4

i think he's being realy puky. just tell that husband of urs to be urs. i don't say that he should not love his family but that doesn't mean he'll entirely neglect u. just tell him he should be ready to help his family but not at the cost of burning ur personal funds too.

Answer 5

u should tell ur husband how u feel. i agree u should help ur family but they should also know that ur husband has a family to care for also.