Family - January 2007

when they start a new relationship, And why does their new mate feel they know the facts? R they ASSUMING & WHY?

2007-01-11 02:03:32 · 6 answers · asked by Toni M 2

My step-dad and my mom bought my brother a brand new 2007 Harley Davidson, knowing I have a p.o.s car and I am going to work everyday and school at night with a baby, they refused to help me even get my car fixed. They know I don't have the money to get it fixed right now because I am paying off student loans and such. Buying diapers and all the baby needs. Do you think its fair that they told me to suck it up and deal with it. Heck, he hasnt even been living with us for 2 weeks and as soon as he got here they went right down to H.D. He doesnt have a job and then he wants to drive my car all reckless like. I dont think its fair. Knowing my situation they turned me down in a quickness.

2007-01-11 01:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

everything was ok with my sister in law and I when I was pg and then I moved in with her brother and after the baby we decided to get married she tired to make every deisions in my wedding I told her nicely that I wanted to make some deisions and she got all mad. since then she has treated me badly. She lets her son shove hit and push my son. Her son is 5 mine is 1 years old. If I ask her son to stop her and her husband gets all upset and yells at me but If my son pinches her son she smakes his hand and tries to disapline him. I don't know what else to do I have tried being nice I have tired ignoring her but the comments and being mean to me and only calling when she NEEDS something or to BRAG about something. Any Ideas on what to do?

2007-01-11 01:47:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-11 01:46:18 · 6 answers · asked by Chabacano 4

Is that morally acceptable? I mean, they also have to pay for cockroach spray and cigarettes with it too.

2007-01-11 01:33:52 · 7 answers · asked by glitter l 1

My sister has been an alcoholic for years, but refuses to belive she is. She is 28. She has taken 2 overdoses in a year, the last one was last night. She refuses to belive that her drinking is affecting the whole family, and that it is a real problem. She phones up drunk, does things she regrets when shes drunk, and then needs to drink to block it all out. There seems to be no talking to her, in her eyes shes not affecting any of us, and its all an excuse to be nasty to her. In fact all we are trying to do is help. She dosnt seem to understand its the drink making her miserable. We tell each other everything and she was fine when i saw her yestarday. Even her husband said the overdose came out of the blue. Im worride about her husband too. Hes an alcoholic but hasnt had a drink since the new year. It is so hard for him, i think this will only make him want to drink.
Please help.

2007-01-11 01:29:58 · 10 answers · asked by bexbickles 2

i am 13 and i have been in the hospital ever seans i was 3 years old as i wright this i am in my hospital bed asking for help what do i do i have been beten and shaken and thrown agenst the wall i feel sooo much pain i need advice

2007-01-11 01:27:42 · 27 answers · asked by Tiffany F 1

my mum has got together with this man ages ago i liked him at first but now i hate him i found out with his ex wife he used to let his mates sleep with her while he watched he makes me feel sick i dont know what to do my mum has been through enough my dad used to beat the living poo out of her and i am scared i just dont want her to get hurt also any tips on finding my real dad

2007-01-11 01:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my cousin boyfriend is 26 and she's 19.and her lil sis is 14 yrs.my cousin and her boyfriend has a 9 mth old baby girl.my cousin has a job and her boyfriend dont.often when she comes home from work her lil sis is always there playing on the bed with her boyfriend.and hes always tickling her and calling her when no ones home to hang out.he calls her on her cell phone at night,he gived her a tattoo jus below her panty line.what do u think is really going on with my lil sis an my bf?

2007-01-11 00:47:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stepson who lived with us from 18 mos old till 13 (when he decided to live with his mom because there were no rules there three years ago) got into some trouble and has come back to live with us-after not seeing him in two years or knowing he was in trouble, from his mothers house, who lost custody. He has the worst attitude, will not talk, is always mad at the wrong people and is making my life a living hell.He will not go to counseling. He will be 17 next month-on probation- will NOT pay his court fees-my husband is legally responsible for them since he is 16. You cannot get through to him or he doesn't want to do what he should.He expects his dad is going to do it all and he has to right now because of his age.He won't talk to anybody and hates us too. Do I ignore him? I am at my wits end here.You can't make someone do something they absolutely will not do-or can you??

2007-01-11 00:41:29 · 16 answers · asked by Pesty Wadoo 4

ive been in the same job for 4 years and ive been moved into a position that im not sure about.....should i consider a career change ?? i have rent, food and bills to worry about also.......

2007-01-10 23:59:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-10 23:54:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My english teacher gave my class this question but sadly, my grandparents aren't here anymore and when they were with me, i was too young to know anything.
share with me!

2007-01-10 23:54:26 · 17 answers · asked by pretty winter snow 2

My sister is working in texas and she is lonely so i wanted to send her a little care package or something. Nothing too extravagant or expensive but just something fun to cheer her up. Any ideas? I think that flowers are not that appropriate in this case but if you could give me a link to some website that allows you to send other stuff that would be great... or just any ideas in general.

2007-01-10 23:49:53 · 5 answers · asked by leezy_poo 2

i have an 11mth old baby boy,he was born in ATL.but i took him back to trinidad when he was jus 6mths so i could be able to go to school,and its hard getting a job so i dont have any money for daycare,thats the second main reason why i left him.now everytime i call and hear his voice it makes me want too forget school and go back to trinidad for him.but he's with his dad and grandparents who loves him too death and i know for sure he's well taken care of.but i still want him.could u please give me some advice?

2007-01-10 23:48:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother wont let me say "that sucks" because its a 'swear word' im a christian and mom says that that is not the way christians should talk.
also my stepfather yells at me every time i say freakin or friggen because "i am swearing" i am using it in place of the F word.
is it really a swear

2007-01-10 23:15:17 · 15 answers · asked by Nathanael S 3

My niece is almost 5 and she's quite intelligent but also does terrible things, she throws tantrums and a can scream for hours if she doesn't get her own way, and if I tell her she can't have somthing she will call me selfish. I am trying to be firm with her as I feel I am the only person in my whole family who will not give in to her demands. And if I don't everyone calls me nasty cranky aunty Rach but I feel like I am doing her a favour by teaching her that she can't always have things her way. I am sick of her telling me I am an idiot or mean or selfish and sometimes even worse when I am only tying to teach her right from wrong. She is just one nasty little kid and I can't avoid seeing her as I live with my parents so she visits often, how do I deal with her without fantasizing about ringing her little neck?

2007-01-10 23:14:28 · 11 answers · asked by cheeky_lil_pixiegirl 3

plz help....

2007-01-10 23:06:20 · 7 answers · asked by emma_18d 2

2007-01-10 22:53:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am trying to trace my half sister her moms name is jean waldron and dads name is gary lloyd, they come from the birmingham area, my dad lived in nechalls im not sure were jean lived but they used to go to the mackadown pub dance, my dad is 60 years of age so i would think jean would be a bout the same age, and my half sister would be about 39-40. i have been on lots of different web sites without any joy, can anyone help me please.

2007-01-10 22:39:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 14, some months ago I did some bad stuff I regret. I guess I was emotionally lost, something like that, but the fact I did wrong things. I was mean to my sister, was jealous. In the end there were hard consequences, I got punished, went through some hard days. Today those things are over, I even did a lot of good things to make up for my mistakes, but I can't forget wht happened. I'm emotionally destroyed, something broke inside me. I can say I'm "clean" in the sense no one is suffering any bad con sequence of my acts, but I can't forget. Leaving with my parents became a nightmare, not because they didn't forgive me, but I can't forget they were harsh on me, I understand them but can't see them as loving parents any more. They bring about terrible memories and this is forever, though they even say they are proud of me. I d'nt think I deserve to be punished like that, since I made up for my mistakes I think it's OK I get out of the hell my life became.

2007-01-10 22:08:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anabela 1

life,parents,sublings,education,friends,job,love of relations,care everything...........what else someone need..................?

2007-01-10 20:47:04 · 6 answers · asked by adi 1

He is eleven years old and moody. He often contradicts me, he throws a wobbly when things dont go his way, he eats too much, but he can also be very loving and thoughtfull. Is this a typical 11year old boy?

2007-01-10 20:21:17 · 29 answers · asked by Shelljoe 1

it's about my two boys,when they were kids,they fight and argue but reconcile easily...now that they are in their 20's.they do not fight anymore but they dont talk either. this saddens me .i've tried to ask them wht could be the reason but said it's nothing to worry about.

2007-01-10 18:35:40 · 6 answers · asked by nova 2

Theirs came out of the blue after being together for 8 years and living together for 3 years, mine would be at the perfect time for us after 3 years of dating...but their engagement was first. Should we wait, and if so how long after theirs? If we planned it for before theirs, would that be rude? We both want big weddings...seems like too much stress and planning for family to go through all at once. Whats the norm for these kind of things?

2007-01-10 18:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by sunshine 2

I am already graduated from school and grown-up adult but still living with my parents and my mother cook clean does home living for me....so to speak I am a "Parasite single"(Japanese people call it so) In Japan so many "Parasite singles" exist
My case is Iheavier Parasite...I have no income and depend on my father income ...I am just staying at home and relax until I will marryif I can) what do you think about my situation?and what do you think Japanese culture of Parasite single??? Does your society or country have such a culture???
I would like to know your society situation and what you think
By the way I would like to expand this culture towards worldwide

2007-01-10 17:55:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-10 17:49:03 · 19 answers · asked by Kyle B 1

sometimes i really am, but i can't find the courage to say it

2007-01-10 17:37:12 · 17 answers · asked by Legend 4

I am 13 almost 14 and I am wondering how old before I can make the decision to live with one parent permantely and not have to see the other one at all. My parents have been split up since I was 2 or 3 and I have lived with my mom basically all of my life and she got full time custody of me when I was about 7 or 8. I do not want to live with my father which i only have to spend one weekday every other week and two weekends a month plus holidays according to the schedule. I am to the point in my life where I see what is right and what is not, and I do not want to live with or even see my father because of what he and my step-mom have done to all of my family even his own. Everytime I go over there I feel sad and can not wait to go home. What are the Alabama Child Right's law and how old do I have to be to make such a decision?

2007-01-10 17:30:56 · 5 answers · asked by icv93 1

2007-01-10 17:24:23 · 8 answers · asked by Diana L 1