I am at a loss. My parents are way to stubborn and they will not move, its just to a different neighborhood where all my friends are. I really need answers!!
2007-01-11 09:51:50 · 15 answers · asked by asdfrewq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Folks move for lots of differnt reasons.
Becuase a daughter "wants to" is rather low on the list if you ask me.
Just offer to pay for the closing costs, rent or whatever, the moving van costs, and lost wages, - they might start to listen then.
2007-01-11 09:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by MK6 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of all of the bad things in your neighborhood. Also list the things good about the neighborhood you want to move into. Make reasons why you should move. Start light and ask them to consider it. The after a while, come on a little bit stronger.
2007-01-11 17:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Wazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely in a few years you will finish high school and move out of your parents house. At which time, what will they be doing with your friends?
2007-01-11 17:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by John Hightower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why move u can just go to ur friends house on regualr basis and just maybe u have find new friends in the neighborhood u never knoe so start hanging out with new ppl but dont forget the old
2007-01-11 17:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by lacheechee2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You really need a bicycle or a skateboard. Moving costs MONEY. How absurd. If they pack up and move for your convenience of being near your friends, what will your next whim be? A sports car?
2007-01-11 17:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that easy to move I know that you have friends in a different neighbor but you have to understand everything else involved. You are being selfish and need to look at the bigger picture.
2007-01-11 17:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by BLB G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will only move if they think the current neighbourhood IS BAD for you... Is it bad for you? Drug dealers, crime, unsafe etc. Otherwise they will stay. There is also other considerations like housing prices, commuting to work etc. that will be considered in the decision. You are an important concern but not the only concern.
2007-01-11 17:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by skipdip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck...
They aren't stubborn they are the ones paying the rent or mortgage and maybe moving is just not an option.
You can talk to them and maybe find out the reasons.
2007-01-11 17:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, hon, moving just isn't that easy. It costs a lot of money to move and a lot of time and taking time off work and lots of effort.
They aren't being stubborn. You are being impractical.
2007-01-11 17:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are to young to everything all the time and expense it takes to just up move not to mention selling their house, doubling their mortgage payments, etc...
Your parents are not being stubborn just practical....
2007-01-11 17:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋