Family - December 2006

2006-12-18 22:39:59 · 24 answers · asked by stevefrmoz 1

what can i do my mam and step dad have been split up over a year and she has met someone else. i have never met my real dad all i know about him is that his last name is farely dous anybody know a way for me to find him. is it a good idea help me please

2006-12-18 22:03:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My marks are pretty bad....boys never look at me.....I feel like nobody love me .....I reprimand always with my mom...I am so ugly....I hate myself.....:((

2006-12-18 21:45:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sweet Mom passed away on October 9th 2006, I'm having the hardest time dealing with this, Im not angry over her death she lived a good long life I was with her when she passed away at home.... she was 90 years old, I took care of her the last 3 years of her life, I guess I just miss her so much, and Christmas was her favorite holiday it just adds to the sadness.....I know this isnt a question, I guess I just needed to write it down....Thanks for reading

2006-12-18 21:23:32 · 25 answers · asked by well_hell_is_this_name_taken 2

Ok so I am going to the inlaws for christmas only for 3 days mind, and am dreading it, my husbands family dont really get along with me to say the least! and i dont know what to do! i can see the sarcastic comments already and am dreading it! i want to know what would be the best way to handle it (apart from obvious of not going) as i dont want to let my husband down but i really dont want to feel like an idiot there for the 3 days over christmas... and they all know full well what they are doing! HELP i need ideas on how to keep my cool and to stop any akward feelings!

2006-12-18 21:12:49 · 22 answers · asked by princesssp8 4

My girlfriend put our phone in her mom's name as she had access to her social number. The bill was never paid and her parents found out. Obviously they are mad. But her dad is trying to pin it on me. I didn't do it. It was her. My girlfriend keeps lying to her parents saying she knows nothing about it. Do I have anything to worry about or is it her that should worry??

2006-12-18 21:09:43 · 2 answers · asked by Jason D 3

Is there any provision in the US constitution that for children being verbally and psychologically abused by their parents? If such child were to leave home, could the parent be made to pay child support? And up to what age?
And what exactly does the law say, what qualifies as psychological and/or verbal abuse?

2006-12-18 20:42:15 · 10 answers · asked by damselville 2

2006-12-18 20:38:06 · 5 answers · asked by _nakahhidit_ 2

What do you do when your grown children gets angry at you cause you will not let them have their way in your house. They are in the late 20 and late 30. They do not want to talk to me anymore cause they say I am a mean mother. I never done them any harm but to love them. I have allowed them room to grow with their families but no reason to neglect their mother. Pleaseadvise.

2006-12-18 20:18:37 · 6 answers · asked by JoJoBa 6

He bugs me all day he comes over and uses my computer(last time he got a virus on my computer),eats my food, takes my clothes and doesnt return them,Puts on my cologne,he takes showers at my house,And he always wants me to give him a ride 2 his house he is really anoying, He is anoying What Should I Do??

2006-12-18 20:17:37 · 10 answers · asked by Pimpsta© 2

We spent christmas, and thanksgiving with them last year and this year we decided to spend it with my side of the family. I tried to make it better by trying to open up to my mother inlaw and letting her know that we don't want them to feel ingnore so they don't think I am trying to take their son away; but all she did was blow me off. My husnad tried to back me up but he only made a comment or two and stayed quite. After that, she just kept on talking about other things. Then in conversation with another family member, this family member tried to say that the reason why my husband is sick (gallstones) is because someone is upsetting him. (saying I upset him) I had to say something and I did. It is just so hard, I don't even want to to visit them anymore. My stomach goes in a nut and feel that I will always be judge no matter what I do. But I have to go because it is my husband's family. I just get SO stressed and even upset, that I take out on my husband.

2006-12-18 20:08:21 · 4 answers · asked by Ruby 1

ok thank u 4 all of the help ppl...ive decided 2ask my dad...not sure how 2 do it...letter?face2face?grandparents tell it?idk and i dont wanna ruin Xmas 4 us...how shood i tell him?

2006-12-18 19:56:12 · 3 answers · asked by Freak 1

A chance to pay before it goes to court?

2006-12-18 19:55:15 · 5 answers · asked by The King 2

I've ben confused on how to feel lately so I need your guys advice!

Okay so on Wednesday I have to go to Calorado to celebrate Christmas with my Republican cousins, aunt, and uncle. I have a problem with almost every person in the family I will be with. THe cousins are obnoxious, spoiled, thick-headed, and just plain UGH. The uncle is a sexist, racist, and homophobic jerk. (If he says the things he says here in the Bay Area he would be in trouble; They live in a VERY white part of Texas.)

Well, not only am I spending Christmas unwillingly, but I know Christmas Day they will have more presents and make fun of my sister and me. They are extremley rich. We live in the Bay Area so it costs more. I don't want them talking behind my back say "They got so little presents" or just not knowing how happy I am with my life and how this trip will make me miserable. I just wish you knew how bad they were- Thanks!

IN ADVANCE- Sorry for any typos its late here!

2006-12-18 19:47:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-18 19:38:51 · 8 answers · asked by ! ! ! 1

2006-12-18 19:37:42 · 2 answers · asked by ! ! ! 1

my sister's son (Irmand, 7 months old) is hospitalized. I was told by my mom not to tell my sister about this cos she might be worried(she lives on abroad now with his husband). But when my sister call me to ask me about Irmand, i didn't have any idea what to do. so i told her everything... i just can't lie to anybody even when we talk on the phone
afterall, i think it's not fair not to let a mother know what happen to her child...

2006-12-18 19:33:39 · 11 answers · asked by me 2

my family disowns me, so now i live in mesa with some dude that knocked up my mom 18 years ago.

2006-12-18 19:31:26 · 11 answers · asked by hardie_christine 1

When I was younger (I'm almost 21 now), my father used to abuse my younger brother, verbally and physically. Though he never really did this to me (cause I kept my mouth shut) I used to witness what he did to my brother. I still remember words and have memories. The strange thing is it never really bothered me as a teenager, but now for some reason it feels like it's all coming back. I have a hard time sleeping because the memories come back into my head, and it really upsets me. The abuse doesn't happen anymore as we're adults... but it makes me angry when I think about it, like "why didn't I do something??" even though I was only like 9 years old. Could this be like Post-traumatic stress disorder?

And also, I find myself more attracted (sexually) to women than men. I just feel more comfortable around women. Could my dad's anger problem combined with the fact my Dad wasn't much when I was much younger because he was a truck driver have anything to do with this?

2006-12-18 19:20:11 · 9 answers · asked by Alicia 1

2006-12-18 19:15:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Come on make me as mad as you were!

2006-12-18 19:06:33 · 7 answers · asked by * * 1

DOes this confirm that the French are just a bunch of Sissy Cowards or what? I don't think that they have contributed much here anyway? Supposedly they are leaving the French Special Forces, but I think that those guys could not beat Cub Scouts in a fight.

2006-12-18 18:56:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well i live with my mom and her hisband[my stepdad ron] and my mom puts me thru so much...ok well a few years back she went 2 rehab bc she was a drug addict and an alchoholic.she was off everything 4 like 3 yrs. and now shes back into drinking a lot...well not a LOT but enuff 2 start 2 ruin my life...but wait theres more...and in Easter she went into the hospital bc she took 25 painkillers 2 kill herself...shes been ruining my life ever since just by putting me thru so much...i wanna move in with my dad so badd bc he will give me privacy, a new life, public school[im homeschooled and hate it] a lot of better things...i dont wanan hurt my mom but i would rather do that then stay here...wat the heck do i do?

2006-12-18 18:51:04 · 26 answers · asked by Freak 1

I am 24 years old and 31 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend & I broke up in October. We agreed that we both needed to work some things out seperately before the baby gets here. In that time, I have found a job, a car, and started substance abuse meetings (I have a drug problem but have been clean for 6 mos now). I feel like my life is finally coming together. Lately, he has been talking alot about wanting to get back together ... that he misses me, still loves me, wants to be with me when the baby gets here. However, his actions say differently. He has been "promising" to get together with me for the last 3 weeks, but hasn't come through. I can barely get him on the phone, he will tell me to call back but then not answer. I saw him more before he started telling me he wanted me back! He says he doesn't understand why this upsets me. I try not to let it bother me but I can't help it. Any advice on what I should do? BTW he has 2 other kids, a son who is 15 and a daughter who is 3.

2006-12-18 18:49:35 · 12 answers · asked by justsumchickie1 1

2006-12-18 18:44:34 · 2 answers · asked by * * 1

i found adult books in my sons almirah . what should i do

2006-12-18 18:38:21 · 5 answers · asked by alag 1

My dad's having an affair, and has been for about 2 years! I hate him in a way! He still lives with my mum, me and my sister and uses some of my mum's wages, yet he goes and sees this bi##h whenever he can! He's ruining Christmas again for me and my mum, my sis doesn't know. Plus i have to put on a front when my nanna comes for Christmas! What can I do to cope?

2006-12-18 18:25:03 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I come to work on time, make all the goals and more. She is so defensive, I could never ask her why she doesn't like me.

2006-12-18 18:22:52 · 12 answers · asked by Maddie 3

She lives 3 hours away, while my mother lives 8 hours away. Anytime I mention things my mother has bought for my daughter or just anything about my mother in general, MIL gets defensive, and sometimes hostile. It's very frustrating to me, and there are days I can't even deal with it. My husband just tells me she doesn't want to be left out at all, and won't speak up. Should I? Or would I be wrong to..??

2006-12-18 18:14:25 · 13 answers · asked by rubberducky_pink 1

Especially patronising grandmas!

2006-12-18 18:14:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous