My marks are pretty bad....boys never look at me.....I feel like nobody love me .....I reprimand always with my mom...I am so ugly....I hate myself.....:((
2006-12-18 21:45:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
~I have a link for you on depression. I seriously doubt that you are ugly, that no one loves you and boys never look at you. It's just the depression talking.
There is help available! Antidepressants and therapy.~
2006-12-18 22:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure I understand the reprimand mark. Do you mean argue with your Mom?
Okay about the Marks. I'm assuming you mean your grades. Make more time to study and ask your teachers for help and tell your parents you need help. You need to learn how to study. Get a place in your room away from the tv with plenty of light and quiet. The library is a good place to study.
You say you are ugly. Maybe you need a makeover. Get a good haircut and /or color. Use make up. Buy some clothes that fit. I'd ask my older sister (if I had one) or Mom or someone close to you to help you look more attractive. Have you seen some of the stars without makeup? UGLY
Honey all of us need to work on our appearance. Just work with what you got. That's all anyone can do. Good luck.
2006-12-18 23:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by SheRa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are living with your parents, I'd suggest you have a talk with a teacher you like (same sex as you), and / or with a counselor. Get with an adult you can trust. A policeman/ policewoman you know could be VERY helpful. Many police are really good guys! You need some counseling, and possibly plan on weekly meeting for a year or two. You have some real self-esteem issues. And I thought I was TERRIBLY UGLY until I was in my 30s, and a woman told me how handsome I am. (by that time, it didn't matter). All you need to do is find guys who find you attractive, and stay away from anyone who thinks you're ugly and is nasty /mean enough to say so. You might check with a pastor at your local church. If you are a Bible reader (and even if you aren't) you could start reading a Psalm and a Proverb a day. You'll find out that it's what is INSIDE that counts. Also, try to not start getting into sexual activity to "boost your morale". It won't work You MIGHT feel better for the hour it's happening, but you'll feel much worse afterwards. If you are quite literally "feeling bad" about yourself, that MIGHT indicate a medical problem, or a chemical problem. Have a doctor check you out, and you might want to check on mood stabliizers. I was down on myself for YEARS until I discovered mood stabilizer. Now I'm MUCH better.
2006-12-18 21:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by John1212 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Findf something that u r good at and dont give in.There must be at least one subject at school that u like start by excelling in one area at a time. Your consuming yourself with to many thoughts. Good luck
2006-12-18 22:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start loving and respecting yourself others will follow you. If your mom is mean to you be on your own as soon as possible. You are pretty just keep it in mind and be happy.
2006-12-18 21:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by rams 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exercise...get outside and walk...it's amazing how much better you'll feel. Study harder in school too, perhaps when your grades improve you'll start to feel better about yourself. Wallowing around in self-pity and hatred is very unproductive and will only make you feel worse...so get up, get out and get going...you are important and worthwhile!
2006-12-18 22:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by i_love_my_mp 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about that ..there are alot of guys out there that will look and prefer personalitys more then looks and i believe that somewhere out there is someone that loves you the way you are ..never give up ..keep your head up :)
2006-12-18 21:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by sweety4live2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are worried about the external beauty,tease of boys,making fun etc.did u ever think that human being are not created to suffer from these.why u suffer from determination lacking? make up u'r mind that there are whole lotta work that u have to do not wasting your possibilities
2006-12-18 21:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, don't hate yourself, always get occupied. think of happy stuff. i agree with that guy. don't stress yourself..try to relax, get a massage, or probably get your nails done, and hang out with your friends. and everyone has someone who loves them. and dont stress yourself too much with academics.
2006-12-18 21:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by kireiicutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry be happy dont think that way =]]]
2006-12-18 21:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by bianca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋