i found adult books in my sons almirah . what should i do
2006-12-18 18:38:21 · 5 answers · asked by alag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
nothing to get so tensed , he is about to learn what you should have tought him no matter what age he is in but one thing is for sure , he is on his first step to learn about sex and it's do's and don'ts . just relax , what you have to do is to look that he does not make any bad friends .
2006-12-18 20:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of what age he is
if he under 15 try to make him understand that this book is no good for him and if he will do this again ur gonna panish him for this but before that make him feel comfortable to talk to u dont start yelling on him dont show ur temper much to him
and find out from where he found this book thus his friends sees this too or he is been given this by any irresponsible adult person
if ur son is teenage he could be trying to feel the adult stuff as he is not a child and nor kid could get misguide from any of his friend try discuss with him about this book stuff as it could be bad for his mental stability if only if he c this kind of book more
or he and u can be uncomfortable to talk about this ask ur husband to talk to him if he cant then u play part of good friend in ur sons life and talk to him be comfortable while talking and try understand what situation he is going through make him comfortable while talking and behave this thing happens with children's n Ur just trying to help in growing right way
he could take u in negative way but stay calm be open to what he says about this and make him understand different between right and wrong
if this problem increase take professional help
god bless you
bye
2006-12-18 20:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! Its all part of growing up! If you punish him or try to remove that off, he will find ways to hide from you.!!!Reading an adult book does not make a person bad but trying to put it into practise will...why dont you be a little more explicit and sicuss with him?
2006-12-19 01:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is your son? You need to talk to him and see if he has any question and answer him truthfully. The more open you are about this the better chances you are that your son will come to you when he needs you the most. My older children are 15 and 13 and it is an open subject in my house and I know that as my daughter and son get older they will trust me to give good advice and they fell comfortable coming to me with anything.
2006-12-19 01:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Hunny Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't mention that you know about them (books) otherwise he will feel humiliated !! though keep an eye, if it happens again, tell him that these books r not going to make him a good man to face like with an honor
2006-12-19 01:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋