He bugs me all day he comes over and uses my computer(last time he got a virus on my computer),eats my food, takes my clothes and doesnt return them,Puts on my cologne,he takes showers at my house,And he always wants me to give him a ride 2 his house he is really anoying, He is anoying What Should I Do??
2006-12-18 20:17:37 · 10 answers · asked by Pimpsta© 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I CANT LEAVE MY DOOR UNLOCKED BECAUSE HE JUST OPENS IT
2006-12-18 20:26:02 · update #1
it would be good for you to be assertive baout this matter, it would be no fun to continue living without saying anything, you pay for your food, cologne,clothes, they are yours, just put your mind in his mind and say something that you would like to say and tyr to think of how he may feel, or how you would feel, it may sting a little to hear how you feel , but that should soon dissapear,or you could always lock up your stuff and not answer the door to him,
2006-12-18 20:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by marie ld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your locks and then pretend that you are not home. You could put price tags on everything and tell him he has to pay you... 50 cents for the can of soda, $1 per squirt of cologne, $2 per minute of water usage, etc.
2006-12-18 20:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to say no. Grow a backbone. No one can use you unless you let them. Its ok to say no, you dont owe any explanations. Its your stuff. There is no way I would ever allow ANYONE to do the stuff your letting him do. No one touches my pc, I paid for it. Quit letting your cousin in the house. If he gets in anyway then just tell him you dont want him there messing with your stuff.
If you cant do that then I guess your stuck and people will always be using you.
2006-12-18 20:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up, be a man, tell him in a nice way (the first time) You do not appreciate the way he uses you. If that does not help become firm in what you say and do.
2006-12-18 20:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by Big B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Dear Abby said "You can't be taken advantage of unless you let yourself."
Tell him he needs to start respecting you, your home, and your stuff or you're changing the locks. And then follow through.
2006-12-18 21:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds lonely. Tell him the truth. That the way he is treating you isn't right if he still wants to be around you he needs to change. You may need to be very precise.
2006-12-18 20:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by Briana G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he wants to come over just tell him your not home and if you keep it up he'll get the message. and if his the kind to just show up, keep your windows closed and lock the door, and don't answer.
2006-12-18 20:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself??
that would be a start
Hes using you pretty garn good ...
2006-12-18 20:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell it to him straight u dont want him using your stuff.How do your parents think about it.
2006-12-18 22:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
punch him in the face
2006-12-18 20:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by batts1030 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋