Family - December 2006

2006-12-20 23:56:53 · 16 answers · asked by sonali 1

I am wondering what others have bought there mam for xmas. Wonder if i can get some ideas for next year..

2006-12-20 23:51:32 · 29 answers · asked by Donni 2

My mum who has bin married with my dad for 25 years is having an affair outside with a msian guy for the past 1 year.She even went overseas with him and talk on the phone with him daily. My dad knew abt this was sad n hurt.He still loves her despite how my mum ignored him. I felt sad that i couldnt help my dad as he told me as long as my mum is happy he dont mind. He told me no point quarrelling or even have a divorce. Everyday, when i see my mum chatting on the phone with that msian guy i juz simply hate it so much i hate her for hurting my dad. I had even once msg her telling that i felt sad n hurt the way she was doing to my dad. But, there was no response or even reaction taken place. I have given up hopes on her.

2006-12-20 23:08:32 · 19 answers · asked by Endless 2

My son got sick yesterday and I took care of him all day. I kept him in bed he had soup and everything. His cousins came over and I said hes got to rest. His uncle ask if he wanted to play, he said, "my daddy said I have to rest, I cant go play".
Then I get a phone call from my girlfiend and she said "my mom called and complained that I wouldnt let him play downstairs with his cousins".
Was this wrong of me not to let him play? I thought I was doing the right thing.

2006-12-20 22:34:50 · 23 answers · asked by infiniteson 3

My natural father is Terry Taylor, he's about 65 years old and living somewhere in the UK. Haven't seen him since I was 4 years old, in 1967, I know that he has two more sons, Toby and Benjamin. He lived abroad for a while, I'll not say where as this will sort the real answers from the Nutters' responses! Any help would be great, all other avenues seem closed.

2006-12-20 22:30:14 · 6 answers · asked by Steve D 2

Seems like my kids got the worst grandparents! They never remember their birthdays, forget about christmas and other important events. We live overseas, so grandparents flew all the way from the US just to ignore two little boys completely. No presents or signs of love whatsoever. I feel terrible for my boys, but how can I tell my in-laws that they way they treat their only grandkids is not fair!

2006-12-20 22:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by Natalya J 1

I know its sick and wierd but we can't help feeling this way about each other. I mean even though we are cousins we can't fall out of love. I feel for him deep and I haven't felt like that about any other boy before. I am 16 and my cousin is 21 and I have loved him like forever and I wasn't planning to tell him that I love him romantically until he told me that for some reason he gets jealous whenever he sees me with guys. The only thing we have ever done was kiss once and it was scary. I want to tell my family but he thinks that we should keep it a secret. Please I'm confused and need help!

2006-12-20 22:20:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was depressed for some time and haven't tried dealing with it until now. Parents never helped me out because i guess they didn't know how to and were going through their own thing's. Most of the time when they come to talk to me it's about money troubles and i hate it. I'm 21 now and have not accomplished anything. Now that they're seeing i'm earning money of my own to try and 'fly from the coop' so to speak they are wanting me to support them before i can get my chance to "fly".. I feel so selfish for feeling this way and i'm sure most people wouldn't even think twice about helping out their parents. I wish i could be more mature and understanding about thing's but it seems i'll always be here .. two steps forward and one step back. I don't know.. advice ? I'd appreciate anyone who has any experiences like this they'd like to share maybe ?

2006-12-20 21:59:02 · 5 answers · asked by Em 1

2006-12-20 21:55:10 · 14 answers · asked by afrprince77 2

To make this as short as I can, I have 4 Beautiful neices in foster care in Ohio. They have been there for over 1 yr. and my brother and his soon to be ex-wife (in jail now) are going to loose their parental rights. I am 38 with a very small income (basically lucky I am getting by) and they want me to take all 4 girls. Currently 3 (age 2,3 & 6) are currently in a different home then the 12 year old. I could really use some input, because I am not sure if I am up to the task, this would mean moving amoung many other things. I just graduated college in 05 and have not even started a carer in my field. Please all input will help me I have until Feb 27th to figure it out.

2006-12-20 21:30:45 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2

What should i do?
i am 20 and my parents are highly overprotective of me and i just cant talk it out of their heads... its really really really stifling and i feel gagged. i cant move out because of the same reasons and the fact that i belong to a higher class family(according to them) and by december 2007 when i finish my studies, i will get a very good job. till then i gotto suffer. i wanna do some further studies but again they look down upon me. i became the president of my college, my mum said i wouldnt be able to handle it, but i proved them wrong. i am getting an internship in Russia, my parents say its too cold for me to go there. when i took up my current course in environmental science they said i couldnt do it. all the guys in my life are scrutinized with respect to marriage which is irritating.
i cant take this anymore. everything i do is scrutinized. i just gotto survive till dec 07. i love them.. but sometimes... its not good. what should i do?

2006-12-20 21:17:56 · 4 answers · asked by anna 1

we have 3 childern togther and he did this to me when i was caring the last baby. i forgave him and i put it past me but now i am mad as all hell. its been a year since and the anger is just growing. please tell me something to help me i would love to put it past me but its not working

2006-12-20 21:08:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok my friends father recently died and at the funeral some guy came up to her and said that he was her fathers son. She had never met him, never heard of him nothing, her mom dosent know who he is know one has ever heard anything about him. My friends father had some money which he left for her and her siblings. This guy is like 15 years older than my friend. They are going to get DNA test but havent yet. Do you think this could be a scam or really could be true? I just dont know how I would handle that if I were her. She is the oldest of five from her mom and dad. And now there might be someone older then her. He said he has know for a while that thats his father. Know one knows if her father knew about him or not.

2006-12-20 21:07:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mum, brother and i all share a room while my dad has one for himself as he snores really loudly and he doesnt want to disturb us. This might seem perfectly normal to you but i always get this feeling that he is lonely deep inside. He works very hard for my family and always comes home late. And most of the time when he comes home, my mum brother and i are talking in our room. And since he plays the guitar, he always brings it into our room as a way to spend time with us i guess. I ever asked him how to stop his snoring issues and he said that the only way is to go for surgery. As a daughter, i wud really wan the best for my dad as i love him alot and i think he's really lonely. Sometimes i feel like askin my dad to go for the surgery but im scared of how he will react. Just imagine... After a hard day of work, u enter ur room, shower, and get stuff done without seeing ppl. Doesnt that feel as if u were never married and never had children? Tell me what to do. =(

2006-12-20 20:33:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

me(16), my dad(41) checks all my phone messages.......is it necessary.......they contain my girlfriends, friends messages........and he fails to understand jokes and feel as its going 2 happen.......i have even put a code on my phone and my father bangs my phone if he cant find the code.......what 2 do......please give answers and don't point out my mistakes.........please.

2006-12-20 19:37:31 · 14 answers · asked by kill a rat 1

and also that whatever happens i am the one to be blamed i think differentely therefore i am called mad i have gone down in my studies i don't talk to anyone in my house about this my best friend has left this city so their is no one my other friends don't respect my thoughts why can't things go right i feel that fate has dealt me a cruel hand i have everthing but still don't have anything

2006-12-20 19:20:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 18:34:00 · 6 answers · asked by MWANGI F 1

So my sister is turning 21 soon. 21 is supposed to be really special, right? I don't really know what to get her. Whatever I thought of (bags, shoes, things I make myself, etc.) seems too... normal. As in not special enough for someone who's turning 21. Any suggestions?

2006-12-20 18:30:11 · 9 answers · asked by Diamond 4

2006-12-20 18:29:49 · 7 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3

When I was pregnant with my son, I felt like my mum was never really there for me. We used to be quite close so this was upsetting. The day he was born I rang her and told her the news and she seemed as if she didnt even care. I asked her what was wrong, as I expected her to be a little more excited about the birth of her first grandchild, and she said that if I didnt know she wasnt going to bother telling me and then she hung up on me. I, after the intense experience of giving birth for the first time, cried and cried and my fiance was very angry with her after that. Since then, almost 2 1/2 years have passed and I have only spoken to her once, at my brothers wedding when I tried to mend the bridge but she didnt seem to want to. I have been very angry with her for a long time now, but she is my mother and I do miss her. My fiance hates her for what she put me through and my son doesnt even know her. Do I just give up on the whole thing after all this time or do I try again? Help!

2006-12-20 18:04:08 · 17 answers · asked by AussieHel 2

This is IT! Do you all miss being santa anymore?

I'll still fill the stockings, but no more middle of the night building anything... I will miss that, do you?

2006-12-20 18:00:45 · 13 answers · asked by Fossil 2

Need advise where to start. Never married to childs father. Who do I talk to about seeking assistance for legal representation in a custody fight. Ex's relatives will pay as much as it takes to get him custody and his relative is very influential in the community. Infact most people fear her. Sky's the limit for money.
I'm on disability and have no money for legal representation. My son's father and I have been sharing custody 50/50, no problems. Till he got mad at me and his aunt(she pays all his bills and he doesn't work)has pressed the issue. She's done this before and I reasoned with my ex not to go through w/ it. This time I don't think reasoning with him will work. I'm not even able to scratch the surface as to what they have up their sleeve. But I need to know where to start looking for help. I'm in the State of Nevada, in Elko County. One more thing, Most everyone in the town I live in, do not dare to cross this rich aunt. Not even the authorities in the town. PLEASE HELP ME!

2006-12-20 17:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by tutymzamnth4ca 1

Ok, this is a tough one. My father died 2 1/2 years ago, I was really close to him, but unfortunately I wasn't there when he passed away, and 3 days later my sisters husband called and told me. NOT ONE of my brothers and sisters (I have 10) or my mother called me, then or since. I was REALLY pissed off, and even if they didn't call because they knew I wouldn't take the news well is no excuse for not calling. I was devastated, not only did I have no one to talk to at all during my grief for my dad, I also spent the last 2 Christmas's alone, while my kids went to my mom's to celebrate.
I've been really disappointed in my mom, I'd always had a good relationship with her, or so I'd thought.
She phoned today, left a message inviting me to Xmas dinner on Xmas day, but I've already invited a friend who has a son and no where else to go for dinner, and my husbands son is coming also. What do I do now? I want my family back, but is this invite enough?Do I have to cancel my own plans now?

2006-12-20 17:50:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

And I sleep with him. Not "sleep" as in "sex", but sleep as in sleeping. I always call my parents around the time they wake up and tell them that I went for an early morning jog and spend the rest of the morning with my boyfriend. I'm starting to feel guilty about lying so often. Should I tell them the truth, keep doing as I have, or stop and keep the whole thing to myself?

2006-12-20 17:48:51 · 13 answers · asked by hottie_spaniard 2

I've been having home troubles and been feeling down in the dumps. Now I've been given the opportunity to move away and possilbly start over. The question that vexes me is should I say anything to my family, seeing as how I live with them, but they are the source. Don't offer any help other than the simlpe, just get over it. I tell them if it was that easy then why haven't I been able to do that?

2006-12-20 17:31:51 · 8 answers · asked by Raul V 1

My sister-in-law has done a lot for us in the past year and her present is the only one we hadn't bought before my husband lost his job at the end of November. What should we do for someone who has done so much for us? We truly appreciate all she's done and need an inexpensive way to show our love and gratitude. Help!

2006-12-20 17:17:28 · 13 answers · asked by jujube 4

He doesnt usually drink and i'm only 11 years old so I really have absolutely no idea how to pay it myself. So I really just need to know what to do in this situation. My mom left me the money and right now I'm hiding it under the keyboard.

2006-12-20 17:11:01 · 12 answers · asked by lkassica 2

It's like I can never make my parents proud. I have two brothers who are both great quarterbacks like my dad, and I have an older sister who is a straigt A student who won homcoming queen. Me, nothing. I am always sick all the time, so i waste alot of my parents money, and they always complain about it. My mom rely wants me 2 play softball also, but i tore my sholder in 4 different muscles so i couldnt play that season n i dont like it that much. But after that i played volleyball, and im rely good at it and even won MVP, but i can neva get my parents 2 come 2 a game. They jus dont care. And i want 2 tell them wut there doin n that its hurtin me, but i cant n im startin 2 not care at all anymore, n im scared im going 2 end up doin sumthing rely stupid..wut should i do? jus quit volleyball n not tell my parents wen i feel sick anymore so they wont have 2 take me 2 the hospital n waste their money? Please help n give me advise. (sry so long 2)

2006-12-20 17:00:21 · 10 answers · asked by Lizzie Girl 1

I am 27 years old. My step-daughter is 18. It has been rough dealing with her. She has lived with us since she was 16 and when she first moved in she lied and drank and stayed out all the time. She learned quickly that these things did not fly around here. We grounded her for most of her crap and that was a culture shock for her because she hadn't been grounded since she was 7 years old.

Her mother was more of a friend to her than a mother. She was a single mother basically and worked alot. I am not anything like that. I stay at home. I am very attentive and nosy. I always know what is going on in my home and I always know when she is lying.

She didn't graduate on time because her mother allowed her to miss so much school and now she is my house another year while she finishes her Senior year which should have been done last year.

My question is how do I curb this lying. I need more proof than intuition. Any suggestions?

2006-12-20 16:52:58 · 14 answers · asked by queenbuck79 2

2006-12-20 16:24:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous