My husband and I moved into our first apartment a few months ago. Our male friend (also married, we are also friends with his wife) stops by unannounced. Sometimes I am at home in my pajamas, sometimes we are asleep, and sometimes we're having a private moment or we just want to relax and watch a movie...or cook dinner for two, not three! Our friend will call and even if we do not answer, he will still stop by after he is done work. He finds excuses to come over such as "I just wanted to bring you some Pepsi." He's a great friend, but too clingy--and doesn't he have his own wife to go home to?
My husband and I just aren't comfortable with him intruding. We feel that most people would have gotten the idea after we stopped answering his phone calls when we do not want to be bothered. Should we say something to him? If so, what, and should I have to say it or should my husband? I have known this friend for about a year and a half, husband for about 7.
2006-12-20
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