and also that whatever happens i am the one to be blamed i think differentely therefore i am called mad i have gone down in my studies i don't talk to anyone in my house about this my best friend has left this city so their is no one my other friends don't respect my thoughts why can't things go right i feel that fate has dealt me a cruel hand i have everthing but still don't have anything
2006-12-20 19:20:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In my opinion, you should stop living up to other peoples standards and start living up to your own. It might take you a while to find out what your own standards are, but once you find your true self, it should hopefully come easy. Good Luck!
2006-12-20 19:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by JackDaniels024 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ,
There are some people in india they don't feel comfortable while they get there children in sports. Coz they feel that sports don't help you in future. They cannot understand you. So they blame you or fight you. This happens all time. They mostly ask you to study.
See study and sports both are important. Do your sports and study well and get good marks too. Sure you mom won't scould you anymore. She feel study is safe for you more than sports in your future. So try doing both and earn good marks. Then she won't scould you. So by this way, you make your mom happy and you too will be satisfied with your sports.
Or she might be in difficult sutiation, which she cannot explain you and make you upset. So she might be showing her angryness on you. So ask her about it,but you should not get upset if anything is bad. Best you can encourage her saying some good words.
You have to ask her directly with polite, then only she can asnwer you what she is thinking in her mind exactly. If you ask her in angryness, your answer from her will never come out.So ask her politely. So she might answer you relaxingly.
2006-12-21 12:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your mother about it and concentrate on study as well as in sports. Make a best friend again dont feel alone. I,m with u. Work hard and dont abuse ur fate and life.Enjoy it fully.Best of luck.
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2016-10-15 08:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by millie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry ya. Everything is happening with purpose. your mom must be expecting something out of you.
Talk to her and ask her what she is expecting from you. You can be my friend if you want my mail id a_lakshmi2002@yahoo.co.in
Everyone has different talents. I am also interested in sports. But my mom never allowed me to play, she wants me to study and come up in life. Being a girl she wants me to concentrate only in studies. I understand her concern. Mom always take care of their child. Pls do write to my id in detail i will definitely help you.
I also crossed your stage. I studied well and well settled now.
2006-12-20 20:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Lakshmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be bold.Boost up ur self-esteem.Make new freinds and start afresh.Dont think about the past.Dump d friends who dont respect ur thoughts.They r not ur frends at all.and any how everybody will have thir own manner of thinking ,so dont worry about dat.
First talk 2 ur mom.find out wat she wants from u.Tell ur preferences/ur goals(for dat matter set up urself some specific goals,b it studies or sports and work towards it watever others may think).Convince her.Share ur feelings with her.tell her how much u r getting hurt.Ask her out how u can make her happy and try it out sincerely.
Pls dont just sit and curse fate.,try 2 put things in right place.Pursue ur other hobbies.Relax with ur fav. music.
Do meditation,it works wonders.And help ur mom in her work,make small things wich makes her happy and find out wat makes u happy and work it out
and lastly take things easily and dont worry to much about anything.If anybody blames u for no reason just damn care about it and go off ur way
JUST LIKE WEN U WALK ON D ROAD STREET DOGS WILL BARK AT U.IF U RUN OUT OF FEAR,THEY'LL RUN AFTER U.IF U DONT CARE ABOUT DEM,THEY'LL SHUT THEIR MOUTHS
2006-12-20 20:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by ur friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to one of your parents or another adult that you feel close to. I think the most importnat thing to do would be to express how you're feeling to someone. If you're more comfortable writing a letter than talking with someone, you could write down how you feel and give it to her to read and think about. Let your mom know that you love her you're just having a hard time. Good Luck.
2006-12-20 19:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by rjs6281 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey fren....dont loose ur heart. Dont get wrong ideas by ur mom's behaviour . i knw that i am really not aware of the exact conditions between u and ur family but i still think that in this world atleast someone's mom will not think bad for their child.
My suggestion is "why dont u take it in a positive manner". and believe me in some way or other this unhappiness of ur mom is a driving force for u to do gud in ur games. So make ur mind that one day u will make ur mom happy.
best of luck buddy
bye n tc...
2006-12-20 22:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by vikas n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats ok,have a bigger heart,and dont lose that..
Look,they are all pity things,over which we should'nt worry about.
its really nice you are good in sports,can you influence your teachers or may be close relative to make your mother understand this.i am sure ,one day she is going to be proud of you
its not wrong to think differently,if your perspective towards it is right
make good friends,ofcourse you can !!,i am preety much sure your friend has also made some,
and dear ,please dont ever curse your fate.there is not one person in this whole world,who has all good things,your good times will also come,and believe me ,they will be in plenty.
dont worry.make some friends,interact with your cousins of same age,and yes...we are also good friends,talk to us more often when you like,but go out also
dont feel bad about anything,merry christmas and a wonderful new year,citiepie
2006-12-24 02:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by abc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some parents as well as coaches think if you never give someone credit for any of their accomplishments they will keep trying harder & harder to please them. For people without much common sense that may work but for anyone with a brain you should be able to see right through it.
If you like whatever sport you are doing, please keep enjoying, but only on YOUR level. Best Wishes!
2006-12-20 19:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by Psychic Sk8r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋