Family - December 2006

2006-12-21 03:47:35 · 30 answers · asked by sadloserlife 2

know its common , its as easy to as your abc and 123, I know many women who HATE their mother in law - I always said I wouldn't - always said I would be fair and nice because she brought up the man I love, but I can't help it - the hate has crept in I can't stand the woman and at times would gladly have her put down!!

even the smallest things she does incense me - like how she loves it if my fella has a hole in his work jeans, she tuts at me and makes him take them off so she can patch them????!! he has 50 pairs of jeans at home that he doesn't wear and could wear for work but she makes me feel like I am a bad woman for not sewing them for him!! I would if he wanted me to though!! she does plenty more than just that but you'd think I was mad if I started!!!!

so come on guys make me feel better and tell me ALL about your monster in law and what she does that pis*ses you off the most!!! The most cringeworthy answer gets the points - the one that makes me feel better off!!!

2006-12-21 03:46:13 · 23 answers · asked by Grace - baby No.2 due in October 3

know its common , its as easy to as your abc and 123, I know many women who HATE their mother in law - I always said I wouldn't - always said I would be fair and nice because she brought up the man I love, but I can't help it - the hate has crept in I can't stand the woman and at times would gladly have her put down!!

even the smallest things she does incense me - like how she loves it if my fella has a hole in his work jeans, she tuts at me and makes him take them off so she can patch them????!! he has 50 pairs of jeans at home that he doesn't wear and could wear for work but she makes me feel like I am a bad woman for not sewing them for him!! I would if he wanted me to though!! she does plenty more than just that but you'd think I was mad if I started!!!!

so come on guys make me feel better and tell me ALL about your monster in law and what she does that pis*ses you off the most!!! The most cringeworthy answer gets the points - the one that makes me feel better off!!!

2006-12-21 03:43:43 · 4 answers · asked by Grace - baby No.2 due in October 3

My father mentally absues my younger sister, always yelling at her and saying really mean things to her, my parents are divorced but she is much younger than I and she still has to go with him...He does not think he does anything wrong, what can I do? They have already been to court numerous times.

2006-12-21 03:43:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

and my dad still tries to rule me and i am married have a great family i cant stand it no more-i have gave and gave and i have just about had it!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-21 03:39:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you know when mom is treating you worse or better than your brother or sister?

2006-12-21 03:39:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents have been divorced for many years, but still treats me sister and I very badly. I am 20 and my sister is 13, the holidays are always very hard because he always acts like nothing is wrong, and that we are all one big happy family..Well, we are NOT...How can I be considerate over the holidays without losing my cool? thanks so much

2006-12-21 03:34:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK- I know it sounds really bad but someone bought us a gift and it's broke. Well, now the store no longer carries this type of vacumme so they won't take it back even though it's not even a couple weeks old!! It's completely broken, the engine never worked correctly - I called the manufactor and they won't fix it unless I pay for parts and to ship the darn thing!! I am going crazy!! This thing was like $150.... and now they have a new model in the store which is a little more. I am seriously thinking about buying a new one and throwing the old one in the box and returning it. Is that terrible??
Has anyone ever done this before?? If you have let me know if you got away with it!! LOL
Yes, I know it's bad Karama... but I am just so mad at the store for not trying to help me or replace it!!

2006-12-21 03:26:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 03:08:34 · 1 answers · asked by Spyder 1

I was recently invited to my fathers for xmas (I have not seen him or his side of my family in approx. 8years) I am very nervous as I know some of them do not like me. My fiance is coming with me for support and because I would like him to meet them all. Anyone have any advice so it will go smoothly. I would like to bring something but I"m not sure... maybe a bottle of wine...Help. I have not hard feelings against any of them we are all just stubborn and they like to hold grudges.

2006-12-21 03:03:21 · 6 answers · asked by lapp562 2

what should i do to make this one (16th) special??

2006-12-21 03:01:33 · 18 answers · asked by yipeee 2

A vibrator or a set of condoms?

2006-12-21 02:54:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sons girlfriend who is 10 weeks pregnant and whom we think is bio polar. 2 weeks ago for no apparent reason (or because she and my son had a fight), i get insulting sms's and a lot of verbal abuse. After about the 4th sms, then I let her have it back, and told her to never ever speak to me like this again. I told my son about it, and he said she shouldnt be allowed to get away with it and I must stick to my guns. which I am doing. Christmas is 4 days away, and we have told our son, she is not welcome at our home until she apologises. Am i being too hard.

2006-12-21 02:35:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does any 1 thing that its wrong to talk to another male or female about things that you should talk to your spouse about.Even if the other poeple is a in-law family member?Even if things that you talk about is about how sex is in the bedroom.

2006-12-21 02:20:14 · 17 answers · asked by m.green1973 1

i can never seem to get along with my sister or brother and me and my mum are always at each others throats... when other families seem so happy together

2006-12-21 02:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

a few weeks ago i asked about my daughter.
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiibNuWQMx9ye.PH6i9rsbUgBgx.?qid=20061201155634AAlvumP
now its gotten worse she has moved in with him and his family she said my house does not feel like home with out him there. she said she wants to get on with her life and be growen up she is only 17 she told me that she didnt want to see me on a night time only in the day when he is at work. ive told her not to ask me for money or for a lift any where.ive told her if she is old enough to move out she is old enough to fend for herself. but i have told her im always her day and night if she needs me.
im worried now that ive been to harsh on her.

2006-12-21 02:09:39 · 17 answers · asked by kjw 2

My daughter is 14 and every time she comes home late at 8:30, i told her to come strictly at 8. she always gets late and im tired of her, constantly beating her with my belt doesnt seem to help, i tried being more strict and using heated pans to convince her to listen to me but she still gets late coming home. whats the best way to explain her that unless she comes out on time i will beat the hell out of her and lock her in her room for a week? im tired of contanstly getting late to the club because she gets late home and i spend time spanking her with my belt and wasting my time. - mike

2006-12-21 02:04:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 02:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by lorilie 2

2006-12-21 01:53:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-21 01:47:59 · 17 answers · asked by Reo 5

I raised them alone for the most part. I always give nice gifts and Christmas; I remember their birthdays. Most of the time at Chistmas, they give me nothing. One says, "We spent on the kids this year (their kids)". The other one says, "Sorry Mom, I didn't get you nothing." I live paycheck to paycheck too, but I always manage to remember them. The one only calls to raise hell about how miserable his life is; and the other one never calls at all. I take their kids to watch one Saturday overnight a month. Other than for my grandchildren, they would have nothing or little to do with me. I am truly brokenhearted. I have debated on whether just to write them off by treating them the same way, for example at Christmas time. I thought because I worked so hard to raise them and teach them respect for others, that they would grow up to make me proud. I am disgusted with both of them.
Anyone have any suggestions?

2006-12-21 01:37:27 · 22 answers · asked by SUZANNE M 1

Okay, my grandmother passed away on dec. 20, 2000. It was incerdably difficult, since she half raised me. She was in every since on the word- my best friend.
Yet, since she has passed on, I do not look at that date with much meaning, because yes, she did die on that date, but the things I mourn are that of missing her and certain traditions we had, and spending time with her.
So that date, is really meaningless to me. That is when she dies, and not a date I care to dwell on. But my FATHER on the other hand, calls everyone on that date, (yesterday!)
and proceeds to say this is the day she died, do you remember? Oh I miss my mom, and goes on and on.
I know he had hurt, as did alot of us. But I just find it crude to call everyone just to remind them that she died, today, 6 years ago, and You will never get over it.
Is this just his sadness? And what can I say to him to break this "morbid" tradition he has started?

2006-12-21 01:35:12 · 8 answers · asked by big mommasweeta 3

2006-12-21 01:33:36 · 5 answers · asked by CHARLIEDONTSURF 2

My brother is 42 yrs old and has spent the last 15 yrs bumming around the country with a drug and alcohol problem. He recently came home for the holidays and had a HUGE fight with our mother. Appearantly there were some extremely harsh things said and my mom felt physically threatened by him. My mom has since canceled the family get-to-gether. How can I help him and try and salvage our holiday?

2006-12-21 01:08:16 · 11 answers · asked by DitziD 2

Each year we spend Christmas Eve with my (large) side of the family, then we spend Christmas morning with our immediate family (me, husband, sons)...then, Christmas afternoon, we travel to In-laws to spend a few days with them.

Well, this year, my mother-in-law sold her beautiful home for a home too small to accomodate our family (more expensive home, nonetheless). She is expecting to come to our house this year and be here while we celebrate with my side of the family, etc. Like always, my husband is siding with her.

Now, I know She and her husband are family, but, It's hard to be happy about inviting someone who tries to control everything all the time. Additionally, she has always chosen to celebrate holidays with her friends over family. This year, friends are not around, so she is trying to push her way into our plans. I am a little disgruntled to say the least.

How would you handle this?

2006-12-21 01:02:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a dilemma... I like living down in SD, weather is nice but the traffic is getting worse. I have a daughter and now I think about the quality of life I can provide her. Sure we have the beaches here and dry weather but that's about it, that can get old. I love surfing but can give it up if I knew I could do more to compensate in a new place; besides, it's so crowded in the water these days, I paddle out when it's just getting light out to get a few waves to myself.

I know real estate is not cheap up there by any means, but there's something about the pacific northwest that I find appealing. The water, climate and proximity to BC. Are there SD transplants in Seattle who could offer some insights, impart a little wisdom or even tell me I'm crazy for moving.

Thanks,
Beachless in SD

2006-12-21 00:53:33 · 5 answers · asked by qpcr8tiv 1

A few years ago my aunt (mom's sister) and uncle (her husband) were having problems. My uncle was friends with my dad, and had told my dad a bunch of lies, i.e. She is a horrible mother, she is cheating, etc. So my dad talked crap about her to make him feel better. My uncle asked my dad (and 2 of their mutual friends) to buy a camera to use to spy on her with, to see if she was cheating. My dad is an idiot and said yes. Afraid that my dad will rat him out and tell the family, my uncle tells my aunt my dad has been talking crap about her. Now alot of people in my family dislike my dad. My parents have been separated for 4 years, and my mom is just starting to move on, so she wanted to invite my dad (who is all alone) here for the holidays. Now, however, my aunt has said she will not be anywhere near my dad. So since xmas is at her house... my mom and I are spending xmas alone without the family. My dad is left feeling guilty for putting my mom in that position, my aunt is left (con't)

2006-12-21 00:47:38 · 9 answers · asked by while_love_remains 2

My brother born 1940 and registered in Oxford
His/my mother lived in London N16 at the time
Adopted from birth

2006-12-21 00:15:20 · 9 answers · asked by KEN 1

2006-12-21 00:12:30 · 10 answers · asked by Red Yeti 5

We try to talk to one another but it always ends up in an arguement. I thank it's because she knows deep down i'm saying what is true. She has the whole house in tormerl and upsets us all. My mother is 58 yrs old and she can't handle her mouth. We have tried a counsler but that did'nt help any and she's on meds that seem not to be helping. Please help us.

2006-12-21 00:11:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous