My daughter is 14 and every time she comes home late at 8:30, i told her to come strictly at 8. she always gets late and im tired of her, constantly beating her with my belt doesnt seem to help, i tried being more strict and using heated pans to convince her to listen to me but she still gets late coming home. whats the best way to explain her that unless she comes out on time i will beat the hell out of her and lock her in her room for a week? im tired of contanstly getting late to the club because she gets late home and i spend time spanking her with my belt and wasting my time. - mike
2006-12-21 02:04:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
what you are doing is physically harassing her. What you should do is sit down with her and explain to her the reasons you want her at home. Physical violence won't explain anything and it will only increase her determination to disobey you. Physical punishment has never worked and never will, so don't continue.
2006-12-21 02:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Swati B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all what the **** is wrong with you beating your child like that. no wonder she is late coming home all the time. she doesn't want to be there with you. you re doing this to her just so you can go out to the club. you are a bad father. you keep on doing what you are doing and shes going to runaway and maybe end up dead and strangled somewhere and the last thing you would remember is you beating her. you should learn how to protect your child in other ways of not hurting them. you really need help.you keep on burning her with that heated pan someone is going to call 696 kids on you and have her taken away. you gotta open you eyes and see how what you are doing affects your daughter. when your daughter is missing. comes up dead, or they take her away, you will be missing her knowing you wont be able to see her again. children are precious, you better learn to enjoy the time with her that you have because you don't know what could happen to her.
2006-12-21 02:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by vanillaswril 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay this IS a joke, if you reread your question, I am sure you will see why I say this....But in the event that you are telling the truth,
respect is earned not demanded and being open, talking to your child and actually listening you will get much better results....8:30 is not late, if you are concerned about going to the club....than your priorities are all screwed up....your child comes first.
Merry Christmas and give your daughter a break, her life is just starting, you gave that up when you decided to have children. later.
2006-12-21 02:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have completely failed to grasp the simplicity of the English language in both writing and spelling, and yet, LOL, you have a 14 yr.old daughter. Amazing, indeed, yet very, very sad.
From the explanation you give you are either very young and just being stupid here in Answers - looking for a rise out of anyone you can get to, OR, you are one sick little puppy who should quickly take steps to rid yourself from your daughter. Take her anywhere and drop her off - she'll come out a whole lot better without you in her life than being forced to put up with your ignorant absurdity any longer. What a putz you are!
2006-12-21 02:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by mellow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There must be something wrong w/ u. I really couldn't believe what I was reading. I don't think ur story is legit. You hit ur daughter so u could get to the club on time?? what kind of a parent are u? You are abusing ur daughter, and I wouldn't blame her if she runs away. She doesn't want to come home to u.
2006-12-21 02:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by fldrod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you arent serious. Just in case you are (which I hope you aren't): 8:30 is not a late time to be home for a 14 year old. Even 10:00 is not late. I think you'd need to stop being over-protective and also stop hitting her :)
2006-12-21 02:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all she probably stays out late to stay away from you! what 14 year old would want to come home to a person they knew would beat them and lock them away and burn them with cooking pans! you might try a little compasson "cool dad" otherwise your daughter is going to be out of your life as soon as it's posssible to get away from you. I don't blame her. Tell your daughter she's welcome at my house; we don't "beat the hell" out of those we love.
2006-12-21 02:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Keli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you spend time with her instead of going to the club?? obviously you are a bad dad, so she feels you dont have authority b/c you go to the club and party like someone a couple of years older than her would do.. beating your daughter is cruel since she is 14, its called abuse or assult. grow up and pull your head out of your butt, be a dad instead of a wanna be playa
2006-12-21 02:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by collegechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, in your other "question" your daughter is 13. She's aging fast.
I think you're an attention seeking wanker, and my guess is that if you actually do have a daughter, that would be the one and only time you've ever had sex.
As I said in answer to your other "question", I believe in karma, so I'm smiling, baby.
I bet you pee into the wind, too.
2006-12-21 02:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by Donna M 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
u ******* monster. she 14 to old 4 that, and thats harrasment and u should do that to no one. u should have shot sperm and got her pregant and had a kid if u hit her u dont deserve ur daughter and ur a bad parent. tell she cant go out and she is grounded. then she wouldnt be late cause she already home u sick ****** up dad. wat u do is abusement and she should call the police and have u put away.
2006-12-21 23:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋