Does any 1 thing that its wrong to talk to another male or female about things that you should talk to your spouse about.Even if the other poeple is a in-law family member?Even if things that you talk about is about how sex is in the bedroom.
2006-12-21 02:20:14 · 17 answers · asked by m.green1973 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's wrong to talk about what goes on in the bedroom with any one besides your spouse you know how they say what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom! Or else be ready to have other people use it agianst you.
2006-12-21 02:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well I have a similar situation my husbands sister happens to be the same age as me so is almost perfect having her around bc we can talk and just be friends but as with any other gf the sex talks just happen ;) I guess its a chick thing .....well with her she use to always ask me sex advice so I would kinda share some experiences with her then answer her question the best I could WELL to some point when she KNEW i was referring the her brother she would get a lil freaked out and once I remember her flipping out on me ...but after that we kinda talked an established a boundary....so depending on who your talking to and if it is just a between friends talk and not something serious that you should be talkin to your husband about then its up to you whether its ok or not and whether or not its really okay with the person your talkin to as well ;) Im not sure if I answered your question But Good Luck!
2006-12-21 11:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by shy_chick4you 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you want your bedroom to be an open book--it's up to you!! Actually your bedroom should be the most private area of you and your spouses life together.
2006-12-21 10:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex and any kind of intimacy should be left only for you and your spouce. Thats why its called 'intimacy' because its something intimate. I dont, wont, couldnt and wouldnt talk about what goes on behind closed doors w/my husband. That gives other people a reason to spread rumors and to look at you funny or to just talk about you. I think whats private should stay private
2006-12-21 10:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some things are not meant to be shared with anyone other than your partner. This is one of those things. There is a special intimate bond between you & your spouse, and when either of you discuss what goes on behind closed doors, that bond is broken.
2006-12-21 10:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Romans 8:28 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think its wrong. especially with an in law. i think your spouse would be pretty upset if they found out, i know i would be. that is really personal. its something you should discuss with him. what if he found out from his family that you are talking about bedroom things with them. and i think that you do actually feel that its wrong, and you must feel guilty about it, otherwise you wouldnt ask this question. you already know the answer. try not to do it, its wrong.
2006-12-21 10:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL IT DEPENDS .
I MEAN IF YOU & YOUR IN-LAWS ARE VERY CLOSE & OPEN MINDED & FEEL COMFOTABLE THEN I SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT, I AM A PARENT ( ALL GROWN UP & GONE) BUT MY DAUGHTER -IN LAWS & SON- IN LAWS CAN TALK TOO ME ABOUT ANYTHING, I RAISED MY CHILDREN TOO FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH ANYTHING THEY HAVE TOO SAY SO NO! NOTHING WRONG ABOUT THAT KIND OF TALK IF YOU HAVE OPEN MINDED IN -LAWS & YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE DOESN'T MIND. BUT I THINK THERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT SHOULD BE TOTALLY KEPT PRIVATE BETWEEN THE HUSBAND & WIFE. LEAVE SOME SPACE FOR IMTIMANCY FOR YOU TWO ONLY
2006-12-21 20:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by JEANNETTE S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and the other person are comfortable talking about sex, have at it! my sister in law is also one of my best friends, and sex comes up in our conversations!!! don't worry what other people think, as long as you are comfortable talking about it do it!!! if you can't talk to family about anything, who can you talk to? ps i'm sorry all these other people must not be comfortable with talking about sex. some families aren't as open as mine
2006-12-21 10:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, not so long as you have received permission from your partner to talk about your bedroom life with another party.
2006-12-21 10:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ACK! That's weird!
You should only talk to your spouse, and maybe a really close girlfriend! (unless you're the Fockers, but that's still gross)
2006-12-21 11:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by kristin c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋