Family - December 2006

My fiance and his mother have a really bad relationship. She strung him through a series of abusive husbands and a horrible family life. We have a 3 month old now, and she's only seen him once and has no pics of him. On the other hand, she has only called once about him and seems pretty obsessed with making her current b/f happy, although he's pretty abusive to her too. I agreed not to let her have the baby alone at her house (don't trust her b/f, and she is a little off) but I still feel bad about not taking the initiative to invite her over. Although she and her former lovers did a lot of really bad things to him in the past, should I call her or leave that to him? My family and I are pretty close, and I wouldn't know how to handle this situation. He thinks she will give him a lot of bad ideas because she does tend to lie a lot and distort what happened to him as a child, and I've heard these things about her from a lot of other people so I don't think it's a biased opinion.

2006-12-20 16:12:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my parents are divorced and my father is married again, but the thing is that the woman is really mean to me when my dad is not around. They live in another city and my dad wants me to go and vsit them for the Holidays, I wish I could say no, but he is so excited about my visit that I just can't do that to him, but his wife is just hideous what do I do????

I'm really nice to her but she keeps being mean, they used to live in MIAMI and they moved, now she is blaming me for that and won't let him spend a penny on me. On my last visit I got sick and the bi&ch won't let him pay for my medicines!!!!! I did't WANT him to pay for them 'cause I'm an adult and quite cappable of paying for anyhting I could need but the attitude is what bothers me.
Besides I don't think she treats him very well...

2006-12-20 16:09:21 · 2 answers · asked by nobodysfool 4

My mother-in law lives 20 minutes away and never comes to see her grandchildren or call to see how they are. When they do see her, which is problely once every six months, she showers them with gifts and lectures them like she has actually been there for them and cares.

2006-12-20 16:02:58 · 19 answers · asked by goodgrlelectric2 1

my brother is having a little boy in Feb. shes black hes white, they already have a little girl and her name is Nyasia La'Nay. they have no idea what they are going to name this little boy, my sister-in-law said that if i had a name she liked she might name him that. anyways hope yall have better names than i do. thanks for ur help.

2006-12-20 15:54:09 · 23 answers · asked by ThE GreAtEsT thEr eVer wAs! JaNa 2

I am 21 years old and I am marrying the father of my baby. We have been together for two years and were engaged before I got pregnant. I am finding it hard to tell my parents because I don't get along with them that well.

2006-12-20 15:34:45 · 17 answers · asked by Robin G 1

2006-12-20 15:31:18 · 5 answers · asked by mileamin69 1

ok i looooooooooove christmas and i always go overboard with everything christmassy!! i am babysitting tomorrow for about three hours for family friends. and of course being so close to christmas i planned heaps of christmas activities to do! and it all seemed like a great idea at the time, but now i am thinking i may have done too much. the thing is i refuse to charge these people for looking after their kids too. i have bought a ginger bread house and lollies for the kids to decorate. then i also bought two white ceramic plates for the kids to draw a christmas picture on with ceramic paints so they can give them to their mum and dad for christmas. do you think this is too much? i mean they will love it and everyting, but money wise do you think it will look a little insane if they come to pick their kids up and they have a gingerbread house and two plates? am i being paranoid or have i once again gone over the top at christmas?

2006-12-20 15:29:36 · 8 answers · asked by purple__penguin 2

2006-12-20 15:17:28 · 16 answers · asked by j 1

2006-12-20 14:56:14 · 12 answers · asked by Laky 1

Okay my friend always looks horrible. She never fixes her hair, her clothes always has holes in them, she never brushes her teeth or takes care of her face or her nails. Theyre always dirty! She has funky feet and she smokes! I tried to fix her up but she refuses! People talk about her and she doesnt realize it. What can i do to convince her shes embrassing me and ruining my life too!!

2006-12-20 14:47:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know if it is best to get a lawyer when filing for child support in Texas. I am the custdiol parent of my son and the father did not sign the acknwoldgment pf paternity. His Father now has got married and she is now pregnant too. I have been letting him see our son almost when ever he wants, but now he is getting ugly with and threatning a custody battle. I have had an intresting past but I do have a good job and support myself and my son. His Father is very vile persona and likes to fight dirty. I just want to know the best way to protect myself.

2006-12-20 14:15:27 · 7 answers · asked by Kelly K 2

lets say some one u love(grandparents, dad, mom, brother/sister) dies or went away how would u feel about that?....WHAT WILL U MISS ABOUT THEM????

2006-12-20 13:59:18 · 22 answers · asked by Me 6

My family very christian and i am too, i believe in God and Jesus and i pray alot. I am youngest girl in my family (12 year) my friends say youngest is supposed to be spoiled but i dont get spoiled at all ever, my mom and me used to get along so good but now shes always upset with me about things i do and i am getting in trouble all the time and many times since my birthday shes gotten mad enouigh to spank me hard i mean hard enough i cry!! She say it always is for my own good and because she love me and i know she does love me but still i dont like bein punished that way its like for lil kids and im older now!!! She say thing to like how Bible says to spare rod and spoil child and when im in trouble she needs to spank me to remind me be a better girl. Is that true??? I wish she could understand it not same anemore as when she was younger!! How can i talk to her about it????

2006-12-20 13:57:13 · 6 answers · asked by Tia 2

Why or Why not?

2006-12-20 13:40:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a married woman for 6 yrs yet without a kid and was separated with my husband for a year now.. i met my bf and present him with my family at first they accepted him but after 5 months of our relationship suddenly my family changed their treatment on him. my mom said they don't like him bec they knew from others that he's not rich. although he did not telling that he's rich or not..well for me it doesn't matter coz i loved him so much until this time this is our problem my family wanted me to get rid away from him or else they will kick me out of the house and go with him but ive a work and i love my work which is near at our house. my bf's house is very far it took 9 hours travel. should i follow my heart and turn away from my family? they wanted me to marry a foreigner yes i had a chatmate but i ignore their proposal bec of my bf.

2006-12-20 13:38:26 · 11 answers · asked by ms_wholehearted 1

grandma buys bigs things for grand daughter but nothing for the other kids bro and sister with different dads

2006-12-20 13:37:49 · 16 answers · asked by timsbabe 5

I am looking for a poems about a teenage girl is suppose to be at her friends house but later goes to a party with as guy , gets into a accident and she tells the doctor to tell her parents she is sorry and she loves them to find out the other couple in the accident was her parents and they had past away

2006-12-20 13:35:13 · 5 answers · asked by Isidora H 1

my mom is always yelling and im sorry, but im not perfect. she doesn't know how hard i try and when she blames me for something i didn't do, i think it's kinda meaningless to tell her it wasn't me...i could really use some help?

2006-12-20 13:19:31 · 11 answers · asked by baby 2

I saw that I am coming back from work and I am at the front door of my house and am telling him I just left work I walked in my bedroom and saw him with another women in bed. I took his truck keys and rushed out the door crying and he ran outside to stop me but I did not stop and after that my alarm clock went off........pls help its driving me nuts

2006-12-20 13:04:43 · 10 answers · asked by sosoqueen 2

does anyone think it is weird/funny/ or anything at all wrong with a girl havin a guys name like Devin Michaeland Devin with"i-n" is the way a girl spells it but still

2006-12-20 13:04:31 · 13 answers · asked by female football player 1

i need a short father/daughter quote to put on a picture frame for my dad for christmas? any ideas?

2006-12-20 13:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by AAF 2

i look like my dad so much.
everytime me and my friends fight
they call me my dads name
but im a girl
i looked in the mirroa yesthurday
ilooked just like him

2006-12-20 12:33:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

About two weeks ago my boyfriend and I were having some trouble. Currently I am 21 weeks pregnant.. Anyway he told his parents about the argument and his mom and dad both said that they didnt want me to come around during the holidays. We have been together just over 6yrs. We come from the same town and are home for the holidays. He is trying to make me go to his house. I dont want to because both his mom and dad hate me and they made a point of it,his mom has some kind of anger issues she called me just about 2 wks ago and told me she would have a restraining order and all of this other BS. I dont hold any kind of grudges or anything I am a really nice person and I wish I could say that about his parents as well. Anyway I really dont know what to do.. I would say I am sorry but I wasnt the one that exchanged the bad words. I feel as if they are the ones who owe me an apology. But I feel bad that my bf is in the middle.

2006-12-20 12:26:45 · 18 answers · asked by vidamar 2

They chat it up with evry1 else including my kids. I have made every effort to be nice and helpful (w/her baby shower and using my truck to bring her baby furniture from sac. to SF) and still I get the feeling I'm not welcome. Maybe cause I married my husband before she married her husband even though they were together already. Maybe I stole her thunder? I dunno. They have me pissed off as hell. She has even gone as far as correcting me in my native language which she does not speak!!! What the heck? My hubby is pissed off too. We don't get together for functions anymore and this Xmas will be the 1st that were not there w/my in laws and other family. I cant help feeling that they got what they wanted. What would you advise on this mess?

2006-12-20 12:19:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i like this girl but her parents dont know she is dating me cause she is scared they will get angry and i cant even call her do you think it's not worth the relationship or is it!

2006-12-20 12:04:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, My mom and dad hates eachother, so my mom wants me to live with her in Newjersey. I currently live with dad in Northcarolina.
I don't know what to do. She asked me a couple of seconds ago if I wanted to live with her. She thinks my dad doesn't take care of me..Like he buys me clothes,games,food. She says he doesn't care about me. I use to visit my mom every summer and christmas break now..my dad won't let me. Shes really upset about it. Being up there makes me really homesick. Should I just move up there and see how it goes? Or stay with my dad?

2006-12-20 12:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by napoleon1dyn 1

I have 2 daughters age 16 and 14 that want to come live with me instead of their mother.

2006-12-20 12:00:05 · 1 answers · asked by richard m 1

i always feel sad on holidays, people on tv look so happy and i feel so sad, i wish i could just hide till its gone,, am i just crazy? what can i do to feel happy.. i did the stupid tree got gfts for everyone made cookies gave blood, money to the poor, collected pine cones made stupid crap and gave it away i still just want to die holdays alway make me feel icky

2006-12-20 11:53:44 · 9 answers · asked by glitsyjewels 3

My children are 12, 13, 15, 17, 18, 22, and 23. All of them are handicapped in one way or another. It hurts so much I don't know what I have done wrong. I have tried so hard for them to have the perfect life. But was I proved wrong. My 12 yr old is destroying his own life he calls the police on me, hes been in the psychatric center 2 times now.And as usual they say nothing is wrong. My 13 yr old is critically ill and it gets harder to handle every day. My 15 yr old has been placed because of his behavior. my older 4 are just completely messing up there lives and I don't know how to stop them from destroying there lives.
I want so bad to run away and forget about all of this, but I can't because I am a mother. So what do I do?

2006-12-20 11:41:06 · 9 answers · asked by mistyjlr 2

Two fathers, one is a musician and the other has been hiding out in North Carolina. How can child support be enforced?

2006-12-20 11:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by weekendgurl36 1