ok i like this girl but her parents dont know she is dating me cause she is scared they will get angry and i cant even call her do you think it's not worth the relationship or is it!
2006-12-20 12:04:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you sound soooo young!
keep her, the parent- trouble is just a part of the exitement when youre young and dating... goodluck!
2006-12-20 12:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can really answer that one but it sounds that if you have to be on here asking a question like this, theres a real good chance youve already figured this out. Basically, if youre doubting whether a relationship is worth it or not, then it usually isnt. There are challenges in every relationship but if the two of you cant or wont overcome them, then youre in serious trouble. Her parents impose a huge trouble here and there will be a strong tie here between her and her parents that you wont be able to break. So until she can deal with her parents,this relationship wont work so its time to cut your losses and move on to a much easier relationship or the time comes she can deal with mom and dad. Good luck and Merry Christmas
2006-12-20 13:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are in luck because i have been in this situation before. my first boyfriend and I went out for 8 months behind my mother's back because she didnt want me to date. so around my mom we pretended we were very good friends and if we wanted to hang out I would tell my mom I was going out to the mall with my friends and he would tag along. i believe it was worth it because it obviously lasted quite along time and i really loved him. we are still friends today. we aimed alot too and we had myspaces and xangas. though my mom did let me use the phone to talk to him. if you two are like this i say go for it. if you really care about her dont stop fighting for her. stand up for what you believe in. but if things are going to be too complicated maybe you should just become good friends and wait till her parents would approve. but before any decisions are made really evaluate your relationship and base your decision on your feelings toward her.
2006-12-20 12:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and this person has a good connection you willn't let anything get in the way of your relationship. And I think that it is worth the relationship.
2006-12-20 12:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Shizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you can't call doesnt mean she can't call you...if she can't even do that then i wouldnt take the risk of her parents hating you because of her sneaking around behind their backs
2006-12-20 12:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for her then do what is right and stay away.
2006-12-20 12:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋