i am a married woman for 6 yrs yet without a kid and was separated with my husband for a year now.. i met my bf and present him with my family at first they accepted him but after 5 months of our relationship suddenly my family changed their treatment on him. my mom said they don't like him bec they knew from others that he's not rich. although he did not telling that he's rich or not..well for me it doesn't matter coz i loved him so much until this time this is our problem my family wanted me to get rid away from him or else they will kick me out of the house and go with him but ive a work and i love my work which is near at our house. my bf's house is very far it took 9 hours travel. should i follow my heart and turn away from my family? they wanted me to marry a foreigner yes i had a chatmate but i ignore their proposal bec of my bf.
2006-12-20 13:38:26 · 11 answers · asked by ms_wholehearted 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You know what family is always family and they will always have their opinions but you need to step away and show them that their opinions do not dictate your life choices. They have to realize that you are grown and have to make your choices for yourself.. You cant live and learn if you dont live for yourself ..
2006-12-20 13:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family needs to stop and think what's really important. Just sitting there gazing into each others eyes can make you feel "richer" than all the money in the world. If money is the only reason they're rejecting him, they must be very shallow, right? If they truly love you, as they should, they won't kick you out. Explain to them that you believe "he's the one" and when you're with him, you *are* rich.
2006-12-20 13:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by zosofan59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 13:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so wrong of your family to do. I think they should step back and realize that you are not a twelve year old but a grown woman! If you love him, stay with him and forget what the family thinks of him.
Good luck!
2006-12-20 13:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your family disapproves your bf just because he's not rich, you should go with him anyway. But remember to ask for your bf's opinion before moving in with him.
2006-12-20 13:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had a life before,with another man, and it didn't work out. good that you have gotten over it.now that you are in love with someone else,wanting to spend the rest of your life with this particular man, you should follow your heart.family is important, but fulfilling their wishes by sacrificing your life again.just don't work.explain to them that you are in love with him.and how you want your life to be now.
2006-12-20 13:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your family garbage is garbage you can pick that up anywhere. You want a strong man not a coward and thats what you have.
2006-12-20 13:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Good Grief 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk with your family and see why they do not like him anymore.
sometimes they can see things that you can not see, and pls listen to them and see if they have a point and then let them know what you think and feel.
I am sure your family love you and want you the best
Good luck
2006-12-20 13:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you love each other, go! it's worth the fight. but remember, youre still married with another guy.
2006-12-20 13:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by zsarrone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup fallow ur heart later on ur family would understant and like him u just fallow ur heart!!?!??!don t worry
2006-12-20 13:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by MARIA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋