I am 21 years old and I am marrying the father of my baby. We have been together for two years and were engaged before I got pregnant. I am finding it hard to tell my parents because I don't get along with them that well.
2006-12-20 15:34:45 · 17 answers · asked by Robin G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Whether you have them to your home or take them out to a meal is up to you and your fiance but wherever, present it to them togehter in a positive way. If his parents are near, maybe you could have them all over for a pre-wedding celebration of some sort. If you have set the date for the wedding (and they don't know it yet), tell them when it is and how excited you are that your love for each other is completely committed and that you are going to have a baby in (month??). If they can't accept it now, don't worry, they will when the baby arrives. Something about a sweet innocent baby that brings parents (grandparents) around and they forget they were ever upset. Good luck.
2006-12-20 15:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 05:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as parents we want our children to do better than we did, and at 21 you will be struggling along through life with a child,
tell them in private,, I wouldnt be surprised if they cry
2006-12-20 15:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AT HOME! if you tell them at home that gives them the chance to yell and scream if they are freaked about it, in puplic if they yell everyone will start to ask questions about what is going on and everything and i dont think you want that. Oh! and make sure your fiance is there will you at the time.
2006-12-20 16:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely tell them in your home. This way, if they decide to get really loud and upset, you won't be humiliated by this in public. This is the sort of thing to do in private anyway, I feel.
2006-12-20 15:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell them at home..its gonna be a very personal moment and if you dont know how they will react, you dont want to break the news in public. it could be embarrassing for all of you! i would also recommend have your fiance there with you..if they are going to be upset you want some one to be on your side :) well--good luck!!
2006-12-20 15:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Shina Beana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your fiancee together in private. You're an adult, but are you concerned about their reaction because you are still under their roof? If you have your own place, then tell them, and if they react badly, ask them to leave or go home.......depending on whose house you choose to have the chat.
2006-12-20 15:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by alwayslarat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents will respect a private discussion rather then being asked to handle this in a public environment. Respect them, tough discussions are never easy, that's why they are called tough. You have one chance to make this decision.
2006-12-20 15:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kirk T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 21 not a teenager if they don't like it they will just have to get over it. I would just tell them. Good Luck!!
2006-12-20 15:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by The_Game 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them somewhere where it isn't just you and your parents.
When my mom told her mom that she was pregnent, my grandma nearly gave birth herself! Even if I was raped, I'd still be EXTREMLY nnevvour to tell her...
I mean, she can't beat the crap out of you if in your public, or with someone else.
2006-12-20 17:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋