I know its sick and wierd but we can't help feeling this way about each other. I mean even though we are cousins we can't fall out of love. I feel for him deep and I haven't felt like that about any other boy before. I am 16 and my cousin is 21 and I have loved him like forever and I wasn't planning to tell him that I love him romantically until he told me that for some reason he gets jealous whenever he sees me with guys. The only thing we have ever done was kiss once and it was scary. I want to tell my family but he thinks that we should keep it a secret. Please I'm confused and need help!
2006-12-20 22:20:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Seek counseling it is normal to have a crush on a family member but not to kiss them, you need to seek some professional help maybe through peer counseling or maybe something your school offers.
2006-12-20 22:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by caralinar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a pair of motives he needs you to maintain it a secret: a million. it quite is possibly unlawful the place you reside 2. you're underage, so he ought to pass to reformatory 3. he's not in love with you, yet might like a actual relationship with you certainly do no longer do something which incorporate your cousin back. you're underage and he's taking advantage of your thoughts for him. in case you have been to tell your loved ones, he'd possibly deny that he'd ever kissed you're had thoughts for you. you're too youthful to understand what a risky undertaking it relatively is for you presently, in spite of the shown fact that it quite is. Take my word for it and pass away him on my own. basically through fact he gets jealous whilst he sees you with different adult adult males does not propose he loves you. the reality which you got here upon kissing him frightening and he does not opt to tell your loved ones ought to permit you already know something approximately how beside the point it relatively is. you already realize it quite is, on your guy or woman words, "ill and unusual." pass away him on my own.
2016-10-15 08:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your 16 this is the time in your life where your suppose to fall in and out of love. But not with your cousin. 10 years from now your going to wonder what the heck you were thinking. And things are going to be really weird between you and him. Now get out of this NOW!!!!!! And get a boyfriend that isn't related to you. Ok???
2006-12-21 14:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Nursesomeday 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Long distance, is what I'd suggest. lol Kidding!
Well, hmmmm.....this is a tough one. My best advice to you is to give this some time to work itself out. We aren't meant to spend our romantic lives with a relative. At your age, many things seem very different than they do even at age 25..
Whatever you do....don't get married, or preggers. You will see....in time, it will become clear to you what you need to do. But, for now.....I don't think that I would cause an upheavel in the old family unit. Don't tell them. What good would it do, anyway?
Bide your time, Sweetie.
2006-12-20 22:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by treefrog 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell your family and lose the feelings for the cousin.
2006-12-20 22:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As already said that this is wrong then why u don't stop these feelings from ur self. It is just attraction towards ur cousin & it is happen becoz of ur kiss. So forget it & never do this again. Ur age is less dear so keep distance from this type of feelings for ur cousin.
2006-12-20 22:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by care 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you are trully in love your family and cousin should already know.
2006-12-20 22:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by 38C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first i would make sure that u both have serious feeling. You don't want to tell everyone then find out u want to break up.
2006-12-20 22:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's a road you don't want to go down
2006-12-20 22:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by nbr660 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋