Family - December 2006

how can a mother protect child from a semingly charming man with a vile temper full of verbal abuse which he uses on anyone who causes him stress of any kind, when it appears that its all about fathers rights

2006-12-28 10:47:48 · 7 answers · asked by vanora s 1

If you can write why you love one more than the other.

2006-12-28 10:28:23 · 21 answers · asked by Ashley 4

ok....our 20 yr. old daughter has a real sense of entitlement. She expects us to pay bills she has incurred when she can't pay them. She is unemployed again and seems unwilling to try to find work that she feel is "beneath"her.... what can I do so make her understand that everyone has to pull their own weight, provide their own way...make their own happiness.

2006-12-28 10:26:56 · 13 answers · asked by karen h 3

I need one free reading on my father that passed away on oct.11 i need to know what he needed to tell me or say to me?? plz i need it badly... 12 and hurt

2006-12-28 10:18:32 · 2 answers · asked by Rickel 1

I live in wisconsin and found out that my son and his mother live in ill i found out that her new husband was abusing my son i need legal help he is in foster care but i need a lawyer willing to help please or info to get one please please

2006-12-28 10:16:49 · 3 answers · asked by Chuck & Christy N 3

i just received a car and all i need is insurance. my father and i are going to pay for it, but he doesnt have custody of me so the address of the insurance has to be in my mothers, therefore i have to be under her insurance and my father will still pay for it.
but she says no!! she is a very hard headed person. ive tried talking to her but she doesnt want to reason. please help?

2006-12-28 10:10:55 · 2 answers · asked by elizabeth r 1

2006-12-28 10:08:50 · 13 answers · asked by haley_miller1996 1

Is it ok to be uncomfortable around sad ppl even though there cryin about ur dad? is it ok to wanna jst get away and go someplace happy? I hate goin to the cemetary i refuse to.

12 and confused

2006-12-28 10:03:44 · 4 answers · asked by Rickel 1

my mom has been kind of upset lately cuz my dad has been in a crappy mood and taking it out on her (he yells at her if something is wrong) be cause hes sick. well my mom is kind of sad and now she even feels worse b/c she just burnt garlic bread in the oven! well whatever i say (oh, its okay) she just feels the same ! how do i make her feel better?

2006-12-28 10:03:28 · 7 answers · asked by Jelly 3

i have a friend that has a mom who's mom won't let her own daughter go out to the doctor or any where and her own mom called her a mistake cuz she is fat and she would lock her daughter in her my friends room and her mom don't care if she was dead and she let her have any friends @ all and my friends bed room door has a lock on her door she would her die in there her mom doesn't care if she ran away from home her own mom don't care if she live or die. her mom is a dumb *** child service would've taken away from her cuz she is unfit mother to her own 17 year old daughter if her mom punched her in the face. what should i do.? glad i have a heart to accept who they are where they coming from.

2006-12-28 10:00:51 · 5 answers · asked by STEALTH NINJA 2

My father found out last year he has a terminal illness and in the last few months has went downhill rapidly .Ive always been close to him but the opposite would be an understatement where my mother is concerned.Some of the things she says and does you wouldnt think a mother capable of and i would go as far as to say i really dont love like or care about her.My dad knows how i feel and has always been supportive (she treats him just as badly)now she,s doing the grief stricken wife thing and yet after his diagnosis i asked her how she was answer "worried sick i dont know how im going to manage financially" my dad has now asked me to try and resolve my issues with her "for him" what i want to say is that ive tried and tried for years and now i couldnt care less or do i pretend to make him happy knowing after he,s gone i,ll never see her.Please dont judge me on how i feel about her im sure if you knew her you,d know where im coming from.

2006-12-28 09:58:49 · 27 answers · asked by smiler 4

very rude step children. Expect me to give them gifts and they do not give me gifts.

2006-12-28 09:58:34 · 8 answers · asked by special p 1

I married my husband 2 years ago, we have been together for 5 very happy years. His mother disliked me from day 1 because I "stole her son" away from her.

He is her only child and she hasn't had a boyfriend in years. Luckily, since we married she has "tried to embrace" me and is no longer mean to me.

I am pregnant with our first child and when she found out she kept crying from actual happiness! She said she was so happy that she was going to be a grandma and knew I would be a wonderful mother.

Do you think we will finally have something to bond over? I am not expecting us to be best friends, but it would be nice for us to maybe shop for the baby together or finally have something in common. We have very different personalities so we don't hang out.

2006-12-28 09:49:51 · 7 answers · asked by PrettyWifey 2

I got into a financial jam and I owe my mom $200.00. She's being really pissy about it and I'm doing all that I can to get her the money back. Is she wrong for being mad at me? We all have responsibilities and I know that $200 is a lot to owe someone, but, I am working hard to give her money back. Should I be upset because she's angry with me and talking badly about me to my other siblings?

2006-12-28 09:38:23 · 18 answers · asked by Nessy 2

tell my parents I am engaged?

2006-12-28 09:35:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well.... On my dad's side of the family, my aunt has been stealing money from his work for 5 years. Now they won't get along and since they dont, our annual Christmas Eve party that we've had every year was canceled. And my aunt has been going to all my other familys parties and it's not fair because she is the one that is the bad one! How can they get back together? On my mom's side of the family my aunt is being mean to her daughter and her daughter fights back so the daughter got put under house arrest and she is staying at my house. Her mom keeps calling and she keeps calling my mom bad words. She made my mom cry. And she keeps saying she isn't taking drugs but she keeps acting all strange. Please help me!

2006-12-28 09:29:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an 8yo who has only met his biological father a few times, as we lost contact after i became pregnant, i finally tracked him down after four years, at first he was really kind and eager to meet his son, but then just cut off llike a switch...i havnt put any pressure on him, yet he has decided until a dna test is done he doesnt want to take part in his life, only problam is i cannot afford the test and he wont help pay for it...so i the meantime my son is losing out on knowing his dad, he wants to know things about his fathers side of the family history even tho he doesnt know his father, its a natural curiosity and i feel he deserves to know this as they are part of the same blood? His father wont share any info at all except for the dribs and drabs i knew of him when we were together nearly 9 years ago...what do i do?

I have also made it clear i do NOT want any child support or anything like that from him, just his input in his life, at least some info and photos ect...

2006-12-28 09:11:55 · 10 answers · asked by Katie 1

Okay, I just got engaged but I am so lost. I don’t even know where to start as far as planning goes. My mother does not believe in marriage so she is the most sportive and helping person. I don’t have many friends so I don’t have any help. I thought when you got engaged everyone is supposed to be fighting over helping me plan but no one is helping me! I don’t know what to do or where to start. I am so sad and mad at the same time. I have cried more because of this and not because of the actual engagement. Could anyone let me in on where to start and if there are any books you would recommend? I have searched the Internet but it keeps leading me to dead ends. I know I need to send out engagement announcements and I already got a great idea for that from some one on this answer thing. But what else! This is supposed to be a happy time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-28 08:52:19 · 6 answers · asked by goldie89lynn 1

In the state of Oregon, can he give up his rights without my husband adopting my daughter at the same time?

2006-12-28 08:31:56 · 3 answers · asked by ZoMan 2

Im not sure if this family has the "normal" problems family usually have, or this family is just really messed up.
My husband's grandfather's mother was neglectful and obsessive, the father was alcoholic and physically abusive. The grandfather grew mistrusting woman so he became "macho" and has some hate towards women so he married a woman who was pretty passive, she was also pretty obsessive, the grandfather is kinda controlling and has an addiction to cigars. They had 3 children (my husband's mom, aunt and uncle) my husband's mom (my mother in law) is kinda obsessive, she buys compulsively, is kinda controlling, and gets irritated easily, her sister is very nervous, she needs to take anxiety medicine, the uncle is alchoholic.
Well, it sounds sucky but all of this people also have a good share of good qualities.
My mother in law, father in law and husband insist that their situation is just "reality" and that I have a rose colored view of life.

2006-12-28 08:31:07 · 16 answers · asked by Alejandra 1

my mother in law intervines in evertything!!!! shes really nosy and is starting to get on my nerves!!!!!

2006-12-28 08:28:16 · 12 answers · asked by evilstranger90 1

I'm 14 and our relationship was destroyed 1 year ago, because they were to harsh on me when I made a mistake. I'm extrenely resentful. Sometimes I wish we could fix our relationship, but it seems to be impossible

2006-12-28 08:12:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents just paid off a loan for my husband and I. I want to do something really nice for them. We plan on taking them out to dinner. Does anyone have any more/better ideas?

2006-12-28 08:10:04 · 6 answers · asked by belly 1

Family Problems:

My step mom and my mom fought with each other a long time ago and still my step family don't talk to my mom because of that. I used to visit my step family but my mom was mad about that. Anyways, I got sick and tire visiting them but they don't visit me or call me. So, I stopped going to their house.

Now, my step family is mad at me because I don't visit them no more. I didn't go to my step sister's wedding because I knew they were still mad at me.

Now, I have a sister in law, I used to visit her house every saturday and sunday. I call her so many times but she don't pick the phone. Then, she calls me and get mad at me because I don't visit her no more.

Why always gotta be my fault? I think people take advantage of me because I'm always way too nice and I respect people way too much.

2006-12-28 08:09:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cannot stand these people. They have been rude and nasty to me and my 2 adult children. I figure they have enough money to support this baby and it will never have anything to worry about. Both grandfathers are railroaders and they make megga bucks. When they have family gatherings, they do not invite my 2 grown kids unless they hope to gain something such as a gift (as in this case). Should I just buy a gift. They did not invite my nieces 8 aunts, and she is such a recluse, I cannot imagine who they are inviting to this shower. She was home schooled and really doesnt have even 1 good friend except for my daughter who wasnt sent an invitation to the shower. My sister (her aunt) wasnt invited and after we talked, she said she would sent the baby a gift after it was born. This is so ridiculous. What to do? I know I sound like a ******, but you would have to have seen this family, they are so rude and nasty.

2006-12-28 08:07:26 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6

As a stupid Muslim-who never understood Islam correctly- I believed in no relation with women before marriage. I never had a chance even to be a friend with a girl before getting married. When I was 25 I found that I need to have a wife in my life. I did not think about it enough and asked my family to find whether my uncle’s daughter suits me or not. In my crazy family you can talk to the girl only for few times. Because if you are going to love her that would be enough. Although I had a Master degree I was stupid enough to follow them and choose her. I loved her for the first couple of days but then I went abroad for 1 year for study. I thought that I would have the same feeling after getting back. But I was not so. I did not love her anymore but I couldn’t leave her because I was thinking that this will ruin her life and God doesn’t like that. It is more than 4 years now that I am trying to love her and live with her but I can’t. I really don’t know what to do.

2006-12-28 08:06:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

It hurts i feel it every day but its been over a year and it still hurts my mom thinks iam over it but how do u get over something like that? iam only twelve

2006-12-28 08:04:30 · 6 answers · asked by Rickel 1

He is angry that I want to go immediately when we have planned January to move into a new house. I live & work 6000 km away in Argentina and I now feel guilty that I cannot go immediately. But rather in a few weeks at the end of January. Although he is out of immediate danger and both my brother and mom are there, I still wanted to be with him in the early / difficult stages. My emotions are are mixed up from guilt to anger. Any advice?

2006-12-28 08:02:02 · 4 answers · asked by ngc2400 1

i forged my moms sineture on one of my progrees reportes that had an F on it , should i tell her ? i dont want to cuz she trhents me taht she will take my posters of RBD and rip up the atougraphed photo of RBD but then im thinking i should before she finds out herself what should i do ?

2006-12-28 08:00:18 · 32 answers · asked by fabercastel 2

can i stop my daughters grandmother seeing her? the woman is a battle axe! her father is not on her birth certificate so she cannot prove my daughter is actually her grandaughter!

2006-12-28 07:59:53 · 26 answers · asked by LISA S 2