It hurts i feel it every day but its been over a year and it still hurts my mom thinks iam over it but how do u get over something like that? iam only twelve
2006-12-28 08:04:30 · 6 answers · asked by Rickel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Death of a parent isn't something you can "get over". You just have good days and bad days. I lost my father 8 months ago and it still hurts and I'm 30. So don't think that your mom doesn't know that it still hurts you. She just wants things to get back to normal. It's even harder around the holidays because that's considered family time. Cheer up kid. You'll get through it day by day.
2006-12-28 08:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by L.L. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is this lady on Answers who just asked a question about letting her 6 year old son see he dying dad or not, her name is hot mama, you should contact her and let her know how stupid she would be to not let her son see his dying dad.
Believe me, I am a mother of 4 kids and I know for a fact that your mom knows you are not over it, she is just trying to teach you that life goes on and you need to carry memories with you to remember, not sadness. You will be alright, it never goes away, I lost my Dad 6 years ago he was only 48 and I miss him terribly, but if I didn't miss him something would be wrong, right? It is called a grief cycle and everyones is different. Google it and you will learn more so you don't feel like something is wrong with you.
2006-12-28 08:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by Quarter Piece 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. My dad died on January 10, 2006, and it broke my heart. I still cry a lot and I am grieving. I think no one really gets it. In time your grief will become less and you will be able to focus on the good memories you have of your dad.
2006-12-28 08:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hiding your feelings. You will never begin to cope with this loss if you keep it all bottled up inside. You need to talk to someone about how you are feeling. Your mom will probably listen, if you feel comfortable talking to her. If not, try another adult - they are more likely to have experienced something similar and may be able to shed some light on how to deal with your feelings.
I am truly sorry for your loss.
2006-12-28 08:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by stargirllll4311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to some 1 like a counselor or friend that helps i went tru the same thing your going tru but u now wat its hard i know that but u have to move out wat help me a lot is just rembering him and never frogetting about my dad and talking 2 friends really hepl
p.s i fell your pain hope thiz hepl s
2006-12-28 08:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by Janet ♥(YFFL) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you shouldnt hide it then you smart kid you
2006-12-28 10:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by psycho 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋