my mother in law intervines in evertything!!!! shes really nosy and is starting to get on my nerves!!!!!
2006-12-28 08:28:16 · 12 answers · asked by evilstranger90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes, talk with her!!
2006-12-28 08:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to your wife if you like, but she already knows what her mother is doing. It obviously doesn't bother her or she would have already said something to her. Since it seems to be bothering YOU so much, maybe you should CALMLY speak with your mother-in-law. Be careful how you broach the subject...one of these days you just might need her advise & then where will you be???
2006-12-28 16:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Swttxdrmr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should and let her truthfully know just how you feel-too many in laws have contributed to seperations and divorces becuse they wont stay out of their son/daughter "adult" business.And too many spouses are afraid to say anything because they dont want to hurt the other ones feelings. the sooner you say something the better off you will be.
2006-12-28 20:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the man of your house and tell the woman when you need her advice you'll ask for it . My sister is the same way with her daughter until it broke up her marriage. I've turned down marring for this same reason .
2006-12-28 16:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck yes my mil would come in our room to say get up or she would like this done we both work very hard 12-14 hr days i was so mad but he would not say anything so one day she came in well we were #***@@@ you know and i was on top and did not stop she slammed the door and told me off when we came out i said you wont do that again will you p.s we locked the door from then on
2006-12-28 16:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by rradboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience you can try talking to your wife about this [nicely, I might add, don't attack her] but it's up to your wife how to respond. Some children don't want to hear and admit that their parents are being like that to their significant others. Some don't even want to hear it from you. If you've never brought it up before, I would, but you're going to have to tread lightly and see where it goes. You might just have to suck it up and deal with it, especially if she doesn't want to...
2006-12-28 16:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think every man/woman should talk to their spouses about everything. You shuold let her know all she needs to know, she is your wife. She can also advice you on certain actions you need to take.
Don't deny her that information.
2006-12-28 17:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by redeemedmikel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lie with your wife and she is the only woman you should have to deal with, one woman is enough in a marriage. Tell your wife to BE THAT woman.
2006-12-28 17:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by MIMI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but in a very VERY respectful way. people naturally get deffensive of there mothers.
2006-12-28 17:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by bballxbaby147 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting your wife to intervene would be like trying to pee up a wet rope.
2006-12-29 16:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by Polyhistor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open ur heart and talk to ur wife nicely becoze she is her mother .. and she suposed to be ur mother too ... be patient .. and still treat her as ur mother .. becoze she is still thinking that her daughter is still single.. so please take care about ur words ..
2006-12-28 16:48:33 · answer #11 · answered by Rose Bridge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋