Family - December 2006

2006-12-29 03:33:50 · 23 answers · asked by Lena 3

desk and nothing clutter. any ideas what to put "on top" of a teenage desk top?

2006-12-29 03:33:11 · 6 answers · asked by Kathi T 1

I'm trying to hold my horses but I going to move out if she doesn't stop!

2006-12-29 03:32:29 · 30 answers · asked by Tierney T 1

My mom wont let me do anything for my "protection". And I appreciate all she does but i want to go to the movies with my boyfriends, and stuff ALONE! And same with the mall, she wont even wait in the food court or go somwere els in the mall if i call her every second, she HAS to stay with me! What will make her leave me alone somtimes!

2006-12-29 03:31:15 · 3 answers · asked by AliCat 1

So the judge order my son to go but he has anxiety and depression issues. My son said he would kill himself if he had to go to his dad. So of course I keep receiving letters from my ex's attorney telling me I'd better send him or else. I'm sure there isn't any kind of abuse, he said he hates his dad. I have no clue why. He has never bonded with his Dad, but my younger one has. My son has good months, then really bad ones. He used to go to his Dad's for 2 nights, then 1 and now none. He is in therapy and all's I keep telling my ex is just wait until our son gets a grip on things. But no, he'd rather try to prove me a bad Mom. I can't get the words out of my head,"I'll kill myself if I have to go to Daddy's" How much trouble will I be in if I don't send him, I just want the OK from the doctor as to what to do. He has anxiety attacks. My heart is so broken. My attorney is bad as everyone else, she thinks I should force him. Please help.

2006-12-29 03:29:01 · 18 answers · asked by cmjn22 1

she acts like a five year old( I'm not kiding, she's 13)
she won't eat because she's afraid she'll eat bad food and get sick
she always tells me i'm stupid and everything i do is stupid
she excepts me not to react to this

2006-12-29 03:24:51 · 11 answers · asked by Lena 3

can a child of 15 choose which parent he wants to live with

2006-12-29 02:58:47 · 7 answers · asked by rose97814 1

Sometimes I want money to just buy stuff and I just take cash and I don't tell them I'm taking it. This has been going on for about a year.

2006-12-29 02:58:15 · 22 answers · asked by hotrachelle1 2

Preferably around Birmingham and inside... and not to far from the m5/m6. he has an amazing ability to stay awaken long journeys!

2006-12-29 02:47:23 · 2 answers · asked by Doris 2

mother is a druggy,in jail.sister and brother can't take him.we can't take care of him we work.

2006-12-29 02:24:34 · 14 answers · asked by joanne g 1

2006-12-29 02:00:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is a professional , Teacher , Counselor , Degreesand Certificates for days,
And yet she chose to be with me , I barely make ends meet working construction, side jobs, whatever it takes. we have a home , truck etc,etc.
But i love her more than life itself. which is just part of the reason i get up and go to work in 22 degree weather.

But here is when she says, I Love you most because I see Jesus in you.
OK ya'll Let me know hat you think about it.

2006-12-29 01:49:21 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2

I don't think it is fair because she has a problem with my son who she is no longer dating that she take it out on me. My son is providing child support she is angry about the amount set by the judge she wanted more. She has moved and I don't have an address nor home phone number for her. And when she wants to vacation and be child free she will call and say he can come over. Would anyone know if grandparents can file for visitation rights of the grandchildren in North Carolina and if so what is the process. I have over $500.00 worth of christmas gifts that I was going to take to my grandson today and was told that I would not see my grandson just drop the gifts off with the other grandmother. I declined that offer and said that if I could not see my grandson then sadly he would not get his gifts. I don't think that I am being unreasonable just tired of taking whatever has been dished out to me about my grandson. Please help a Native New Yorker grandmother know her rights folks.

2006-12-29 01:35:32 · 12 answers · asked by J. M 1

I don't think it is fair because she has a problem with my son who she is no longer dating that she take it out on me. My son is providing child support she is angry about the amount set by the judge she wanted more. She has moved and I don't have an address nor home phone number for her. And when she wants to vacation and be child free she will call and say he can come over. Would anyone know if grandparents can file for visitation rights of the grandchildren in North Carolina and if so what is the process. I have over $500.00 worth of christmas gifts that I was going to take to my grandson today and was told that I would not see my grandson just drop the gifts off with the other grandmother. I declined that offer and said that if I could not see my grandson then sadly he would not get his gifts. I don't think that I am being unreasonable just tired of taking whatever has beendished out to me about my grandson. Please help a Native New Yorker grandmother know her rights folks.

2006-12-29 01:32:59 · 12 answers · asked by J. M 1

I have a lot going on in my family and personal life. I am 23 years old and my parents are forcing me to choose between my family and my boyfriend. There is so much more to the story which is why it's hard to make a decision. I want to write them a letter so I can get it out my system without interruption but I just wasn't sure if that was rude or not

2006-12-29 01:25:49 · 30 answers · asked by 3262m 2

My mother is 77 years old and her pension and social security aren't enough to cover her monthly expenses. It has been like this for the last two years. One of my brothers and I send her money regularly to help her out. My eldest brother can't seem to help out though. I have broached the subject a couple of times and let him know she needs help. He always gives the excuse that he can barely pay his own bills. I happen to know better since I have found out about several expensive purchases he has made for himself.
Mom doesn't need alot but even $50 a month from each of us would ease her burden tremendously. My other brother and I resent the fact that the eldest won't help out and it is lying about his reason. Yet he fully expects his part of her estate when she dies. By the time that happens, none of us will be on speaking terms. Does anyone have suggestions on how to get big brother to step up and help us out with our mother???

2006-12-29 01:18:21 · 4 answers · asked by sunnygirl1 2

2006-12-29 01:02:43 · 3 answers · asked by papie000 1

I'm a 15 year old guy, turning 16 next year. My family was well-off in the past but as time passed by, we were having difficulties even paying for the bills. I have a big dream when I grow up and I fear my parents can't support me when I go to college. I was thinking of getting myself adopted to a rich family to relieve my parents a bit of their burden. What do you guys think of this?

2006-12-29 01:01:38 · 16 answers · asked by Emrys 2

My 2 yr. has just been cleared of heart disease. Because he was on so many monitors, I had him sleeping with me so I could keep a close eye ( and ear ) on him. Now that he's ok, I want him to start sleeping in his own bed. I've tried numerous things and nothing has helped. He screams so much, I've even had to give him his breathing treatment! Does anyone have any helpful tips?

2006-12-29 00:51:49 · 9 answers · asked by Queen 5

well i have like 7 brothers and sisters and im right in the middle of it all and i just want some time with my mom but how do i tell her that she never has time to sit down and just talk with out her chasing after my little sister and i just want so time with my mom just the two of us and i dont know how to ask for it?

2006-12-29 00:32:41 · 8 answers · asked by monkeygirl777 2

I am a military spouse. I reside in Japan and do whatever it is to make $ I do hair, mani, pedi, clean houses, do laundry, within reason I do it. My husband is mad b/c the 1st and 15th are his paydays and he doesn't no what I make. If he were to look on the calendar, it clearly states everything coming in, however nothing going out. I do have some reciepts for groceries and I told him I pay tithing, gifts aren't cheep. He refuses to look at n e thing! I failed to pay on our creditcard b/c of the holidays for 2 months and I have an acct. of my own but he has no access to it. I'm afraid he will drain it. I am not a spender I am stingy, tight, he likes to spend and never does with out! What should I do??? Marriage difficulties as well.

2006-12-29 00:19:43 · 14 answers · asked by Jerry S 2

2006-12-29 00:11:19 · 15 answers · asked by dark & lovely 1

I hate my boss, manager, my parents, my sister
my teachers and my friends..............
And my anut, she is stupid..........

But, sometime I though they are nice or I love them.

But, also, sometime.. I hate everyone, no love in this world......
How come I came this world....

Am I the abnormal person???

2006-12-28 23:42:29 · 15 answers · asked by Jim 1

I want to move out my parents house and be on my own but I dont have any income at the moment. It depress me to live here, and I feel the only source of relief would be to leave. I dont know any family member well to just crash with them. All my friends are guys. SO I am kind of alone. I am in school but getting distracted. I would live on dorm but my mom refuse to pay for it. I apply to jobs every night but get no response. I dont know what to do. I am not happy at my home.

2006-12-28 23:03:18 · 15 answers · asked by Ally R 1

Ok, so my sister and I are both about to turn 21 and we live at home. We plan to move out with one of our close friends by january of this upcoming year. The thing is that I made the mistake of telling my mom about our plans and she said, and I quote "So you guys are just gonna leave and not help me out with paying rent?" I then told her that I didnt like where we live and wanted to move out and she had the nerve to say "So you are gonna help other ppl with rent rather than helping me??" Now, I know that it seems kind of mean to let her deal with her own rent problems and leave but the thing is that she has always been dependent on her children or on my dad for money. Im tired of living with the family but havent been able to move because I needed to help her out. She has no job and she doesnt even plan on getting one!!! Are we wrong if we leave her behind?? (if we do she will be depending on my brother). I REALLY NEED UR OPINIONS!!! THANKS!!

2006-12-28 22:59:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 21:26:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did you find out your father wasn't your biological father?
If yes, how old were you when you found out/were told?
How did you react? Did you love your father less since then?

My son is now 4 and I am not his biological father. I am with his mom since she was 6 months pregnant. Am raising and loving him as my own son. It would really hurt me if he would change his way towards me if he would know he didn;t come from me.

What would be the right age to tell him. he is so sensitive and I don't want him to get hurt. But he needs to know the truth one day. Or should we just never tell him? Please only serious answers.

2006-12-28 20:58:20 · 26 answers · asked by trytostayanonimous 2

i wanna surprise my parents & sis on new year.
act. on 31st at 12
the thing is v cant go outside ...
what could i give them at home only ( surprise )
plz tell me

2006-12-28 20:47:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am middle class with high school studies,reached to executive position in engineering industry earning usd.70 k / year. Educated my son to post graduate level in u.s.a with my own effort. he is well settled with own house and earning usd 200 k / year in world's no.1 city. he told me to leave the job and take care of his 1 year old son. i didn't do it since i am very active at 57 years and wanted to build up my carrer further. now he says that we(parents) didn't do any thing for him and don't want to see us for the rest of his life.. please advise me how to tackle this situation.

2006-12-28 20:18:40 · 7 answers · asked by Ignored parents 1

I am 17, and I will turn 18 next November 30. But I am incredibly nervous because I have a terrible relationship with my single mother. If I make the slightest mistake, (misplacing a magazine in the house, not picking up the tiny piece of cilantro on the green lettuce-print table cloth because it blended in, etc.) she goes INSANE and screams, gets violent and says she can't wait until the day I turn 18 so I can get the hell out. I have driven myself CRAZY - obsessively scanning every nook and cranny in the rug, on the tablecloth, counters, to make sure I leave everything PERFECT. I spend 5 minutes after I leave ANY room at all turning on ALL the lights so I can look at the counters from every angle possible so I don't miss anything, and yet I always seem to miss something! My mom still thinks I "don't give a sh!t"! I can't stand living in all this pressure and I want to be ready to move out on my next birthday. how do I survive on my own w/o joining the army or being really poor?

2006-12-28 19:17:04 · 14 answers · asked by Foofy 1