i forged my moms sineture on one of my progrees reportes that had an F on it , should i tell her ? i dont want to cuz she trhents me taht she will take my posters of RBD and rip up the atougraphed photo of RBD but then im thinking i should before she finds out herself what should i do ?
2006-12-28 08:00:18 · 32 answers · asked by fabercastel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her. The guilt will eat at you and the longer you take to tell the truth the harsher the punishment will be. Parents who threaten have already lost control - give her the posters and autograph stating you will earn them back in time along with her trust. Being honest and working to get your F to a C or better would help the situation.
2006-12-28 08:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't think forging her signature is going to help out any. That could get you in a lot of trouble in life. Maybe just sit down & have a mature-honest talk with her. Tell her how much the RBD stuff means to you.
2006-12-28 08:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Paris S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mom. I would much rather have my kids confess than find it out via the school. Eventually she will find out. Not to mention, being deceitful would harm your relationship with her because even if she didn't know... you would. Obviously you feel a little guilty about it or you wouldn't have posted the question. Good for you! You don't want to have to walk around with the person that loves you most in the world, knowing that you've got this ugly little secret. You won't be able to act normal and it will distort reality for you both. Tell her. Yes, you'll probably be punished in some way, but not nearly as severely as you will if you aren't the one to tell her.
No mom wants to believe their kid is deceitful. How will she ever trust you on bigger things if she can't trust you on the little ones? Do the right thing. Own up to your grade and forgery. Remember, she loves you.
2006-12-28 08:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by katme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As an adult, I say that you should be open and honest. Although I must admit that I did forge my parents' signature on stuff when I was in school. But really, henesty is key, that's what I have learned is best.
Btw, what it RBD?
2006-12-28 08:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell her because by the looks of your spelling you need to be in school more. Also, it's a crime to forge a signature. She will find out and it will be worse for you. Pay attention in school, there are plenty of people to help you through it. Think about how much you'll have just by doing your best.
2006-12-28 08:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry just write this letter, word for word:
Dear Mum,
It is with great regret and sorrow that I'm writing you, but I'm leaving home. I had to lope with my new boyfriend Randy because I wanted to avoid a scene with Dad and you. I've been finding real passion with Randy and he is so nice to me. I know when you meet him you'll like him too - even with all his piercing, tattoos, and motorcycle clothes. But it's not only the passion Mum, I'm pregnant and Randy said that he wants me to have the kid and that we can be very happy together. Even though Randy is much older than me (anyway, 42 isn't so old these days is it?), and has no money, really these things shouldn't stand in the way of our relationship, don't you agree? Randy has a great CD collection; he already owns a railer in the woods and has a stack of firewood for the whole winter. It's true he has other girlfriends as well but I know he'll be faithful to me in his own way. He wants to have many more children with me and that's now one of my dreams too. Randy taught me that marijuana doesn't really hurt anyone and he'll be growing it for us and we'll trade it with our friends for all the cocaine and ecstasy we want. In the meantime, we'll pray that science will find a cure for AIDS so Randy can get better; he sure deserves it!! Don't worry Mum, I'm 15 years old now and I know how to take care of myself. Someday I'm sure we'll be back to visit so you can get to know your grandchildren.
Your loving daughter,
PTO (at the bottom of the paper)
PS: Mum, none of the above is true. I'm over at the neighbour's house. I just wanted to remind you that there are worse things in life than my report card that's in my desk centre drawer. Please forgive me and call when it is safe for me to come home. I love you!!!
And youll be perfectly fine :), oh yeah you might want to give the posters and autograph for your friend to keep during your ordeal lol and dont worry i forged my mum signature every single week for 5 years on my homework book, teachers never found out neither did my mum, until i told her a year after i left school, surprised by her reaction, "saved me having to write it everyweek" wasnt too bad. always look on the bright side :)
GOODLUCK :D !!
2006-12-28 08:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better tell her, and she has every right to be mad! I didn't understand that back when I was a kid, but do now that I have a 15 yr old. It'll just get worse if she has to find out from somebody else that you did that. Whatever you do, don't do something like that again. Forgery could get you in big trouble!
2006-12-28 08:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by UNI Panther 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty comes first, the rest is just temporary. But if you loose your dignity by being dishonest, you are loosing one of the most important qualities in your life.
My advise is that you tell her, let her know that you understand that it was wrong and that you won't do it again. Face the consequences with dignity. Your integrity is worth far more than any posters with anybody's signature in it.
2006-12-28 08:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All kids do this, but coming clean is a big move in the right direction and shows a real sign of growth. Remember, there may be concequences.. Thre are always. The question is are you willing to accept them?
2006-12-28 08:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mom and I would say tell her...but....when I was in high school I would forge my moms name to everything....problem is...when she did finaly write a note...they didn't recognizer her signature and called her on it....I had to explain that I had been signing her name all along...
Better to tell the truth....
2006-12-28 09:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by clclmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋