Family - October 2006

We already have a court order for custody and child support but, lately the mother has been out of control? I live in california.

2006-10-30 07:56:38 · 10 answers · asked by foxy1yz250 1

What does your Mom do or say that makes you respect and love her?

2006-10-30 07:52:10 · 13 answers · asked by trueblue 2

My brother is really hurtful to me : verbal as well as physical. He is quite strong and will easily hurt me physically...He also says some really hurtful thigns such as 'No one gives a f*** what the hell you think' and stuff like that. Why is he like this?

2006-10-30 07:48:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister broke my mom's $25,000 vase! She blamed it on me. When I tell my mom I didn't do it she thinks I'm lying. So my moms P-Oed at me!! How can I convince her that Alexis(my sister) did it! PLEASE HELP!!

2006-10-30 07:44:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ever since I first started dating her son she has treated me badly and now things are worse. I have been married into the family for 8 years and have 2 children. My MIL ignores my son and rarely wants to see my daughter. We live less than a block away but she doesn't come over. She and her oldest daughter pulled a horrible stunt while my dad was in a coma and told me I was a horrible person and taking advantage of them by having them watch my kids while i was living in the hospital. I wrote her a letter and delivered it 3 weeks ago and told her that things need to change or she will not be a part of mine or my childrens lives and she hasn't said anything to me about it, hasn't even called me. She calls my husband and wants to spend time with the kids and he thinks I should let her, but thats not the point, She needs to talk to me. I want my kids treated the same as the other grandchildren and they are not being treated that way. It only works if it's her terms. What do I do?

2006-10-30 07:35:03 · 16 answers · asked by mom-of-2 2

2006-10-30 07:30:16 · 55 answers · asked by 3667 1

2006-10-30 07:27:01 · 14 answers · asked by dadman 1

parental rights

2006-10-30 07:22:35 · 7 answers · asked by maryland212202003 1

Ok everybody has done things as teens and young adults that may not have been the best idea in hindsight but how do you handle the drug situation now if you have a young adult who is drinking illegally, occasionally alone, and possibly stealing it from work and smoking pot in the house when they think no one is paying attention and possibly other drugs? Works very part time and takes a few college classes but doesn't wake up in time to get there sometimes.

Do you back off and hope it's just a faze or do you take action and if so to what length? I ask because my significant other is going through this will their 19 year old and it is causing chaos in our house. There is also a 15 year old and 14 year old to consider.

He also tends to lie or say it's none of your business if you ask anything like where he is off to or details to a particular incident

2006-10-30 07:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by Subi 2

My daughter has chose to live with her faher. When she moved in with him everything was great. She told me last week that she didnt like living with him and she didnt like his girlfriend. When I called her dad she change her mind. Whats going on with my child? i feel like I dont know her anymore. She is very rude and disrespectful to me. I dont know what to do. I have been a good mother to this child. Someone please help. Tell me what I should do. I feel like I should just step out of the picture. Her father was never a father to her .He just has money. When I divorced him I left the money. I love my daugher but she is pushing me away.

2006-10-30 07:19:54 · 7 answers · asked by theresa kay 1

When my stepdaughter was a baby, her mother put her father out, and made it very difficult for him to see his daughter (this is around the time we started dating). She began dating this new guy, and had her daughter refer to him as "daddy." They have a child together, but they are not together any more, she has since been in and out of relationships with a few guys. My step-daughter refers to my husband as her "dad" and this other guy as her "other daddy." I am MARRIED to her father, but I only get referred to as my first name. She's nine, smart as a whip, but I wonder if she gets it that I'm her step mother, and this other guy is not even related to her. Thoughts?

2006-10-30 07:13:11 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet Belly 2

She contradics what I tell my child. I love her but I have different house rule then she did when I was growing up.

2006-10-30 07:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by Chris C 2

My girlfriend is pregnant by her ex-bf. We met after they split up. Now I'm fairly sure I can't be named as the father when the child is born still I'm not the biological father; but since we intend to raise the child as if it were mine can we give it my surname.

2006-10-30 06:56:51 · 21 answers · asked by spear_1021 3

If you didn't have a Father or a horrible one I want you to know I know that feeling you have. I know the "missing" piece in your life. My natural Father died in Southeast Asia in 1966..I never knew him, just pictures and letters and stories from friends and family. They all speak of a wonderful loving man. My mother in her grief married an abusive man that no words of mine could ever describe. They were married 17 years. BTW, I travel to the very spot my Dad died with a friend of his last April..I wanted to see the grass and trees he saw before he died-silly I know.
I'd like to share what I have learned. I know the fear you have about being a parent...you fear you will be abusive also. I want you to know that's not true if you break the cycle. You give your children what we wanted and craved "LOVE" Love them lavishly, love them extravagantly. I've have 3 children that walk in love everyday. GIVE them exactly what we so badly wanted, not money but your time & love.

will you agree?

2006-10-30 06:56:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now what would happen if you liked the person they were talking about????(Plus you know they are jealous of her...she is cute and dresses very well)...WOULD YOU TELL HER WHAT THEY WERE SAYING, BECAUSE SHE IS NEIVE AND IS NOT AWARE??OR SHOULD YOU just stay out of it???and just "let it go"....

2006-10-30 06:55:18 · 11 answers · asked by sweet 4

2006-10-30 06:49:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

good or bad. I have so many bad and not enough good ones. Is she mean? Does she like you?

2006-10-30 06:42:48 · 4 answers · asked by reeni 5

2006-10-30 06:39:42 · 6 answers · asked by daddysgirl 1

My mom mentions that father is hiding alot of information about himself. I want to find out everything, what can I find out on the internet? I have tried googling his name and that is about it. Please help me if you can. If u know anything about my father, his name is Mitchell Patrick Vigna, please let me know. I would appreciate any and all help. Thanks a bunch

2006-10-30 06:33:19 · 1 answers · asked by Lauren R 1

I never talked to my dad before, not until 2 days before my 16th birthday. He decided to call me. It was cool and all. Buttt. like. I don't know if I want him in my life. I don't know what to do. I found out I have a brother and another sister by him. Which totally sucks because all these years I thought I was the only child. So what should I do? Let him in my life, or push him away? I'm truely confused.

I've called him many times before this, he's always hung up on me, once I said who i was.

I know it's not my brother or sister's fault.

They're wayyy younger than me.

but I really think that I don't want to meet him in person. [face to face] I am not ready for that. I'm much older now, and I know he must of done this to me because of some logical reason. Personally, I don't care much to know him. He's miss half of the most important things in my life. He hasn't been there for me for any birthdays, no holidays, nothing. He was totally clueless. I just want to know why.

2006-10-30 06:16:26 · 17 answers · asked by [.MamaBugg.] 4

last year my aunts visited me. this was the first time i ever met them in my life. my mother showed one of them these pics we took on vacation in jamaica that i'm really embarrassed by. i had my hair cut in a hideous way and the pic is just a bad reminder of that time in my life. having that hair cut was hell for me especially at school. the aunt that saw the pic asked my mother could she have it because i looked so pretty in it. she gave it to her and i was really upset that my aunt brought the pic back with her since i didn't want anyone to c it. my aunt sometimes joke about it and even though i don't go off i 'm really pissed off deep down and i try to tell her but she keeps saying that i look so pretty which is not the point. the other day her and her bf were on the phone joking about the same pic and i never wanted him to see it but she was like but he's ur uncle (their gonna get married) i told her i didn't care i'm mad that she's not repecting my feelings what do u think?

2006-10-30 06:14:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just went away for a week to my mums mates house and that week was the best week of my life. we didnt need to go out to enjoy ourselfs and i felt closer to this guy and his mum than i do with my own family is this really weird

2006-10-30 06:11:28 · 14 answers · asked by weirdo 2

My boyfriend moved in with me and now after about a year, still no help with bills. He says it's because he isn't getting enough hours and spending more than usual. He does help with food and does house work on the weekends when he's not working. My bills are about 1000 per month with my own kid. He has no kids, 2 small credit card payments. He does spend about $150 on gas per week because he drives two hours both ways per day. We've talked about it, but there always seems to be something else that comes up for his reason "not having it". I only ask him for $280 per month, but still feel "bad" for reminding him. He's only remembered once. Am I being unreasonable? How do I know if he's just using me? He did give up his own place two hours away, which he didn't have any problem paying the bills there, which equalled out to more than the $280 I ask...

2006-10-30 06:08:56 · 20 answers · asked by trooper 1

i do not like my sister's boyfriend. i wasn't keen on him when she started dating him (i wasn't keen on my brother's girlfriend either, but i gave them both achance, and i like her now.) i starting losing patience with this boy when he swore in front of my younger siblings, and stopped trying to like him when he called me to ask me if he could borrow my credit card to rent a car to go to canada. i have tolerated him at family events, and being in my house all the freaking time (he has his own family, shouldn't he spend sometime with them?) i fear that he will consider himself invited to my college graduation. i don't want him there, it's an evening about me, don't i have every right to be selfish? my mom thinks i should be nicer, and that i don't want to want to upset my sister. my relationship with my sister is already strained, between fights over a phone bill, and her boyfriend. How do I make it clear to her I don't want him there, with out hurting our sisterly bond?

2006-10-30 06:03:48 · 16 answers · asked by viennagirl 2

all my family hates him, and his lifestyle is like Mr. Party man with NO morals.i told him I am preggo and he wants to be in the life with me but I dont trust him!

2006-10-30 06:01:14 · 27 answers · asked by gigerninfo 2

My 17 year old daughter moved out under horrible circumstances. We were so close and now her room is bare, and I feel like I have lost my best friend. I AM a good mom, even though she called me a f***** c***, but I just feel so sad and lost. Any ideas on how to feel better?

2006-10-30 05:51:18 · 13 answers · asked by kmoc123 5

I have custody of her and I have her ss card, but he knows the #. Can he go behind my back and take credit for her?

2006-10-30 05:42:53 · 12 answers · asked by izy966 2

my MIL feels as if she does't have control then everything is just wrong she has always tried to control everything me and my hubby do with or kids my prob is my daughter had a b-day months ago and my MIL acted as if it never happened (daughter is from a previous relationship) and now my MIL wants my middle child come spend the weekend with her i told her no way because the she has treated my oldest her response is it is all my head i am crazy and my hubby needs to take of it or she will my question is has anyone gone through? this i also found out my MIL doesn't like me for what ever reason i always thought we got along even though she put me down every chance had i had a miscarriage a year ago and she was glad i almost bled to death but she was glad that just makes no sence to me most people would be upset about it she just don't care that she lost a grandchild and we lost our baby this bothers me so much everyone says don't worry about it can anybody give me advise please help

2006-10-30 05:42:13 · 7 answers · asked by daysfan207 3

2006-10-30 05:41:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a single mother of five kids on a based income of $800.a mo.
We need a home fast!

2006-10-30 05:34:51 · 14 answers · asked by jamie n 1