last year my aunts visited me. this was the first time i ever met them in my life. my mother showed one of them these pics we took on vacation in jamaica that i'm really embarrassed by. i had my hair cut in a hideous way and the pic is just a bad reminder of that time in my life. having that hair cut was hell for me especially at school. the aunt that saw the pic asked my mother could she have it because i looked so pretty in it. she gave it to her and i was really upset that my aunt brought the pic back with her since i didn't want anyone to c it. my aunt sometimes joke about it and even though i don't go off i 'm really pissed off deep down and i try to tell her but she keeps saying that i look so pretty which is not the point. the other day her and her bf were on the phone joking about the same pic and i never wanted him to see it but she was like but he's ur uncle (their gonna get married) i told her i didn't care i'm mad that she's not repecting my feelings what do u think?
2006-10-30 06:14:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
whoever says something smart i just wanna say fu** you cause i didn't ask 4 that
2006-10-30 06:24:03 · update #1
Give her a new pic of you, also you shouldn't worry what people think of you, face it, if thats what you looked like, thats what you looked like, and you can't chaneg the past, but you can change how you look now, and change how you feel about yourself.
2006-10-30 06:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just a picture. Sure it reminds only you of a time you would like to forget, but no one else has those memories. I think that because you have made such an issue about the picture, you have left yourself open for teasing. You need to let this whole thing go. It isn't going to change the fact that they have it. I do believe that your mother shouldn't have given it to them if it upset you. But I don't think she did it maliciously, just to hurt you.
It is time to grow up some. There will be many times in your life where someone will do somethings you don't like. You just have to blow them off or you will become a very bitter person.
You also are a very lucky person to be able to take trips to Jamaica. Not everyone has the money or ability to do so.
2006-10-30 14:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you might take yourself a bit too seriously, and kinda angry too. Is it possible that this isn't really whats bugging you and it might be something else?....maybe someones giving you a hard time at school or something...is your aunt taking up a lot of your moms time now?...i know you probably don't like her (your aunt) just kind of arriving on the scene and taking over in a way, but maybe she is uncomfortable too and is just trying to fit in or somethng...try and figuire out if it's just the picture thing that is bugging you..good luck.
2006-10-30 14:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I have a school picture that I hate so much I wish I had it to burn. My mom has it and shows everyone. Then hides the photo album so I can't get it out. She says it is part of her collection of her memories. Please, maybe hers but not mine. I got to where I just left the room or the house to get away from everyone. I hope one day that my mom will decide to give me the photo album then I can have my bon fire.
2006-10-30 14:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by Old_Brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it or punch her out and take the pic back and then take your aunts pic while she's knocked out and write "dork" on her head and post it on the Internet or email it to everyone in your family or put it in your aunts local news paper in the classifieds.
2006-10-30 14:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think i just waisted my time reading that stupid story about a stupid pic where your hair was a way you didn't like it. But any way get over it. It's not like you are naked or anything, look back and laugh at it. We all have pics of ourselves that we don't like. And people see them. Get over it and find something more important to worry about, and not a stupid pic where your hair is ugly.
2006-10-30 14:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SEND NEW PICS AND FORGET ABOUT THE OLD ONE. THE MORE PICS THEY HAVE OF YOU THE BETTER OFF BECAUSE THEY WONT JUST HAVE THE BAD HAIR PIC TO SHOW OFF.
EVERYONE GOES THROUGH BAD FAZES IT IS A PART OF LIFE AND HELPS US TO GROW AS A PERSON.
2006-10-30 14:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by becca_2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋