My sister broke my mom's $25,000 vase! She blamed it on me. When I tell my mom I didn't do it she thinks I'm lying. So my moms P-Oed at me!! How can I convince her that Alexis(my sister) did it! PLEASE HELP!!
2006-10-30 07:44:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try selling the vase on the Internet and shipping the pieces to the buyer...then claim it was broken during shipping...
2006-10-30 07:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kiowa1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just keep bugging her about it. Everytime you see her, just say "Mom, I really didn't break it.... If I did, I would tell you, but honestly it was Alexis...please believe me!" Just stuff like that. Or try putting a guilt trip on her if that doesn't work. Just be like, Mom, why won't you believe me? Am I that bad of a son that you wouldn't take my word on this? You love Alexis more than me? She is the liar here, not me...I wish you could see that.... =0) Good Luck! WHy the heck did she have a vase that pricy anyways?? Thats just asking for trouble in my opinion..
2006-10-30 15:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
$25,000,00 for a vase??!!!!!! Well, there is no way i would leave something of that value just sitting around. I can see why she's mad, but i hope it was insured!
I don't know how you can convince her it wasn't you, but i'm sure she will calm down after awhile and the two of you can talk about it. Just tell her the truth! this is alot of money lost, so give her sometime to calm down. I'm sure she loves you very much and everything will be ok!
Good luck and remember honesty is the best policy!
2006-10-30 15:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by dreamteam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your mom and sister in the same room and ask Mom to ask again. Your sister may weasel out of it, but I would hope not. Why does your mom have a $25K vase where it can be broken in the first place?
2006-10-30 15:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bev 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask for a punishment. Be accountable for it. Tell her you will pay her back for it.
Tell her you are a liar, and will take responsibility for it just to keep peace.
Know that sometimes you cannot change the story to fit someone elses picture.
Now you can live your life without lying forever to anyone or to yourself the rest of your life.
Because now you have a positive balance of truth in the Bank of lies.
Your sister will pay the price of interest for along time.
2006-10-30 15:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sound guilty! and if your mom did have a 25,000 vase maybe she should have put it somewhere to be sure to keep it safe.
2006-10-30 15:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that your not going to be able to just convince your mother. what your going to need to do is trap your sister into admitting it was her.and she is not going to do that in front of your mom. so you will have to get your sister alone and get her to talk, but you will need to tape it. yes i know that sounds wrong, but so is what your sister is doing. so, get a recorder and get her to spill the beans. and i dont mean beating up on her!!
2006-10-30 16:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a beer bottle smash the bottom off hold it to her neck and say, "mom why wont u ****.in believe me i didnt do it, and if u start to think any different i will fucki.n smack u and alexis upside ur head"
2006-10-30 16:16:34 · answer #8 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calmly sit down with her and ask her to listen to you until you are done speaking. Explain to her what happen and when you are done tell her she can tell you what she thinks. Stay in this patern so you can both listen to each other and communicate well.
2006-10-30 15:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep telling her. Be as honest as you can. Don't say Alexis did it but say that you don't know what happened but you didn't do it.
2006-10-30 15:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋