Family - October 2006

i regret making mistakes and mine well you decide all i did was sleep wid tristan my m8 he was 17 wha would u have done as a parent?????

2006-10-30 18:41:36 · 12 answers · asked by kitty kat 1

Sister in law sent an email and said that because she married into a large family (her new hubby has 5 sisters) that they are not going to give presents and instead will be giving ‘picture cards’. This is someone who just had a huge wedding (paid for by m&d) which we had to attend (we live 8 hours apart so there were trips for showers, hotels, rental car, gas, outfits for her required ‘formal’ attire reception & gifts) they travels abroad several times a yr, they do not have kids but plans to and are both well off and established in their careers.

My husband’s Christmas shopping list grew by 12 kids when we got married - it’s just part of joining families.

I guess it bothers me because I wouldn’t care if she just handed over the card at Christmas – it’s not the lack in gift but the fact that she sent this pre Christmas email with her decision and lame a$$ excuse.

Her choice feels like she just can't be bothered. Am I wrong to think she’s just lazy and selfish?

2006-10-30 18:28:34 · 10 answers · asked by PopcornMommy 2

My little sister has a problem with our father He not the best Guy in the world. yeah he dose alot of bad thing to people and gets money for it but he dose it to Protect His family Kinda.Im daddys little girl and my sis can't stand him. How do i tell my sister without hruting her felling too much that hes our dad and rather we like what he dose or not hes always gonna be our dad and yes i have tryed to tell her that But not it dose not work. Complacited life here Just need a little push on what to say AnyBody?

2006-10-30 17:53:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anna 1

2006-10-30 17:48:36 · 5 answers · asked by kaj 1

Basically my fiance and I have a 6 month old baby girl and we moved in with my mom, because she offered. We all had orginally agreed that my fiance and I would help with the utilites and that would be it. Then my Dad, came in to the picture. Short version, My mom is on disability and will be for a long time, she cant work because of tumor on her spine and she already has had 3 other tumors removed from her head. So she gets her disabilty checks every month. My dad, got laid off from united airlines and even though he's getting money from like his pension or whatver he uses that money on his place in San Franscisco.Instead of the mortgage here. (we moved 'cause it was a cheaper mortgage) Mom cant work and dad choses not to.. so the only person with an actaul income is my fiance. My dad now is saying that we should not only pay rent but all the utiltities. We want to help my mom, but we dont want to have to take care of my dad. Is it fair? $500 for rent and another $120 in utilites.

2006-10-30 17:36:35 · 11 answers · asked by angelbabydia 2

Okay, my husband and I have a son together who's two (he turns 3 in March), my step-daughter just turned 2 (October 23rd), and our youngest child together is a daughter who's 9 months old. My hubby has been denied contact for the past 2 years, except for a trial period of five months, during which time we discovered that she was being overdosed with infants motrin. The beginning of the investigation was the end of contact. We will be going to court to try to establish visitation, but we think it would be better to have majority custody, because of all the problems: she is 2 and still on formula, she is severely underweight, she is constantly in and out of doctors, specialists, and nutritionists offices, and the only time she acts like a sick and fussy child is when she's with her mother. Around any other family members, she acts like a normal child. What does everyone think?

2006-10-30 17:16:15 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer M 2

he is being really rude and we always are together and never really argue. Lately he hasn't really talked to me about anything really i feel lonely. And we are making love he is done in 5 min. i felt like it was me like something is wrong like he is not atracked to me but he sayid that it is not me that i am pretty and good it is just him. help what do you think i need some advice please. Thanks

2006-10-30 16:50:15 · 8 answers · asked by lovebug1234 2

My mom and dad divorsed when I was 1. I always had a great relationship with my dad. When I was 13 my dad molested me. It tore me apart and I even tried to commit suicide. When I was in the hospital I told on my dad. No one in my family believed me except my mom. When I was younger my mom always told me that my dad molested my aunt and until now I didnt believe her. My whole dads side of the family disowned me. We were so close and now my grandma was saying that I was trying to break up the family. My dad to this day wont admit it. In order to get my family back after a year with out them I just had to pretend like nothing happend. I never lied and said that it didnt happed I just stopped talking about it. Eventually my dad and I got a better relationship but I still cant forget what he did to me. I am 20 now. What if my dad does it to someone else. He is sick and needs help. I am tired of pretending it never happend. I just dont wann lose my family again. What do I do?

2006-10-30 16:26:48 · 18 answers · asked by angel l 3

K. It's going to be my 19th birthday next week. And my dad, sister and my boyfriend are going to Disneyland and we are also going to stay the night at the beach. The only problem is that my mom is not going. The reason why cause my parent's are getting a diforse after 20 years. My dad and my sister and my boyfriend are trying to do something to cheer me up. But I feel , to unhappy to go.Should I go and how can I cheer up and get through this? Please dongt be rude. Need advice . Thank you.I just wont feel the same with out my mom. Should I try to cheer up?Thank you so much for your help.

2006-10-30 16:19:09 · 20 answers · asked by kitty 6

I have a new baby girl, I'm a stay at home mum and wife. I have no family here and limited friends due to not being able to go out or work. I want to go and visit my parents and friends but my mother inlaw keeps at my husband not to let me. She has said to me before that my parents stopped being my family the day I got married. I want to move to somewhere where I have a support network but my husband doesn't want to leave... I don't know what to do??

2006-10-30 16:01:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a question about my father. He treats me badly. He was never a good Christian role model. I know he loves me but he curses at me a lot and is verbally abusive to my mother and I. The other night, my girlfriend and I were at his house holding hands on the couch. I know this story sounds childish and stupid.. My girlfriend said something about the F- word being in the dictionary. I whispered in her ear and she playfully slapped me on the arm. I do not remember what I said, but it was not anything bad. We were just flirting with each other. My dad saw me and thought I had said the F-word to my girlfriend. My girlfriend is 19 and I am 22. He gave me a horrible dirty look and continued to glare at me for the rest of the night. I was mortified. My girlfriend was meeting my dad for the first time and she saw his looks and asked me later why he was so mad at me. When I told her, she was shocked, because I had not said anything wrong to her, my dad just thought I had.

2006-10-30 15:56:49 · 8 answers · asked by TexasCowboy 2

2006-10-30 15:45:52 · 16 answers · asked by innu 1

He will make remarks that make me feel like he thinks I am gay, or when I try to be nice he will say things like disgusting, he has also called me a ******, I am not at all black but I do use some slang. He makes fun of how I look, yells at me for everything is always telling what to do, lets go! put your shoes on! lock the door! EVERYTIME WE LEAVE!!! Then if I move the slightest bit how he doesnt like at the dinner table he'll start panting in grunts, it would scare little kids away, then he gets a look on his face and eats like a wild animal, he is so touchy I dont know how to talk to him, what worse is I am beginning to be disrespectful towards him no matter how hard i try because the stuff he has said has made me not like him very much even though he is family and I love him. I am staying with him to help him move into his new place and help him with his land and animals how can I get along with this grump?

2006-10-30 14:58:55 · 10 answers · asked by knowledge2u4usa 1

how should i tell him that i quite school im worried he might dis own me and never talk to me again and would have nothing to do with me. so how should i tell him to where he would understand?

2006-10-30 14:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by emo punk 1

My sister, for reasons only known to her, DOES NOT get along with her in-laws. I personally have nothing against them. Anyways, every holiday her in-laws invite me to dinner. But I never go because my sister refuses to go and I don't feel right leaving her alone since her husband and the kids do attend the dinners. What can I say is my reason for NOT being able to attend?

2006-10-30 14:42:30 · 3 answers · asked by nina 3

Just think of all the thing people can tease about your name. Jack of all trades. Or they can call you Jack off. Maybe Jack the ripper. Or some one could say quit Jacking me around. Im sure you could think of a few Jack names.

2006-10-30 14:42:04 · 15 answers · asked by Robertus911 3

Family Law in Illinois. What can the judge do to a mother who against the judgement keeps the children away from the farther due to his non payment of child support.

2006-10-30 14:38:01 · 12 answers · asked by lidiawilkowski 1

because i have a daddy in tenesse and i miss him so much

2006-10-30 14:24:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brothers are 8 and 5. They fight, shout, and have no manners, the list goes on. What can i do to help them control themselves. i am very worried they won't grow out of this behaviour

2006-10-30 14:20:12 · 4 answers · asked by keke 1

1. expatriate, studying overseas, living overseas with their spouse or just holidaying?

2. how long have you been away from your home country?

3. how often do you go back?

4. how do you cope with the loneliness if you are staying alone?

5. which country are you in right now?

thanks everybody. have a nice day!

2006-10-30 14:11:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a single Dad who's youngest son is about to graduate and go away to college in the spring. I'm already depressed and I know I'll have a hard time watching him drive away. Any coping suggestions?

2006-10-30 13:31:49 · 17 answers · asked by exnavykds 4

Earlier today I saw a post on here where a woman was talking about hiring a private eye to investigate her daughters boyfriend. Somebody mention the link http://background-records.net/ as a good place to find info online. Well I checked out the site and entered my sisters boyfriends name and found out that he was convicted of armed robbery in 1999. I know this is him because the name, date of birth, and address are all the same. I am sure my sister doesn't know (and I am damn sure our dad doesn't know).......should I tell my sister or our dad? I don't know how to handle this situation.

2006-10-30 13:27:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter who is now 27 yrs old went to live with her father four years ago; he hardly ever was around while she was growing up. My daughter thinks he is sooo funny and cool. My ex-husband and his girlfriend told my daughter I was a horrible person and made up a bunch of stuff about me. What has made it worse is that my daughter has chosen to believe them.

She has not spoken to me in 3 1/2 years now. When I sent her a check and birthday card several years ago she cashed the check and never said thank you. I've waited and waited hoping she would contact me, we used to be so close. Looks like she is never going to contact me, it's pretty obvious she hates me and chooses to believe her father and girlfriend who are drug addicts. The last time I spoke with my daughter she was demanding money from me and sounded very angry and possibly on drugs.

Her father won't speak to me where I can even find out how my daughter is. It hurts that she hates me.

2006-10-30 13:24:45 · 17 answers · asked by janelle p 1

How many of you parents spank your kids? It seems as if nobody even tries to disapline their kids anymore. They always resort to sending thier kids to thier bedrooms. My mother when I was a child beat my mother whooped my *** almost everyday and I'm glad that she did because I know that I'm not a snobby disrespectful adult. Where do you cross the line?

2006-10-30 13:15:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been stealing from my mother over 2 years now and im am 16. i really love her and we are really close but its like everytime i see something i just have to have it. i have stolen maybe 5 grand from her over the two years. i love my mother so much but i cant stop. and she is the only person i do this to. and i am a really generous person also tell me how to stop. i think it continues because she never says anything about it and dosent even wonder what happened to it

2006-10-30 13:14:20 · 7 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3

2006-10-30 13:09:33 · 6 answers · asked by CAN~U~SAY~GABBY!! 2

anybody have any funny stories of putting something down someone's crack or seeing others do it?

just for laughs...

haha once I was at a basket ball game, and there was this girl in front of my who had a HUGE butt crack showing. So me and my friend took little bits of granola bar, and we started throwing them at her, seeing if they could go in. that sounds stupid, but it was so funny, especially because the girl didn't notice, and there was a lot of granola in her crack. wonder if she was confused later on? lmao.

2006-10-30 13:06:13 · 1 answers · asked by Kelly 1

Earlier today I saw a post on here where a woman was talking about hiring a private eye to investigate her daughters boyfriend. Somebody mention the link http://background-records.net/ as a good place to find info online.

Well I checked out the site and entered my sisters boyfriends name and found out that he was convicted of armed robbery in 1999. I know this is him because the name, date of birth, and address are all the same. I am sure my sister doesn't know (and I am damn sure our dad doesn't know).......should I tell my sister or our dad? I don't know how to handle this situation.

2006-10-30 13:03:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mentor 14 yr old teen and I have a problem with his mom right now. I made plans to take him to a sporting event this Saturday and had cleared it with her several weeks ago. I bought tickets ($50). I now learn that they are going to New york city that day only 5 days before. Also, I need to tell you, he isn't doing well in school and one of the incentives I've given him to improve is grades is that if his next report card is good, that I would take him on a trip to New York for the weekend ( we live fairly close to NYC). This is a trip that he wants to do. His Mom is aware of this incentive and his grades have not improved. I feel that she is totally undermining me on trip and I'm pretty upset about it along with the fact that I have made time for her son and bought tickets to the event. We have been open with each other in the past. Should I confront her about this? Should I explain how I feel about this trip? Should she be taking him to NYC when his grades are not good?

2006-10-30 12:56:40 · 3 answers · asked by tyler b 1

How do u get control of ur life? How do u get over a break up, start a new job, let go of old friends that bring u down, deal with a screwed up family, and find happiness for urself? I feel like I have lost my whole life and dont know how or where to get me back. I have too much stress and think i am about to have a nervous breakdown. Done seen the dr. but i need to get off my butt and get my life in order but dont know how. Where do u find the strength to get on ur feet and let all the stress go. I live in a bad situation with my sister and am tired of taking care of her and my family thinks its my job to do it but im only 23 and i want a life of my own. i dont even know what else to say. i need good friends and motivation.

2006-10-30 12:54:34 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1