2006-10-30 17:48:36 · 5 answers · asked by kaj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is the age of children to enjoy their childhood.If you will treat them very strictly in this age they will build a wrong image of you in their mind and will always disobey and disrespect you.They are only 4 and 5years,childrens of this age are naughty and are liked by people but if they are going beyond the limit you should tell them about what to do and what not to do.Give them some time in the day and ask them that what they did in the whole day.Their should be a good conservation between parents and children because parents are the only one to whom children's share all their problem.If you become successful to build a good image of loving and understanding parent in their mind they will never disobey you.You can ignore some of their mistakes.
2006-10-30 17:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mayank Sharma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don t go over the edge like feeling like you what to kill them to hurt them badly children at this age don t know yet about being patience just stand up to them if they miss behave like try to hit them a little bit and yell at them a little bit if they cry let them cry they will learn and eventually will stop crying they will keep begging you don t pay them no mind and they will eventually stop. And also don t do a lot of yelling and don t beat them that will leave a mark on the child.
2006-10-31 03:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by KILLAH CAM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this for a change, instead of sending them to a time out and making them sit somewhere that they really don't want to sit try sitting there yourself and when one of them asks you why you are sitting there when they did something wrong just tell them that you are sitting here because they won't listen to you and you feel so bad that you want to cry then start crying.
This will shock them and after doing this just a few times they will hopefully try to be less naughty. It's better then yelling and repeating over and over the same commands to them that they never listen to anyway.
Change the different punishment for yourself like not taking them for a treat because you can't leave the house because they didn't mind you so you are not able to take them for their favorite treats and so on and so on.
By your not being able to do something for them or take them somewhere because you are being punished for what was not done correctly will open their eyes to see it's better to obey then not to.
Best of luck.
2006-10-31 01:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by fedupmoma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember they are children and everything is facsinating to them right now. You need to find the patience to deal with them. Talk to them...they understand more than you give them credit for.
2006-10-31 07:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should Dr phill' book "family first" because in this book you will find how to deal with this issue.
2006-10-31 02:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by alone_girl10a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋