sister/father Help?

Question

My little sister has a problem with our father He not the best Guy in the world. yeah he dose alot of bad thing to people and gets money for it but he dose it to Protect His family Kinda.Im daddys little girl and my sis can't stand him. How do i tell my sister without hruting her felling too much that hes our dad and rather we like what he dose or not hes always gonna be our dad and yes i have tryed to tell her that But not it dose not work. Complacited life here Just need a little push on what to say AnyBody?

Answer 1

you are a good sister/daughter and you have done your part.
your sister will feel how she chooses and sometimes it isn't
until we are grown that we recognize our parents for what they
truly are...good or bad
to push the issue further will probably only make things worse

Answer 2

I kinda know how you feel. I don't like my mom. I think she is weak. My sister loves my mom dispite this. No matter how hard she tried I will not think of my mom anyother way. My mom tries to make it up to us when she can for not being stronger. You can't chang how your sister feels. He won't either. Only time will change that if it is ment to be. As far as you feeling like you need to play peace keeper try not to stress over it and keep low when the stuff hits the fan. You don't want to be cought in the middle and made to choose when the clash of the titans happens.

Answer 3

ummmmmm, I realy dont think is a conflict ... your sister is intittled to feel how she feels... if Dad is not so great and does bad or ugly things to other ppl for MONEY . then Dad is not a good guy... just because he is your Dad does not change this... ppl do things for family yes, but bad stuff is bad stuff no matter how you look at it.. your sister knows what is going on, you or dad can not change that fact...... Dad is the one who needs to change NOT your sister....... sorry, but that is just how it is...... God bless