i have been stealing from my mother over 2 years now and im am 16. i really love her and we are really close but its like everytime i see something i just have to have it. i have stolen maybe 5 grand from her over the two years. i love my mother so much but i cant stop. and she is the only person i do this to. and i am a really generous person also tell me how to stop. i think it continues because she never says anything about it and dosent even wonder what happened to it
2006-10-30 13:14:20 · 7 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well you are obviously a kleptomaniac, thats a fact. Whats also a fact is that you recognize it is wrong and are asking how to stop.
The strange thing is the fact your klepto rush is fixed on your mother. Find the best way to tell her first off. You are going to lose a lot of trust for a long time and you may even have to pay her back over time.
But the good part is after she knows you will feel better and probably will stop stealing (from her at least). Afterwards you NEED to seek proffesional help. If left untreated, you could get into serious trouble one day. And I mean serious, felonies, prison time, probation, paying people back, community service.
Do something for yourself and get help.
2006-10-30 13:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by E R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your mother, you need help. To steal compulsively is a disorder, and there is professional help out there that works. Write a letter to your mother telling her you love her and you need help. Just like you did here. She may be a little upset, but you really deserve to get help before you get yourself into trouble.
Good luck, and God Bless you.
2006-10-30 13:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Big C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get help, stealing is bad. maybe your mom doesn't even know you took the money and stuff. i tried to take my own twenty from my mom once (yes my own twenty) and i was literally grounded for a year.
2006-10-30 13:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Plague92 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
5 grand? wow what the hell you been buyin? Get a job then you'll have the money yourself. You could even pay her back.
2006-10-30 14:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Smoke 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
to stop stealing you might want help,telling your mom to stop allowing you access to her money or whatever else you steal. reach out. having people trust you is important.
2006-10-30 14:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by deb m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to tell your mom you need help.
2006-10-31 06:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you .........you toke her stuffsinner your goinbg to hell now for that thief
2006-10-30 13:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by Soon To Be A Writer 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋