How do u get control of ur life? How do u get over a break up, start a new job, let go of old friends that bring u down, deal with a screwed up family, and find happiness for urself? I feel like I have lost my whole life and dont know how or where to get me back. I have too much stress and think i am about to have a nervous breakdown. Done seen the dr. but i need to get off my butt and get my life in order but dont know how. Where do u find the strength to get on ur feet and let all the stress go. I live in a bad situation with my sister and am tired of taking care of her and my family thinks its my job to do it but im only 23 and i want a life of my own. i dont even know what else to say. i need good friends and motivation.
2006-10-30 12:54:34 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
aw i'm so sorry that you have so much going on. you need to tackle one obstacle at a time, because if you try for too much you'll stay overwhelmed. how old is your sister? if she's old enough to work and take care of herself then you need to sit down and talk to her. explain that you're not her mother and it's not your duty to take care of her. i know it'll be hard, but that's what you have to do. remember that this is YOUR life and the only person that you can count on to make yourself happy is YOU!!!!! good luck!
2006-10-30 13:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to join a group---at church or like the Jaycees or something similar. Start getting involved with what is going on in the community, you will meet people. One thing that is constant in life is change...it never ends. You must convince yourself of this and move forward. If you don't like your life...CHANGE IT! It won't happen over night, but it can be done. You only have tomorrow...yesterday is gone....There is no key to happiness...the door is always open. Good luck and good life to you.
2006-10-30 13:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by MicG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋