Family - October 2006

I want to forgive but shemakes it hard!!!!! She is a very demanding, controlling, bossy person. She nevers sees herself as wrong!!! I have tried to talk to her but she can be very nasty at times.

2006-10-31 15:08:31 · 5 answers · asked by purpleone726 3

2006-10-31 14:49:19 · 13 answers · asked by livinhapi 6

2006-10-31 14:34:57 · 6 answers · asked by Babygirl101 1

I am happly married for 10 years and have 4 kids. I'm not sure I understand her? Does she mean flirty or what? I don't feel I am flirty, those days are over in my mind. Only with my man.

2006-10-31 14:30:18 · 8 answers · asked by tabbikat 2

Okay so im the oldest. My parents favour my younger sister. Im a little immature but im a good kid. I dont go out so im not one of those kids hanging out till midnight on the street. My dad has alot in common with my sister so is always hanging out with her buying her things. He never listens to me, ever. The only time they pay any attention to me is when i get a bad grade in school. It gets be so frustrated. Like when i was in grade 8 i was never aloud to have sleepovers and still not, but ofcourse my sister is aloud. Every dinner table conversation involves something relating to my sister. Im not jealous, i love my sister but my parents just always blame me for everything!! Not cleaning the kitchen table , the bathroom. SO MY QUESTION IS, HOW DO I DEAL WITH FAVORTISM AND GET MY PARENTS TO TAKE SOME TIME TO REALIZE " HEY YOU HAVE ANOTHER DAUGHTER, AND NO SHES NOT PERFECT BUT SHES STILL YOUR DAUGHTER!" please someone anwser me.. im desperate

2006-10-31 14:02:40 · 5 answers · asked by ivagrint 1

2006-10-31 13:45:01 · 17 answers · asked by Jenny C 1

I am doing a research paper on what kind of programs/help if any are offered for the single father. Are there Gov., state, private, counseling, anything. I have searched the web and found mostly sites made by single dads or help for mothers. This is a tough issue for me because I am a single dad of two girls and have been raising them for the last eight years without knowing any kind of help was available. Any answers you can give me will be greatly appreciated. Thank you for your time.

2006-10-31 13:42:45 · 5 answers · asked by Wistall 2

I come from a "prestigeous" family up north with a domineering father who rules our family with an iron fist. My father abused me growing up, and while it got better when I went away to college it has recently resumed this time in the form of verbal abuse. My father constantly bashes and isults me. His barrage of put downs have left me on the brink of depression. I have tried to talk to him about this only to get physically attacked once and verbally attacked many other times. Further more either he, my mother or my siblings call me or email me weekly to put me and/or my wife down. Its non stop and I need peace. Recently I have contemplated just taking a break and cutting off from my family beause frankly this is killing me, am I wrong for doing this?

2006-10-31 13:33:30 · 19 answers · asked by BossHogg R 2

Should I be mad?
Well this is a complicated question: This person (I will call that person Sam) I waited to see for weeks comes some place where I am, but it (Sam) is busy chatting with someone! Now since I am very anxious to see Sam I hurry up to them and this is what I say : Me: Hi Sam
Sam: Hi
Me: How are you
Sam : Good

And that's how short our conversation was, I decided to leave beacuse they looked very serious...well Sam didnt seem to happy to see me and NEVER came back to say anything. Sam was just busy talking and talking,...and after I looked and asked for Sam everywhere but Sam didnt seem to care

2006-10-31 13:27:00 · 6 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2

After many years of She and my husband controling everything....I snapped. Only in my own little way, but it was bad enough. Should I appologize? It's not really in my heart because I feel as though this was due. But I am feeling a little foolish now.

2006-10-31 13:23:57 · 8 answers · asked by Lanna b 2

I want to share what I feel with my parents w/o suffering.

2006-10-31 13:13:16 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ 4

This person is very dear to my heart and I don't have the nerve to tell them that I can no longer trust what they say.

2006-10-31 13:11:35 · 11 answers · asked by blackandwhite 1

My dear daughters just got fulltime jobs with pretty good pay I think its about time they start to help with finances around the house is that bad? Iasked Dr. Phil an never received a reply so I'm reaching to you all thanks

2006-10-31 13:00:46 · 19 answers · asked by betty 2

2006-10-31 12:35:15 · 4 answers · asked by tina b 1

I am 13 and trying to make some money with a very busy schedule and decide to rake leaves for poeple in my neighbor hood so I print out some calling cards to put on poeples DRIVEWAYS, not doors even. And my dad won't let me do it and he won't tell me why. I really need some money and it seems like everything I come up with my dad has to say no to.PLEASE help me!!!! what should I do?

2006-10-31 12:34:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just going through a divorce and although it has been quite amacable and friendly I feel that i'm being taken advantage of.The thing is I have and will always continue to pay maintainance/Child support.My eldest daughter (14yrs) is a bit of the rails you might say and has been excluded from school for fighting,she hadbeen abusive and extremely aggressive toward me and my ex,so she came to live with me...during which i continued to pay half what i would normally pay to my ex for my other daughter.My ex though did not pay me for having my eldest live with me!Anyway long story short my eldest has now after 6 months with me become an absolute angel and today moved back in with her mother I feel a bit used and betrayed,like thats all i'm good for.My ex does not encourage my youngest daughter to come see me and i'm afraid this will soon become the case with my eldest!I offer to take them to the zoo,cinema,bowling!Should I stop paying till the ex supports me and encourages them 2 see me?

2006-10-31 12:20:42 · 10 answers · asked by Cyruss 1

Yes I am amplanning to married my step-sister, and she is going to college, caring our child. our parent doesn't know about us lot. We are going the las vagas to get married .

2006-10-31 12:10:48 · 20 answers · asked by JAMIE D 1

She is only 12 looks 18and wants to go with 2 boys & 1 girl in a neighborhood I am not familiar with!!!! I said no! Now she's angry!
What now????

2006-10-31 11:51:25 · 17 answers · asked by yidlmama 5

2006-10-31 11:44:44 · 13 answers · asked by D. A. 1

My friend Is a twin and her mother always put her sister over her and makes her feel so bad. Then she makes her have a low self-asteem

2006-10-31 11:40:58 · 17 answers · asked by HIS CHICK FORVER 2

would you be composed enough to speak and give a eulogy at the service or would you not be able to due to the emotion???

2006-10-31 11:40:20 · 42 answers · asked by silversilver3 2

its great to love someone. its great to love someone especially when they live with you and you can always see them.
but lately i've been getting the feeing that maybe i love my mom a little too much?
like today... is halloweeen. and i'm going with a couple of my friends. my mom usually goes trick-or-treating with me, my dad, my little brother, and a couple of my cousins, but this yr, it's different. so my mom is all alone at home.
and somehow, i'm feeling so guilty about this.
i don't think i'll be able to enjoy halloween fully because somewhere in my heart i know that my mom is alone at home...
and thats not all.
whenever i try to do something, i first stop and think of what my mom would think if i did this. proud? i'd do it. upset? i won't do it.
but sometimes it gets really annoying cuz i get so guilty easily..
do i have a problem?
help?

2006-10-31 11:35:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad died when I was 6 month, my mom died when I was 11

2006-10-31 11:26:01 · 7 answers · asked by vflvh.kvk.jjvb h 1

2006-10-31 11:24:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i have this think that i don't know what to do because i live with a big family...and we alway fighting.....but yes the think is that if i move with my dad... i know that i'm not going to have what i have with my grandparent...like my computer and my room...and more stuff...but that is not thinking..well if i stay with my grandparent i would more happy because i talk to them all the time i tell them what happen in school and yeah...with my dad i don't talk to him i just said hi and bye but i'm cool with my step-mom we talk and cook together....i don't know what to do...because i have promble with my aunts that they are live with my grandparents and i geting the fight with them and i don't like that so...i don't know should i stay or go....well my dad is move 11/12/06...and he told me that he is going to wait what i tell him... well i hope u guy can help me on this promble..but if i move i'm going to have promble both ways...

2006-10-31 11:12:45 · 5 answers · asked by tati or tatiana 1

Ok, this is a tough one, my mom is very self-centered and rude. She met my husbands parents for the first time and she put barely any energy into talking to them or being nice. They are very nice people and didn't deserve the rude undercurrent.

Later, her friends came to visit her at my house and she was a different person, bubbly and happy. Why couldn't she put in the effort for something that's important to me? I love my mom, I buy her everything in sight, treat her very well. Things weren't always good, but I have tried hard to help her and no matter how she acts I always will.

Here's another example - my husband and I feel it's our job to help provide for parents when they are old. We let his parents know they were welcome to live with us if anything happens and they were very appreciative.

When I extended the same invitation to my mom, she barked "I don't want to live with you!" WTF!?

Any thoughts? I'm a nice enough to silently deal, but..help?

2006-10-31 11:11:28 · 15 answers · asked by lulu 2

Lisa McLay now Lisa Doodeman gave birth to Sarah, then 11 months later Lisa's aunty said lets take Sarah for a little holiday while my husband at the time were having some marriage problems. She did not give my daughter back to me, i tried with all my strength but i was too weak as this was an aunty that i once loved. I have heard among the grape vine through family, that Sarah does not know who I am, and Sarahs grandad is just a friend of the family..... I feel she is not doing Sarah any good...... I would finally like to reconnect with my daughter as i have always wanted, Sarahs eldest brother Chris wants his little sister back...
Also i have heard that she wants a passport and without my permission, she will not be allowed to lead the country...... I finally feel that Christine is running out of options, and needs to come and face the truth....although she probabally feels she done this for a reason when i was weak.............Sarah may hate me, but its worth the risk

2006-10-31 11:05:27 · 3 answers · asked by ldoodeman 1

Everytime I am around people I feel angry and feel like they got something against me. Then I have all sorts of violent thoughts.

2006-10-31 11:02:20 · 11 answers · asked by D. A. 1

She said she's tired but won't go to bed because it's on, I mean as soon as I get tired I'll get off this thing.

And we have Sky + so she can record it.

2006-10-31 10:40:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this girl online tonight (dont judge me lol), and we talkedfor a few hours on messenger. she then said shes about to go to her room and she said i could call her if i wanted. i ask for her number and she gives it to me. so i just called her. she is really nice...sexy voice. we talked about sports, work, school, our family life, san fran, clubs and drinkin, she told me how she used to get drunk all the time and she hasnt drank though in a year. talked about halloween...what we're doing... etc etc. then she asks if i can call her tomorrow, i say yes, then we both say goodnight. it was a good convo. what yall think??

and how long should i wait to meet up with her?

2006-10-31 10:40:42 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1