well i have this think that i don't know what to do because i live with a big family...and we alway fighting.....but yes the think is that if i move with my dad... i know that i'm not going to have what i have with my grandparent...like my computer and my room...and more stuff...but that is not thinking..well if i stay with my grandparent i would more happy because i talk to them all the time i tell them what happen in school and yeah...with my dad i don't talk to him i just said hi and bye but i'm cool with my step-mom we talk and cook together....i don't know what to do...because i have promble with my aunts that they are live with my grandparents and i geting the fight with them and i don't like that so...i don't know should i stay or go....well my dad is move 11/12/06...and he told me that he is going to wait what i tell him... well i hope u guy can help me on this promble..but if i move i'm going to have promble both ways...
2006-10-31 11:12:45 · 5 answers · asked by tati or tatiana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Even though a child should be with her parents, it sounds like you have a better relationship with your grandparents. You need to have someone to talk to and where you'll be happy. Maintain your relationship with your dad, but for your best intrest stay with your grandparents and just avoid fighting with the others in the house...GOOD LUCK
2006-10-31 11:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by calenderchic0271 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am wondering,how are your grandparents who have raised you going to feel,i know that my heart would be broken..also it seems that no matter where you live at this point in your life you may find that conditions are not what you wish them to be,yet,in the end it is the scale that you hold in your own hands,we can not know your heart or are able to help you choose how you will live your life,when you are older you will be able to make your life as you wish but,until then make a list,one one page the pluses of living with grandparents then the minuses and on an other do the same for your father,this may help you reach a decision as where to live.
2006-10-31 11:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you stay where you are and straight things with your aunts. It is better to move with your step mother, she is good to you because you don't live with her. If your step mother want you with them she would ask you her self to move with them.
2006-10-31 11:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to you to decide who you feel more comfortable with. it seems like you have pro and cons on each side. think about it quietly to yourself. who makes you happy, and more importantly, where do you feel more stable and secure.. don't think of the perks you may get from either side but where you will feel more at peace. good luck.
2006-10-31 11:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move with your dad.
2006-10-31 12:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋