I want to forgive but shemakes it hard!!!!! She is a very demanding, controlling, bossy person. She nevers sees herself as wrong!!! I have tried to talk to her but she can be very nasty at times.
2006-10-31 15:08:31 · 5 answers · asked by purpleone726 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would actually tell her that.
That is NOT acceptable from anyone IN your home.
Okay_______, I need to share somthing with you. Are you aware that your actions and words are hurtful?
Because you are part of my family I forgive you and hope that you see that "how you handle" things is painful to others in the family.
I am not likely to forget them however, Due to your actions, I don't want your negative influence on my ______(kids, brother, whomever or myself) so please don't come with _________ when he comes over to our home, untill you can behavior more appropriate. That is disrepectful to everyone that witnesses it.
Best wishes.
2006-10-31 15:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Denise W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I must tell you that you are going beyond forgiveness here. You need to leave out of her way. I agree that it is practically impossible to forgive her but the best thing to do is to get away from her.
2006-10-31 15:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i know i have a sister-in-law like that.... and what makes it even worse is before she met my brother she had nothing and now all the sudden she is better than everybody else. her mom and dad was never there for her when she really need them but now she puts them above everybody!!! pisses me off
2006-10-31 15:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by its me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgiveness is something that you give your self not her, its for you to feel relaxed and set free from all that nasty anger so do your self a favor and let it go. that simple...just let it go...
2006-10-31 15:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her and have nothing to do with her,if she cann't act no better than that.
2006-10-31 15:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋