its great to love someone. its great to love someone especially when they live with you and you can always see them.
but lately i've been getting the feeing that maybe i love my mom a little too much?
like today... is halloweeen. and i'm going with a couple of my friends. my mom usually goes trick-or-treating with me, my dad, my little brother, and a couple of my cousins, but this yr, it's different. so my mom is all alone at home.
and somehow, i'm feeling so guilty about this.
i don't think i'll be able to enjoy halloween fully because somewhere in my heart i know that my mom is alone at home...
and thats not all.
whenever i try to do something, i first stop and think of what my mom would think if i did this. proud? i'd do it. upset? i won't do it.
but sometimes it gets really annoying cuz i get so guilty easily..
do i have a problem?
help?
2006-10-31 11:35:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
cantsugar.... please. that's disgusting..
2006-10-31 11:39:14 · update #1
and very insulting
2006-10-31 11:39:27 · update #2
What a sweet heart you are! Your mom must feel so blessed to have you in her life. It is a good thing you thnk of her when you make decisions- this means she has made an impact in your life- a good one too! Don't feel guilty, your mom is going to want you to have fun with friends, and do things that aren't always going to involve her. She can put more trust in you knowing that you make decisions based on what you have learned from her.
You are A-OK, normal.
2006-10-31 13:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by rottymom02 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
On the whole, it sounds like you have something that is very rare and wonderful these days. A respectful, loving frienship with your parents, or at least your mother. That is fantastic. Jealous people will try and tell you that its wrong and its unhealthy. Don't believe them.
Now, on the other hand, your mother does know what its like to be young,and I'm sure that she would want you to have fun, and not be brooding over the fact that she will be home alone. If she is a reasonably healthy adult, she will be able to entertain herself and be just fine! Its not like you're leaving her alone on Christmas or something.
2006-10-31 12:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not, you dont have a problem, it's better to have a conscious and know right from wrong but if your mom is bit old fashion and the things that you say no to are things you should be experiencing, then you should relax a little, your mom will love you and be proud of you either way, but in the end she still wants you to have a live and take chances, but still always be her baby in the end.
2006-10-31 11:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Brownie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in loving your mom as strongly as you do. Feeling quilty is quite normal with the relationship that you have with her. But as you become older and more independent it is very important that you have the ultimate time to share with your friends doing special things with them personally. Being a Mom myself I was very close to my children and also did these things with them, but as they got older I understood that they have their own interest and friends that were also important to them as well. This is a part of life, and your Mom will and I believe understands as she was once young herself. You should not feel extremely quility about doing somethings without your mom. If this is really bothering you I would suggest expressing your feeling to your mom about how you feel and be open and honest. In doing so this will allow for each of you to understand one another that much more. Your not setting your mom or family aside your just sharing yourself with alot of people that want to also be apart of your life. Your expressing some Independence and this is very healthy for you.
2006-10-31 11:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by roseygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very loving child and there is nothing wrong with you. It is so great to hear that there are still children out there that don't disrespect their parents or blame them for their problems. I'm sure that your parents are very proud of you.
2006-10-31 11:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I say its perfectly normal, sons and daughters can be extremely close to their moms simply because they love them to bits, and i guess its true most people love their mothers compared to their fathers. Id say your a good girl for thinking about your mom first, remember there may be a time in our lives where our mothers wont be there for us and we'll miss them way more, and then its just to late to stop and think...
2006-10-31 11:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with that...i think thats a good thing...my mother didnt raise me..so we dont have that "mother daughter" relationship that i WISH we had..we love each other she a beautiful woman (physically as well as her personality) but we just dont have THAT bond...u kno what i mean...im 30 and i can honestly say i just starting calling my mother everyday..and sumtimes for no reason...i think i feel guilty like i didnt do my part to have a better relationship...so dont feel bad..theres no such thing..u can love ur mother to death if u want to...
2006-10-31 11:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't havea problem the only thing show your mother how much you love her and don't keep it in side you talk to your mother about every thing you feel believe you are going to feel free from all glut in side you.
2006-10-31 11:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you are probably thining how you would feel if your family went out and left you at home all alone. You don't want her to do be left out, and that's sweet. I am sure she dosent mind staying home this year. just save her some candy!
2006-10-31 11:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by NY Lady 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your mother made a good impression on you and guides you even when she is not around. You cannot Love your Mom too much. Enjoy your life, be nice girl and your mother will be very happy!
2006-10-31 11:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋