Family - October 2006

i have fallen for my step sister big time. im 30 and she is 17. she knows i like her and keeps flirting with me, even flashing her boob at me. what shall i do???

2006-10-29 02:58:14 · 30 answers · asked by bluedavey1976 1

My mom was killed 9 years ago by a drunk driver. She was walking home she was in front of the apartment complex next to where we lived when he came out of no where and hit her. He stoped looked at her then drove off. There was witness that saw his licennesse plate # and saw him so that's how they found him. Me and my 2 sister all unage at her death got 73 thousand each. But apart of me have always wanted to meet this guy who killed her and ask if he has changed any. However, I don't feel its my place to go and bring up something he already has to live with.

2006-10-29 02:51:13 · 24 answers · asked by Sondra 3

Would you please share your experiences? I'm considering getting certified to be a foster parent. Just want to know if anyone can tell me what its like. Difficulties, challenges. I just want to get a general idea of what I will be dealing with if I become a foster parent.

2006-10-29 02:45:12 · 5 answers · asked by jerrri 4

He sometimes puts words in my mouth and we just dont get along very often.

2006-10-29 02:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by amber_nicole_zachary 1

What would you do?? Would you turn them in? Or, would you feel too guilty and let it slide? If the thing were aganist the law; like criminal activity???

2006-10-29 02:28:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

....my BEST friend. she is pregnant. her "husband" is 13!!!!

WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS?
how should i help her?

2006-10-29 02:25:16 · 10 answers · asked by .:.:.Mizz_undaStood.:.:. 4

2006-10-29 02:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by Saidy 1

my parents are older than average and everyone at my school knows this. i used to get bullied about it but i didnt really care. its been about 2 years since the bullying stopped and now im starting to think they were right. my parents are too old. i know i cant change the fact that they are old but how can i get over it?

2006-10-29 02:13:07 · 11 answers · asked by orange_babe 1

She's been going with him for almost two years and he's been at our house only 4 times. I feel like she's trying to avoid having him around me. She doesn't mind when my husband bumps into the two of them. They have drinks occasionally together when I'm not around. He knows him better than I do. And I point this out to her too. When her boyfriend makes plans to show at our cardealership business for his truck repairs etc. it seems like she tries to get me out of there or makes excuses so that I leave. Later I find out, everybody has gone out to eat or have a few drinks.
I feel hurt. I have been very nice to this man, cooked a meal when he HAS been at our house, for him & I like what I know of him. I don't understand why she's being so evasive with him around me and not my husband (he's very critical )???

2006-10-29 02:08:15 · 17 answers · asked by hillaryc59bc 4

During this year my husband and I caught up with my older brother, his wife
and two children for dinner. As my brother lived o/s, I hadn't seen him and his wife for nearly 8 years and it was the first time I met my little five year old nephew.
But during the whole evening, the focus was on my husband, what he has been doing, etc. After the meal, my brother and his wife sat down on the lounge and looked at photos of my husband's art while I just walked around the house and then sat down twiddling my thumbs while they talked about art. When I tried to get involved with the conversation I was ignored.
Please note that my husband is a quiet person and didn't monopolize the whole evening. He was just happy to be there and to see them, like I was.
What is wrong with this picture?

2006-10-29 02:03:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted a question about this but now my hubby and I have had an argument about it.His sis has told him that she is not supposed to work now that she is in uni fulltime.That is a lie.I have a friend who went fulltime uni and worked fulltime nights to support herself and her family.Now my hubby continues to send money for all his sister's needs.He is already working 2 jobs and has suffered a heart attack in the past.I am getting disgusted by his sister's irresponsibilty

2006-10-29 01:25:53 · 29 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

he is 5 and i am 14 . due o the age gap between us often results in my beating him but i love him very much and my mother is finding it very difficult to cope with us. no matter what i do i can't stop the fight between us completely.

2006-10-29 01:21:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a relationship with my partner for 8 yrs and he has a 10yr old son from a previous one. We no no children of our own. We are suppose to get this kid every second weekend. Thats it. Well his mother has been dumping him with us every weekend and every school holiday. The rest of the time he stays with her mother. When he is with us he is so rude and disobedient that nothing we say he listens to. He has completely ruined all of our furniture, drags mud on our carpets. We just renovated our house and he has just wrecked everything. He talks back and is a smart ass to all adults and treats kids lik dirt. He is the most spoiled child I have ever met. Would it be wrong to ask my partner not to bring him into my home anymore until he can start respected me and our property?

2006-10-29 01:09:21 · 18 answers · asked by rach_e_01 1

I love my mother & elder sister.

2006-10-29 00:56:45 · 20 answers · asked by Gagan Sawhney 2

is aged 11 and doesn't know what she would like for christmas. she is sporty and likes to do outside things. any ideas on what to get her. thanks.

2006-10-28 23:37:59 · 18 answers · asked by magicalle 4

hates her name. what do you suggest to make her like it

2006-10-28 23:36:23 · 15 answers · asked by magicalle 4

my husband left me without any warning his last words were if you could have had children id stay.10 months later i hear hes had a baby with a much younger woman we were married 12 years his family have cut me out of their lives as i have no family ive lost everything how do i carry on i did nothing wrong only loved and cared for him i had 3 miscarriages and he didnt seem that interested at the time how do i get on with my life now please

2006-10-28 23:16:40 · 31 answers · asked by toto 2

I am having problems with my father.We seem to just not understand each other. Everyday we are argueing and just can't have a normal talk as father to daughter he gets very angry on me, I talk back to him and we get to have very ugly fights. Sometimes i feel that i want go away, just to not be home anymore.I am 19 years old, and this hole mess is mostly because i want to hang out more and sometimes i come home late and then my parents get very angry. please help me , thank you...

2006-10-28 22:51:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I PLAY HOCKEY (ROLLER SKATING ) I JOINED IT BEFORE 2 YEARS N 6 MONTHS .N IHAVE GONE 3 TIMES FOR NATIONAL . N NOW I HAVE SOMANY FRIENDS AND I MISS THEM ALOT AND NOW IAM PERFECT DOING SKATING NOW . I HAVE SOMANY FRIENDS MORE THAN MY CLASS MATES AND IALWAYS WANT TO LIVE WITH THEM AND THATS SO,, THE REASON IWANT TO CONTINUE DOING SKATING / BUT , MY PARENTS SAYS THAT YOU ARE A GIRL , A GIRL IS VERY DELICATE SHE SHOULD NOT BE STIFF . AND IAM SURE YOU WILL BE STIFF DOING SKATING . SO YOU SHOULD STOP DOING SKATING ..EVERYONE IN SKATING KNOW ME N NOW ONLY I THINK OF THIS THAT WHAT I WILL DO WHEN NATIONAL WILL BE THERE . IT HAS NOT COME YET . SO THE QUESTION IS THIS THAT HOW SHOULD I CONVIENCE MY PARENTS FOR THIS ?

2006-10-28 22:43:42 · 8 answers · asked by phelonia_abelisa 1

do u think children are some kind of machine or tools...do u think they r weapons r something
you expect every thing from your children ..hey let your children have their own choices

2006-10-28 22:42:10 · 12 answers · asked by Profe....llikr 4

My mother in law always puts her guy friend be4 her family. See we just moved into our very own new home and its an hour from her and she has only been here like 3times and is always going to see her guy friend who lives about the same 1 hour but can't every come see us or our kids her grandkids...She never buys our kids anything and don't play much of a part of mother to my husband or grandmaw to our kids...The guy she is with right now keeps telling her they are just friends however the only thing they do together is sex and thats it. that is why she is always going over to his place. so its like he is using her and as if she is being a whore and getting money from this guy too....i mean whats this sound like to you??? hello hello wake up something need to be said to her to open her eyes...

2006-10-28 20:40:22 · 10 answers · asked by christie_ford26 2

2006-10-28 20:27:42 · 25 answers · asked by ariana91304 1

K. Today my mom left my dad. They been together about 20 years. I'm 18 going on 19 next week. My sister is 16. And my mom want's a devorse. My mom is on drugs and my parent's always fights . My mom went to her mom's house and this time she wont come back . She wont answaer my calls and my dad is so unhappy . He wont eat or sleep or even talks to anybody , he cries , and I try to cheer him up. I do all I can to help , I clean and cook and everything. Now I might have to drop out if shcool for awhlie to help . My sister is never home and I worry about my dad. What can I do to cheer him up or get my mom to stop doing drugs? My grandma and grandpa hates my dad , cause they think that my dad is doing this to her. But he's not. This has been going on since I was a baby. My grandpa has even told my dad he was going to kill him. I'm so unhappy cause my dad is sad. All of us and my boyfriend were going to go to Disneyland and stay the night at the beach. But we're till going . But not my mom.

2006-10-28 20:15:22 · 21 answers · asked by kitty 6

Today is the first time I seriously felt this way. It is a long story, but basically, my dad seems to love his sister, brother, mother more then his own kids and wife. Don't get me wrong, he loves us. But when it comes to situations in which there is a conflict on interest between my dad's sister/mother and me and my mom, then my dad seems to favor his sister/mother every single time.

See, my dad's sister and mother treat my mom and myself like crap. My dad always ignores this fact and even sometimes favors his mom and sister.

What bothers me more is that he is not even approachable to talk about with this issue. He is extremely stubborn about it and usually when we try talking to him about it he yells and ignores us.

And just today I realized that this is hurting me and is giving me a lot of stress. I am 18 by the way, just in case someone is wondering.

Someone please help me. Thanks in advance.

2006-10-28 20:07:06 · 6 answers · asked by RockiesFan 2

I am an 21, married, and a mother. I am in the middle of yet another serious fight with my mother. When I was a teen, I misbehaved a lot and my mom still cannot forgive me. She has even said that everytime she looks at me she's reminded of the bad times. She has decided that she no longer wants any contact with me or my family because she can't get rid of her anger. These are the things I've done as a child and teen:
1) At 7, I stole something from school and lied about it.
2) At 13, I used to sneak out while baby-sitting my little brother so I can hang out with friends down the street.
3) At 14, I snuck out to see my friends and got drunk for the first time.
4) At 15, I got drunk for the second time. They called the police on me.
5) At 15, my parents and I got into a fight and they kicked me out, which I didn't return for a month.
6) At 16, I skipped school to see my boyfriend.
7) I told my parents I hated them and I'd rather live in a foster home than with them.

2006-10-28 19:56:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our 18 year old son has been super spoiled most of his life. He has always gotten pretty much whatever he wants. It's starting to backfire on us a bit. Now he even gets $419/month from my Soc Security disability payment while still in high school. He wants to save ALL that money so he can move out asap, by next spring or summer. He does help us out a lot to fix up rental properties that we have....on his own, he offers his help. We pay his $560/month car note, insurance, $370 for private school, he has our gas card, we pay his mobile phone of $50, buy his clothes, etc etc. He is a pretty decent kid, makes great grades, etc.

I would like to know if other parents make their 18 year olds pay for part of their own expenses, especially when they say they are saving to move out !! To me, he should be required to at least pay us a small monthly amount. He works every weekend on our rental property. PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!!! THANKS!!!!!

2006-10-28 19:54:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have to tell you I can understand why he divorced her with her unsubmissive attitude lately. I told her to clean up the house and have dinner ready by 6 because I was having a buddy come over for dinner and then we were going to watch the football game. Well, she ended up cleaning the house but she didn't end up cooking dinner. I had to end up ordering pizza. Later that night after my buddy left I asked her why she didn't have dinner ready. She started breaking down and crying and saying that she had tough day and this and that, and I told her I wasn't going to buy this routine so I made her lean over the bed and I spanked her with a hairbrush that was on her dresser. Then she started crying some more and saying I shouldn't spank her anymore and that she wasn't a child. I told her I wouldn't have to if she had been a decent wife and hadn't of upset her husband. I feel that she came back under my roof and she needs to obey male authority. Am I wrong here?

2006-10-28 19:08:58 · 36 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2

How Many? Im 20 years old. I dont work. ive got married 1 year ago. My husbands 21. He works. We own a big house. We pretty much have everything that we need. My husband earns over 50,000 dollars a year. Hes an architect, So money isnt a problem. We love eachother and feel the need for kids. We have been wanting a kid for the longest and now were ready. How many should we have.

2006-10-28 18:46:34 · 22 answers · asked by Irene 1

father suddenly appears and communication stops with mother

2006-10-28 18:30:46 · 3 answers · asked by paulaR 1

When was the last time you cried what happened or who hurt you

2006-10-28 18:25:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous