Family - October 2006

my mom is, undoubtedly, obese. she constantly asks me " how do i look? "

and " do these jeans make me look thinner?"

yes, her self-esteem is probably low. i feel obligated to say " mom, you look great. those jeans do flatter you"

but i feel like i'm lying thru my teeth, because she DOESN'T look great, and those jeans look SH!TTY.

what would u say?

2006-10-28 18:24:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do mothers feel if their young sons that are 16 years old constantly kiss them and snuggle with them?

2006-10-28 18:08:51 · 4 answers · asked by Nikki 1

she is driving everyone insane with her hulicinations and meanness.
I have M.S. and cannot physicaly take care of her or emmotinaly either. I really don't know what to do? Senior protective services
are tryiing to get help for her, but its takeing so long. How can I help to alleviate the stress off everyone else?

2006-10-28 18:04:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I just got a cold from my big sister when I went to her house and I just hate it. My throar is hurting all the time and my nose will not stop running!! And for all the mean people just don't answer because I not in the mood and right now my freaking nose "WILL NOT STOP RINNING"

2006-10-28 17:50:36 · 9 answers · asked by Wolf Apple 3

My mother in law is evil. She spreads stories, threatened to kill me a few years back (forgot it 2 days later though) abuses me when my husband is at work then says she was only joking, doesnt speak to us for a few months then gets angry at us for not calling her and makes up that she is dying and we didnt even care (for the record she is healthy) It was hubbys birthday yesterday and she didnt call, tries to turn my family against me and thats just the start of it, there is so much more. We are having a baby and my husband doesnt want her having anything to do with it and honestly I agree. I have not done anything but be pleasant to her, but I know that if we dont have her see her grandkid she will blame me for it. What can we do?

2006-10-28 17:46:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because my brother n-law's sister that we treat as family kissed my baby on the lips.. this is not my custom but I guess hers and it has freaked me out... I told her not on the lips and now things are awkward...what to do? I mean thats gross

2006-10-28 17:20:07 · 7 answers · asked by zassy 2

If ur dad keeps screwing up but u keep on 4giving him and he just keeps treating u bad and talkin about u bad then wat should u do. Bc im already sick of mine. he keeps screwing up and wen i stop talkin to him he keeps on talkin to me and telling me to 4give him wat should i do? Totally cut him off or keep giving him chances?

2006-10-28 17:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my little sister and we are very close out of my other 5 sisters. how do I tell her that her man wants to sleep with me and not hurt her feelings? He knows I'm single and evey chance he gets he offers to bed me and do other things to my body. I constantly curse him out and he thinks it's funny. I have avoided going to my sister house just because he is there. Now he has used my niece and nephew to call me so he can get on the phone when my sister is not around. I'm afraid my sister won't believe me and take his word. I don't want to lose our bond.The last time she broke up with her boyfriend she ended up in the hospital for depression.Even if I do get evidence, I know we will fall apart. SHOULD I TELL HER?

2006-10-28 17:11:27 · 12 answers · asked by jazzy 3

2006-10-28 17:07:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mother was 20 years old; father was 27 years old. Mother was an identical twin; had two brothers. She was from New England area. Father already had two older children. Father also claimed to be enrolled in a college in mid-west. Mother's twin sister had stated she would take baby until parents got on feet. Mother lived in Arlington, VA with two roommates at time of birth. Baby given to Catholic Charities of Northern VA.

2006-10-28 16:45:37 · 1 answers · asked by Katharine S 1

I want to find my real parents but i know nothing about them. I have no idea what they look like or who they are! I want to find them real bad. In school we are talking about genetics and i feel left out because i am the only kid who can't do the projects or the worksheet i have to do for homework this weekend. It is all about what your parents look like and what trait they gave you. I can't fill out what my adopted parents look like because that is a lie and i am strongly against lying. but i don't want to tell my teacher.

2006-10-28 16:24:02 · 18 answers · asked by Lotsofquestions 2

well i been live in california... for 8 year and i have not see my mom for those 8 years....and each year... her birthday come and i can't not talk to her. because my dad would not let me talk to her...that make me feel like i want to kill my self and now that i'm 17 years old...i don't know what to do? because i can't talk my mom and i don't now have she looks.....right now...i feel like i want to cry because it came from my heart what i'm tell u.....so i don't know what to do? why does my dad let me talk too my mom?
why, why, why, why,,,,,,tell me please help...thanxs

2006-10-28 16:19:34 · 13 answers · asked by tati or tatiana 1

im still in love with my ex and i heard from all of his friends that he still loves me. He also shows that he still loves me. when he hugs me he picks me up and twirls me in circles. and yestorday it rained and he picked me up and i said your wet and he said and your warm. i love him so much. i loved him since the we were younger! how can i tell him i still love him when everytime i get around him i get lost. like he talks and i just listen and forget everything except him. I tried yestorday afternoon but my doubts took over me! help

2006-10-28 16:13:19 · 9 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3

my father has lung cancer and its gotten a hold of him he was on kemo and radation and doing well for about 2 months this third month has been hard not only has he gotten worse but near death worse. His kids other then me are mad at him because he was a smoker and they dont understand that the doctor has already told them it wasnt by smoking that he got it because its a different type of cancer. Anyway i live with my father to help out and to help money situation for him. I will be moving out even though me and his wife get along we arent close its more of a hi how are you well time to get to bed talk to you later thing. So i have to move out on my own and my schedule is working 6 days a week plus school three days a week i cant find time to take care of him, school, and work. So i want to drop my classes and start up in two months sinse he only has about 1 month to live because im behind in school work. My question is can i drop these classes only two weeks into and restart?

2006-10-28 16:03:44 · 10 answers · asked by josh o 1

He plans on moving home around the holidays because its almost ready to move into. My husband screams at him and treats him like trash. How can I stop him before my grandson doesn't want to ever come back to see me?

2006-10-28 15:31:30 · 11 answers · asked by debbie2243 7

my dad had an affair on my mother about the time i was born, i have the name of the mother but no other information. i do know what city and state she lives in and what her married name is

2006-10-28 15:29:36 · 25 answers · asked by 1rxrech 2

I ended a relationship back in june because my boyfriend was sexually abusing me, rape never occured thank God. I never told my parents but I know I should. I've talked to an adult I trust and Im working on moving past what has happend, my problem is I still can't tell my parents. I feel as if they would be ashamed dissapointed, upset, angry, and hurt and I don't know if they'd be able to understand why i didn't tell them and why I didn't end it sooner. They are good people but very strong in their faith and sometimes rather stubborn headed. Any ideas on how I could address this and talk with them about it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for you help and I am not looking for pity, just advice. Thank you again and God bless.

2006-10-28 15:24:29 · 17 answers · asked by University Girl 3

2006-10-28 15:23:08 · 12 answers · asked by curious 1

They haven't spoken to us in about a year (at Christmas and our daughter's February birthday they sent gifts, but no contact other than that).

The dispute is really between my husband and his father. I managed to stay out of it, but decided to step back even more when I could see that everyone else was taking sides.

I don't agree with my husband in his argument either, but I will support him (without encouraging his stubbornness).

We've just learned that I'm pregnant again! I am doing just fine without my in-laws' "support" although they used to help us out quite a bit. They do have some alcohol dependence issues that I'm glad NOT to be around anymore; my husband and I choose not to drink much at all.

I do want them to know they're having another grandchild. But I'm not really hoping for reconciliation.

I plan to let everyone else know (my parents and a few close friends know already) I'm pregnant in the new year.

When and how should I let my in-laws know?

2006-10-28 14:51:10 · 14 answers · asked by jen 2

OK. I am 13 years old. My dad is protective, too protective at times, but thats good and I do appreciate it. But I can't talk to boys on my cell phone and I DON'T chat with boys on my computer just as he said. So I mean they are just like my regular friends and I don't think they should be looked at differently(at times). I have been talking to boys on my cell phone and I just know he is going to question who have I been talking to so should I tell him or tell him and like explain that I am not a little girl anymore? I really need some help and advice, please help!
P.S. I am very smart and I do right in school at home. I am just asking this because boys are not my top priority, but I just want my father to see I am growing up.

2006-10-28 14:47:47 · 8 answers · asked by iM BL0WiNG UP 2

She is driving me nuts with the pity parties. I just got reemed by my husband for not talking on the phone to her. I guess she got mad and went into a tantrum about how I'm avoiding her and how she does so much for us. I am a full-time student, a mom of two boys, and I work part-time in a law office. I can't do everything when she needs me to.
She is one of those women that wants to talk for an hour or two and you can drop her all the hints you want that you need to get something done, but she just keeps talking. I am BUSY and I can't always cater to her needs. Now she has caused an argument between my husband and me. I can't take this anymore. Is there anything I can tell her that will get her to chill out?
Oh yeah, I didn't talk to her right then, because I was in the middle of doing some homework. Excuse me for trying to get some work done. Please help!!!!

2006-10-28 14:46:05 · 14 answers · asked by batgirl10478 2

This may make me seem like and *** but i am just saying how i feel and i want to know why people feel the way they do.

there is a family gathering tonight sience one of mu uncles will only be here for a few hours and i am not going. i do not want to go. i even made sure i did not tell my father (my parents are divirced but he still likes to see my mothers family) till earlier today because i knew he would make me go if i told him earlier. so now he is annoyed with me.

is what i did really that bad? all i did was full fill my wish of not seeing my family. i went to a gathering realier in the year and for me thats more than enough. i dont know. i just do not want to see my family, is that really so bad? its not that their bad people, i just do not connect with them and it feels more like a chore than a pleasure. so how do you think? why do most of you falve family so much? say what you feel so maby i can understand better.

2006-10-28 14:36:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems that my older daughter (16) often 'spanks' my younger son (12) on his bottom. It doesn't seem like it's out of anger, but rather just for fun or whenever she 'feels like it.'

Is this something to be concerned with? Does anybody have this in their family, or had it done to them/done it to anybody else?

2006-10-28 14:31:38 · 8 answers · asked by Kelly C 1

my mother moved in to my home 10 years ago --on a temporary basis--its 10 years later-how do i get her out! she is making me absolutely nuts!!!!

2006-10-28 14:18:31 · 13 answers · asked by laurie r 2

when i was born, my dad wasn't around. He ran away when i was just a tinny baby.
he doesn't talk to ANYONE in our family.
I really want to meet him someday. i still love him no matter what. But do you think i will ever get a chance to actually meet him?

2006-10-28 14:04:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is mixed race so she will definately want to know why she looks so different from her parents.

2006-10-28 13:44:08 · 26 answers · asked by sweetangel_blonde 2

And how do I go about getting into one?
Will the foster parents let me hang out with my friends and leave and such?
Will they tell me if I can have a boyfriend or not?
How does a foster home work?

2006-10-28 13:39:38 · 7 answers · asked by Krispy Kreme 1

I am a young mother who looks A LOT younger than what I am. I could easily pass for 20 or younger depending on what I am wearing and my hairstyle. People mistake us for sisters on a DAILY basis,(she looks just like me) and on a dialy basis I am flattered!!!!! I still attract 18 -20 year old guys on a regular basis, Sometimes younger, last week there were 2 teenage boys (16 or 17) at the grocery store and they were debating on which one was going to get me and which one was going to get my daughter.

My daughter gets upset sometimes and other times she thinks it's cool. I don't understand why she gets upset, I like being a hot mom!

Any one in this situation or think they might have the answer to my question?

2006-10-28 13:28:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please Dead Grandmother Poem Help?
My grandmother died before I was even born. Please help me create a short and sweet "Last Words" poem. Info on my grandma's death: died at age 44 and her last words were "my loving daughter" (to my mom). And she died on easter sunday. please create a nice short poem like the one below. (but make it rhyme)

Something like this would be great!
Example: As She was lying in bed she said,
Take my glasses, plates, and and bowls
and share them with your mother.
Tell your family I ove them as much as you.
By Tasha Mitchell (not by me)

2006-10-28 13:11:43 · 6 answers · asked by Don 1

2006-10-28 13:04:48 · 27 answers · asked by becky 2