I am a young mother who looks A LOT younger than what I am. I could easily pass for 20 or younger depending on what I am wearing and my hairstyle. People mistake us for sisters on a DAILY basis,(she looks just like me) and on a dialy basis I am flattered!!!!! I still attract 18 -20 year old guys on a regular basis, Sometimes younger, last week there were 2 teenage boys (16 or 17) at the grocery store and they were debating on which one was going to get me and which one was going to get my daughter.
My daughter gets upset sometimes and other times she thinks it's cool. I don't understand why she gets upset, I like being a hot mom!
Any one in this situation or think they might have the answer to my question?
2006-10-28 13:28:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I go through the same thing, My son is 15 yrs old and when he brings his friends over, they are always coming up with excuses to come out of the basement and get some snacks and drinks when they really just come out of the basement to look at me. It is flattering but I think my son is catching on that the neighborhood boys come over for two reasons and one of those reasons is to look at me and have any excuse to conversate with me about absolutely nothing. Nothing you can do about it, just dont act on dating anyone under 18 and dont work on the process of going to jail. I normally wear nothing more than jeans and t-shirt. I think boys at that age have a fascination with large breasts and curvy hips. I am also only 18 yrs older than my son so I don't look like a worn shoe or Mrs Cleaver. I will date a younger guy but he has to be at least 21 yrs of age. Need to be able to have a drink or two out on the town.
2006-10-28 13:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Charisma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Who in the hell wants to COMPETE with their mother? Teenagers have so many things to deal with, within their own age group, and you seriously can't figure out why this might cause a problem? As flattering as it may be for YOU, it has to be discouraging to her! Chill out and get excited when someone YOUR age thinks your hot! Support and encourage your daughter, be a MOTHER!
2006-10-28 13:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you like being a hot mom to 16-20 year olds, you have a problem....and, your daughter knows it.
2006-10-28 13:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by asperens 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some times she thinks its cool when it gets the attention of the kind of guys she likes but then when they like u and she is the dead wait so to speak she will get mad and she probably is growing up to fast anyway
she just want that guys like her for her and not 2 get 2 u
2006-10-28 13:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by dan_ny221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels like you are competition. Have you talked to her? Let her know that whenever you are out in public and she doesn't like people thinking you are sisters, she can call you Mom as loud and and as often as she likes.
2006-10-28 13:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Insufferable Know-It-All 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teenagers do not want people to mistake their mothers as their sisters...she probably feels as though she is in competition with you especially if guys her age are trying to hit on you and debating which one they should talk to when you guys are together
2006-10-28 13:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes afraid that if you too are out together and if she sees a guy she likes he wont be interested in her he will find you more attractive stealing the attention away from her. just a thought.
2006-10-28 13:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you certainly sound... confident.
Perhaps she gets upset because instead of being there with her you are looking around at who is checking you out? Why are you trying to look like her sister?
2006-10-28 17:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you daugheer will do the is is a teenage like me and i get upsat about that 2 so do so thing with only you teen daughter she will love it and so will you will have you lil gril back
2006-10-28 13:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by jessica a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd guess it's because, subconsiously, she feels threatened by you. She thinks you're going to 'take' everyone that's attracted to her.
Also, she's probably grossed out by it.
I know I would be.
2006-10-28 13:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by RandonPerson1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋