He sometimes puts words in my mouth and we just dont get along very often.
2006-10-29 02:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by amber_nicole_zachary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My step-father basically raisied me since I was 2 so we have a very close relationship. There were times when we bumped heads and the only thing we could do to work it out was really get to know each other. We started to do things the were his favorites or mine and started to have a realtionship that focused on us as father and daughter not the man my mom married or the kid that came in a package deal. Try to see things thru his eyes and have a discussion when you aren't upset.
2006-10-29 02:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dayna W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try to keep away from him to avoid conflicts, but avoiding is not the real solution to the problem. You might want to find out what's the reason behind the arguments between you and your step-dad so you can fix the problem and in the end you'll never know that you'll get along with him. Communication is the key. Talk to him...
2006-10-29 02:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by twenty_four 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are going to have to try cause lets face it-your mom loves you both and neither of you are going anywhere. Take the time now to get along or you may regret it one day. Use you mom as a mediator...in other words all 3 of you sit down and talk like adults...use "I feel" statements and don't blame or accuse the other party. Its going to take some time but there is no reason why you can't start today.
2006-10-29 02:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find an outlet. its hard. i've been there. anyway, an outlet, find someone or something to project your feelings on. Don't give him a chance to put words in your mouth. choose your words carefully. this may be a bit akward, but if you ever want to talk halla, my email should be on here.
2006-10-29 02:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by bloodwashed22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not an answer but try and do as you are supose to and stay away from him. Less argueing will be better. Just say ok and do as he ask a little more often.
2006-10-29 02:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya I had the same prob, move out!
2006-10-29 02:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by KatieJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in there, someday you'll be able to leave the nest and distance yourself from him.
2006-10-29 02:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋