do u think children are some kind of machine or tools...do u think they r weapons r something
you expect every thing from your children ..hey let your children have their own choices
2006-10-28 22:42:10 · 12 answers · asked by Profe....llikr 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you expect so much from ur children dream out but ever thought what wud they feel
you pressuring your children
hey ive us alone it feels like hell in the home and the educational institutions....
i think our bad luck is we r born as your children and that is worst thing that cud happen
2006-10-28 22:45:16 · update #1
well those days might be different but now its like education a burden lots of responsibilty well am a teenger i feel it ....well give honest answers
2006-10-28 22:47:54 · update #2
Parents expect teens to begin to take on their own responsibilities, whether they consciously realize it or not.
Show your parents that you can handle growing up. Do your homework and turn it in, be where you say you are going to be when you say you are going to be there. Come home on time. Maintain your living environment independently without prompts or reminders. Focus on the task at hand. This teaches parents Trust. You must teach Trust in order to gain your independence.
Show your parents that you know how to make a right decision. If they think you cannot make a right decision for their child, you will live forever in lockdown, whether your're that child or not. If you scare your parents (we always think you are dead when you run late)...they're going to pull priviliges.
Show them that you can treat them with respect. When you speak with them respond to what they are saying. Respond. Not react. Take a breath, think of what it is that you want to say, and say it calmly and respectfully. Respond, not react. This teaches Respect.
Your parents just see you as a large version of their little girl. You have to teach them about the person you are becoming. Show them a young lady they can Trust and Respect. Teachers are calm, gentle and firm in their resolve. Be the Teacher.
2006-10-28 23:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
children these days seem to think the world owes them something.....get over it. you are not a machine or a tool, and neither are your parents. as far as choices go, it's the parents, NOT the children who make the decisions. As it should be. Children are not capable of decisions meant for parents. children should enjoy being a kid and not have to make choices and decisions that will affect others in the family. That is for the parents to do. If you do not agree with your parents, be honest. Tell them what's on your mind. You have to be respectful and truthful. In most cases families can work almost anything out with honest open communication between all involved.
2006-10-28 22:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you my daughter?
You sound just like her and I agree with you. The problem is that there is an evil world out there which used to be even more evil until laws and regulations were gradually put in place.
Underage sex damages MOST girls.
No education disadvantages MOST children.
No relaxation for a growing minds stunts MOST brains.
At the age of 15 my daughter wanted to be a midwife at the age of 16 my daughter is not at school and working at basic pay but I think she is happy, to have forced her to continue education would be a crime but I still had a duty of care to try to show her that she ought to continue with what she had started towards.
Even though she is at work during the week she has a curfew as there are people out there who do not respect a mature female's right to say no.
I could go on and on.... e-mail me.
2006-10-28 23:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Bill(56 yrs old) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my children live by simple rules, go to school, do your homework do your chores and be good to everyone. I remember what its like to be a kid or teenager and feeling like my parents didnt understand. Having fun when your a kid is the number one thing on your to do list but you have to earn trust and the ability to make your own choices. You only get to be a kid once in your life and being an adult and having responsability is a lot harder than most kids know. So no i dont think my kids are little robots that i can control and treat like crap, i want them to have fun but i want them to be able to grow up and be good people also.
2006-10-29 02:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learn books throughout all my Pregnancies(three)and 4 children,it does not make you a larger guardian,it offers you a little bit extra expertise! Children do not include a ebook,maternal intuition come evidently.You it seems that have performed k,so it is going to exhibit,you did not desire a ebook to elevate a youngster.God gave you all you had to handle a youngster,YOU AND THE LOVE OF YOUR CHILD!! Good Luck I'm definite you're a first-class mother!
2016-09-01 04:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by chautin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spoken just like a rebellious teenager..Too much responsibility without the maturity to back it up, in the long run is an injustice to a child. Boundaries are to protect as well as to fence.
2006-10-28 22:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by every woman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're an angry, bitter little person aren't you? I am a mother and if I let my children make their own choices that would make me a wallet not a parent. Get over yourself or if the wind changes, you'll stay like that.
2006-10-28 22:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
now days it was no different when i was a teen. i'll tell u what after u have kids then u come and talk to us. ur whole perspective will be different.
2006-10-28 23:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, MY KID HAS ALL THE CHOICES THAT HE WANTS. HE MAKES THEM, I JUST GUIDE HIM TOWARDS THE RIGHT ONES.................................
TOOLS OR NO TOOLS, WEAPONS OR NO WEAPONS.................
AS A PARENT THAT IS MY RESPONSIBILITY, TO SHOW THE CHILD THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN RIGHT & WRONG............... & MAKE HIM CHOOSE THE RIGHT ONES AS HE/SHE GROWS...............
2006-10-28 22:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by Sarang 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So ; Hows good old mom and dad doing ?
2006-10-28 23:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by don_steele54 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋