Family - September 2006

I HAVE A CUSIN WHOS HUSBAND IS IN THE MILITARY AND CHEATS ON HER CONSTANTLY ALTHOUGH HE BOUGHT HER A NEW BENZ AND GIVES HER MONEY SHE HAS SEEN ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS THAT HE CAN BE TRUSTED AND THAT HE WILL DO WHAT HE WANNA DO HE IS EXTREAMLY SNEAKY NOW SHE KNOWS ALL OF THESE THINGS AND SHE STILL STICKS WITH HIM THEN SHE CALLS ME TO COMPLAIN I LOVE MY CUSIN BUT IM TIERED OF HEARING HER COMPLAIN ABOUT HIM BUT I DONT WANNA SOUND INSENSITIVE WHEN SHE IS GOING THROUGH HER LITTLE "BRAKDOWNS" WHAT DO I DO? I ALSO HAVE A FEW FRIENDS THAT ARE LIKE THIS ALSO THEY CALLYOU WHINING ABOUT THERE MAN THATS A DOG THEN YOU LOOK UP AND THEY RIGHT BACK WITH THEM SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHATS THE POINT OF LEAVING THEM, CUSSING THEM OUT, FIGHTING WITH THEM OR SAYING ANYTHING AT ALL IF YOU GONNA JUST STAY OR GO RUNNING BACK WITH YOUR TAIL BETWEEN YOUR LEGS??? WHAT HAPPENED TO BEING A STRONG WOMAN?

2006-09-25 07:21:11 · 9 answers · asked by MAD A$ HELL! 1

my ex-wife moved and didn't send me her new address for me to keep in touch with my daughter. her landline is out of service and she has a new cell phone number. basically i have no way to stay in touch since i am in england

2006-09-25 07:20:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He won't answer or return my calls, and he ignores me on everything. what should i do?

2006-09-25 07:09:24 · 16 answers · asked by confused_1 1

there are times that he hides his phone when he sends and recieves text messages.and i can't contact him whenever he stays out late.coz he turns it off.

2006-09-25 07:09:11 · 15 answers · asked by julia 1

My 3 year old is constantly making me laugh with little anecdotes and the way they use new words they hear. What is your funny little one is saying these days?

2006-09-25 06:56:09 · 16 answers · asked by LadyMagick 5

My husband and I have been married for 4 years and have a 3 year old. I also have an 8 year old from prior relationship. My husband and 8 year old had a relationship before I had 3 year old. 8 year old has ADHD, sometimes a behavior problem. My husband is a great father to my 3 year old, but hardly ever talks to my 8 year old. I know this is not right. he is a great husband, he works and I stay at home. I feel that it is getting worse. My son lives with us and visits his dad every other weekend. I wish he would treat him like my 3 year old. It is really tearing me up inside. I used to be a strong woman, now I just don't know anymore. Has anybody been in this situation? I know he loves him and when my 8 year old has a game he is always there. But at home behind closed doors, he doesn't play with him or talk to him. People will see them outside and say that he seems like a good stepfather, but they don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Please help?

2006-09-25 06:50:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

thats pretty much all she wears im her only child. just me and her live in the house is that normal? i mean i am a guy and i do get turn on....

2006-09-25 06:28:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I convinse my Canadian parents to let me go home?

I have a gf in okayama, and I need to see her. I found a good price on a plane ticket, but it is during christmas, and my canadian parents say that we should stay together on christmas. But I need to go home and see her. I would rather see her than my canadian family.
Please help me convinse to them this.

PS: I havent told them I have a gf because I am too shy

I am 17 and I am paying

2006-09-25 06:23:33 · 8 answers · asked by Japan_is_home 5

My b/f plays video games so much to the fact that I'm considering leaving him. At first he had no job so when I came home from work he would be playing video games all day--this made me mad. Now he working and since he cannot play video games during the day anymore, he wakes up early in the morning or sometimes in the middle of the night (3am, 4am, 5am) just to play his video games. Or he will wait until I'm busy doing something (taking shower, doing hair, washing dishes, cooking,sleeping) just to hop on his video games. He says if I don't want him playing video games, then I should find something for us to do. I told him I am not his damn entertainer, why can't he find ways to entertain himself or do something constructive with his free time? He also says that when if I'm busy doing something else like cooking, I shouldn't mind that he's playing the game but my issue is that everytime I turn around, he's on the damn video game! What would you guys do? Isn't he too old for this

2006-09-25 06:17:15 · 29 answers · asked by melcar12345 4

Last week my sister and my nephew moved out!! i miss my nephew terribly and kept antagonizing my sister on how i wanted to watch him when i have a day off since i dont see him anymore...well, mondays are usually my cleaning days and i promised my boyfriend that i was going to go with him to the movies !!! so my sister brought my nephew over this moring and asked me if i could take care of him...and i told her i couldnt..now her and my mom are pissed off at me and i feel like an *** hole!!!! should i feel bad?

2006-09-25 06:13:40 · 29 answers · asked by nothing 2

2006-09-25 06:10:34 · 12 answers · asked by Leah M 1

i have been divorced since 96 and had custody of my kids and remarried to another guy for 9 yrs now my ex had the kids for the summer and now filed for custody of the kids but he is a single dad an never home and my kids came home from there this summer bad kids and they was always very good kidsso far i won custody back till dec.they had to much freedom this summer and was out of control. my son curses (17) my daughter (14) hangs with boys a no no at my house and acts like she is a gangster. my son is doing better home now that he is on medicine which he wasnt given at his dads. my husband now has raised these kids and was very close to them but now they have no respect for him. and he says it hurts . he feels like a nobody now. they always wants us to buy them things if we dont they say their dad will then. and that hurts.

2006-09-25 05:58:54 · 7 answers · asked by cottoncandie1969 2

yeah i'm tire of live alone - I'm 24, proffesional Cad Operator....

2006-09-25 05:57:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son is 8 months old and still sitting rear facing, he is a tall boy though and weighs 23lbs

2006-09-25 05:55:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I had to purchase a radiator for his 17 year old sister and his mother just looked at it and did not offer to pay. This radiator was almost $200 and we are not made of money. We've had to fix a couple of other things on her car as well because her mom doesn't help her out. My sister in law is 17 and she goes to high school and has a part time job but she has to pay her mom the tuition for her schooling (like $215 a month), plus she pays her insurance and her gas and has nothing left at the end of the month. Her car broke down and needed a new radiatior so we had to buy it because she has to go to and from school and work. My mother in law didn't offer to pay us abck or anything when she should have bought it in the first place. How do we talk to her about this because we need the money back. My mother in law babysits our son sometimes so we don't want to be rude to her plus we all have a pretty good relationship and don't wnat to ruin it.

2006-09-25 05:39:59 · 13 answers · asked by mommy_2_little_man 2

2006-09-25 05:33:49 · 15 answers · asked by ddirtycooley 2

My question is what should I do? His parents are the biggest pot heads I know. I talked to him about it but what could I say. He knows that his parents smoke and I guess he thinks that makes it ok for him to do it too. He also knows that I did my fair share of bad things when I was a teenager, but I was 17 not 14.

2006-09-25 05:25:52 · 32 answers · asked by Rachel H 3

Every time I go on the computer, my mom will come in and ask me what I'm doing, who I' m tlaking to, etc. It's literally interrogation! It's not like I've ever done something bad, either! Every time I talk to her, she tells me to shut up and says she has a right to know what I'm doing. I know she does, but she's abusing that right! How can I get through to her?

2006-09-25 05:25:22 · 9 answers · asked by cowgirl91 3

I saw a mom and her rather overweight 11 or 12 year old son entering the grocery store last evening. He appeared to be otherwise able. Dad had parked the car by the curb. The Mom tied the boys shoes and then they both went to the bakery and were loading up on donuts. Can someone tell me why?

2006-09-25 05:22:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughter went to her dad's for the summer straight a student , pageant queen, cheerleader.. now thats she's home she things she is some big bully, always wants to fight people. acts like a want to be thug. quit cheerleading and don't care about grades.or people's feelings

2006-09-25 05:19:38 · 12 answers · asked by cottoncandie1969 2

2006-09-25 05:17:22 · 14 answers · asked by stephen a 1

My brother-in-law is your typical chauvinistic male who uses women for sex and shelter. In the last 7 years I have watched him meet a woman, move in with her, become a control freak, and then cheat on them 3 or 4 times. Every time he does this same pattern he always makes some grand gesture to proove to his family that the newest relationship is "the one" and expects all of us to run to him and pat him on the back. This week he has once again planned a gathering with his newest conquest to look for the pat on the back once again. My question is 1. Do I go to the gathering and look at the new women and tell her to where armor (he likes to hit women during the control phase) and not unpack boxes cause he will cheat on her within 2 months? or 2. Do I just take a stand and not go to glorify his latest attempt to proove how wonderful he is to himself? Either way I am not going to be well liked by my wife's parents but am trying to decide which way would get my point across better.

2006-09-25 05:14:35 · 18 answers · asked by jvano35 2

and then her parents let her live with him.. what do u think of her parents? :)

2006-09-25 05:04:27 · 18 answers · asked by -->TeXas<-- 3

2006-09-25 04:41:17 · 27 answers · asked by heath 3

hi friends., i am not able to talk to my bf for the past few months. he is in auckland and i really need to talk to him. does anyone knw abhijith nair. i m really worried about him. if u get to knw about him plz lemme knw thru mail. my id is soniyasoniya_4u@rediffmail.com

2006-09-25 04:35:40 · 1 answers · asked by a n 1

2006-09-25 04:35:24 · 5 answers · asked by Shaboom 1

My cousin Nikki called me to say she was prego when she was about 4mths pregnant. I told her since I just had my baby if she has a girl I'd give her all my daughters clothes as she grew out of them but I would give her my extra stroller and car seat and bassinnett no matter the sex of the baby. She agreed to take them. Last month she had her baby shower & one of her friends told her not to take the stuff from me that she needs brand new stuff not hand downs. So I said okay, I figure she's 20 & so is her friend they'll learn how hard it is especially if she isn't working.I offered my things to another cousin who is pregnant with a girl she is 30, she drove 3hrs to my house to pick them up. At my 20yr old cousin baby shower all she got was 5 babytubs, no one got her anything because it was too expensive , now she has everyone calling me to ask for the things. I told her & them no because she was ungrateful plus I gave them away to someone who wanted them.Was I mean ?

2006-09-25 04:32:13 · 47 answers · asked by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4

Something bad happened, it took away our parents and since then I think people stopped caring about us! I know that no one likes orphans! So I'm just wandering if anyone on here cares and if you do then send me an e-mail or im me later, or if you want I could e-mail you or im you later! Thanks to all those caring people!

2006-09-25 04:19:02 · 14 answers · asked by Edmond M 1

2006-09-25 04:14:13 · 12 answers · asked by raja 1

We're going through a hard time, and if you wanna know what the hard time is about then e-mail me and i'll tell you! anyway, I feel like no one cares about me! So i'm wandering if anyone cares! and we all need some kind of person to care for us! So, do you care about us, right now we're in an orphanage! And no one cares for orphans I find! And if you wanna help me out, then e-mail me! or i'll e-mail you, either way it'll still work!

2006-09-25 04:07:12 · 5 answers · asked by Edmond M 1