there are times that he hides his phone when he sends and recieves text messages.and i can't contact him whenever he stays out late.coz he turns it off.
2006-09-25 07:09:11 · 15 answers · asked by julia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
talk to him and ask- what the flip is going on?
2006-09-25 07:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well normally for me contact with an ex bothers me but if he has contact there should be nothing to hide, if he's hiding it...he's doing something wrong, period! My ex and I have a child and my b/f has a child with his ex so we have to stay in contact. He shouldn't be turning off his phone ect. I wouldn't put up with this behavior at all. Time for an ulta-matum!
2006-09-25 07:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Shae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sit him down and say "Honey, here's the thing. I'm really uncomfortable because I have this gut feeling that you're talking to your ex behind my back. If you're hiding things like this from me, it's the same as a lie and I don't think our marriage will be able to grow if you're lying to me like this. Please be honest and lets talk this out so we can move on. If not, I'm going to recommend marital counseling so that we don't lose track of why we're here in the first place. I love you."
2006-09-25 07:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go looking for trouble, you will find it. There seems to be a trust issue here. I think you might want to sort out your own issues before you make accusations,put thoughts in others minds, If you have positive proof , then ask why he feels he needs to hide it, remember you are there with him, his x is just that He may be not willing to tell you because of the way you react. please look before you leap.
2006-09-25 07:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The signs are all there, hon.
In hindsight, we take off the blinders and see all the bread crumbs that led to path of such behavior.
You and he need to talk and do it now. Then decide what you want out of life and for your future.
This has to be hell for you, and I am sorry for your pain. This issue needs to be addressed. Don't put it off.
Best of luck to you.
2006-09-25 07:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by niteowl716 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh he is so cheating on u. Theres no question about it. U alrady no hes cheating on u ur just in deniel. He wants to have is cake and eat it too.
2006-09-25 07:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he need to show you who's sending him those messages, why is he hiding? that's a cause for not trusting him.When hes asleep why don't you take his phone and look at it..good luck.
2006-09-25 07:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to tell you waht is going on or you will leave him. If he is hidding some thing that means it is worth hidding. So he might be cheating on you. I would find out. Or Leave him. Tell him is my way or the high way
2006-09-25 07:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a heart to heart with him. If he says everythings cool, then you have to trust him. Let him know you're feeling insecure. but if you don't trust him or what he's saying then it's already to late.
2006-09-25 07:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he refuses to end verbal change, something is going on. He only admitted b/c you discovered out. tell him he both ends verbal change or it really is over. If he would not end it after that, he would not love you.
2016-11-23 20:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably being a manwhore.... Go out after he leaves,, and watch where he goes.. I know thats ****** up.. but he wont tell you... hey what can you do??
Its happend to me.. i had to go inocogneto... and i found him jumping all over her...
2006-09-25 07:16:21 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Perfectly.Flawed♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋