Family - August 2006

or should I be promoting independance & letting him get his own sanwich & breakfast & tidying his own bedroom etc

2006-08-07 07:43:48 · 36 answers · asked by wordykat 5

He looks at it sometimes when I am at work. We have sex ALL the time!!! I mean I give oral almost every time before sex and sometimes I finish that and not even sex. I love giving him his needs and sees that he is satified as he does the same for me. We have had this problem in the past and we split up b/c of it. Then we got back together and he had changed....well, same problem has happened again twice. So, we talked about it and he realizes what it does to me. its not that I am insecure...maybe its that he is getting off to someone else besides me.....that is what I am for. It's like "Baby, tell me what you want and I will give it to you" I am not ugly at all. I make myself feel better by keeping a good figure, nails done, and tanning! So WHY do men do this if they are getting everything they need from there woman?? Is it boredom? Or just a man thing??

2006-08-07 07:43:03 · 54 answers · asked by Kylah M 2

I've just found out my father has died. We hadn't spoken for the past 3 years for a number of big reasons. I'm 19. Should I go to his funeral? I think yes to be respectful, but no because I will have to see his side of the family, including my nana (grandmother) who I also do not have contact with.

2006-08-07 07:40:13 · 26 answers · asked by northukstudent 3

i need ur familly bid data then i give u all details my family details
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2006-08-07 07:29:07 · 14 answers · asked by Sundaram D 1

I am not pregnant yet, but my mother seems to have issues with becoming a grandma since she feels too young.

She will be about 47 when we have our baby.

My husband and I plan to conceive soon and this will be the first grandbaby in all my family.

My dad seems happy when we talk about having children, but my mom makes faces like she doesn’t want me to become pregnant.

How should we tell my parents that we are expecting our first child when my mom isn’t happy about it?

Should we just tell them or should we tell them by doing something cute (picture frame, bib, etc.)?

2006-08-07 07:25:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 07:15:05 · 18 answers · asked by j b 5

2006-08-07 07:05:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has an argument about everything, refuses to help in situations where help is obviously needed. ie.. I was carrying a heavy load to the car, she passed by me & when I asked for help, she would not help.
I tend to get angry with her. Perhaps this is my problem??
Am I expecting too much... her 10yr old sister seems to want to help, everyone. She sees things that need to be done, & is a joy.

2006-08-07 06:58:49 · 13 answers · asked by nannypj_2000 1

If you were to move to vietnam, what would you change your name to?

...i know several people that migrated to the US from Vietnam and changed their vietnamese name to a more common American name like changing from Ngoc or Thuy to Stephanie or Tiffany.

So what would you change your name to in Vietnamese?

...some common vietnames names are: Phuc, Thanh, Lam, Trung, Manh, Khan, etc

2006-08-07 06:46:35 · 2 answers · asked by JJ C 2

What I mean is, I am a working mom and sometimes I feel like people think that I am a bad person because I don't stay at home with my kids all day. Don't get me wrong, I would love to be able to do that, and I give stay at home moms all the credit in the world, I think they have the hardest job out there. The problem is that some families (like mine) require two incomes to keep us going. I still spend as much time with my kids as I can, and they are happy, well adjusted, and taken care of. So why do I feel guilty for having to work?

2006-08-07 06:39:15 · 8 answers · asked by chelle 4

2006-08-07 06:37:39 · 6 answers · asked by b1971 1

Anybody with advice on how to pick a good Assisted Living community? It's time to find a safe place for my mother (she has emphysema and uses a walker), but I have no idea what questions I should ask, what I should look for when getting a tour of a community, etc.

2006-08-07 06:19:56 · 14 answers · asked by petrof_skinsky 7

my daughter with the disrespectful boyfriend has went over board my grand baby 4 yrs old told me when her momy was gone he pulled her pants and panties down and spanked her with a comb her mother has told him time after time do not whip her girls when my daughter is home they use time out for the kids or no dessert go to your room some thing of that nature but this time was different nobody there he takes her pants down should i report him or let my daughter handle it if she gets him out her house I need answers NOW

2006-08-07 06:18:38 · 4 answers · asked by Me 5

I make my fifteen yrold do one chore a day clean and hoover living room usually i give him 10 pounds pocket money on saturday and deduct 2 pounds for ever day day that he didnt do his chores. Im trying to teach him you dont get anything unless you work for it. Do you think this is reasonable and what do you make your kids do ?

2006-08-07 06:17:50 · 60 answers · asked by Treat 3

2006-08-07 06:02:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

n't coming home, leave me a message so I don't worry, no shoes on the hardwood floors, let me know if we're out of something or if you take the last of something, lock the door before bed, etc. My question is about her having her new boyfriend sleeping over. They have been dating for about 1 month now, and he lives with his parents, and follows their rules. She asked if he could sleep over if it was late and we (my fiance and I) said yes, but because I have guardianship of my nephew, I said not in her room yet. If he'd like to sleep on the couch, or in a spare room, by all means, but I don't want my nephew, whose room is across the hall, to see different guys emerging from her room, so I told her after they had been dating for 3 months he could sleep in her room. I honestly didn't think it would be an issue because the last guy she dated that lived with his parents was when she was in high school, and assumed that she would stay at the boyfriend's apt./house. Does this seem fair?

2006-08-07 06:00:09 · 13 answers · asked by lorlor5683 4

my brother like absolutleyy hates me. he doesnt call me by my name. if he wants something he sayys heyy fatty or heyy thing. and my parents jus ttell him not to sayy that and he doesnt listen. i reallyy hate being called that. i feel lik emy parents agree with him because when i call him fat i get grounded and he never gets in trouble for calling me fat. and im not fat and he is not metaly retarted because i know someone might sayy that thats why he doestn get in trouble for it. but what am i supposed to do. ive tried ignoring him, not talking to him. but nothing works. soo what should i do?

ohh yeahh im 14 and hes 13.

2006-08-07 06:00:07 · 19 answers · asked by b 3

2006-08-07 05:51:05 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes you see white kids acting so-called black or dressing in a hip-hop fashion, that's easy to tell.
but what if i saw this kid that has black characteristics and sort of looks black, has a name like darius but he may be hispanic. do you follow what i'm saying? who cares but if i cannot ask his parents, i'm just curious as to what nationality he may be.
a name does not tell you anything.
you know there are certain ways people of different color carries themselves or sometimes the way they talk or pronounce certain words.
i know there a hispanics with african blood in them and some grow up around blacks. maybe he has a black parent.
please only serious answers and no who cares or why this why that or asking me something because i am curious.

2006-08-07 05:43:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i wake up everyday in a house that i feel i dont belong in, i wish i was some where else, i do all i can to get out of this house but nothing works, i finally find a plan to get out but then i realize that would ruin my life so much more. i feel like my life is useless and nothing good will come out of it. I think i finally found my goal in life but theres no way to fulfil it without losing everthing I live for and want so in te end i can never fulfil this goal for myself because it would just make me lose pretty much my life. Is this what my life should be like?? Im only a teenager and im not depressed, im actually a very happy go lucky girl who stuck in the middle of the real world, and her fantasy.

2006-08-07 05:38:27 · 7 answers · asked by Me 3

my cousin just came here. he is living with his stepmom and dad. i have a feeling that sumthing bad is going to happen to him if sumthing happens to his dad. she makes him wake up at 5 oclok in the morning in the summer everday to go and walk to a home to work there for 6 hours but the catcch is it is a home for her. not him. he is 16 and she will not let him start taking drivers ed. just a few days ago. we were at a wedding and he was tired so he put his head down and tried to sleep and his stepmom and her mother came over there and he looked up. his eyes were red from him trying to sleep and all of a sudden she yells out. you have been drinking. he said no i was just trying 2 sleep. they say no you were drinking. then she runs over there and tells his dad and they leave the party while she was saying you will see what will happen to you oh you will see. and just the other day she went off on him because he took her umbrella out of her car without asking. what should i do?

2006-08-07 05:37:57 · 4 answers · asked by tutuskwad 1

I personally think its wrong. Its killing an innocent person who is LIVING!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-07 05:32:14 · 14 answers · asked by Captivated 4

My father just died 3 days ago does anyone have any thoughtfull words that can help me go through this worst part of my life?

2006-08-07 05:26:57 · 8 answers · asked by Saiko 2

My niece and nephew say their mother emotionally abuses them. She also keeps them in their house and has them do chores from 7 a.m till bed which is priority over school work during school. She moves them and hides them from us (Dad's amily). Their Dad is no longer a part of their lives' so I am lost on what I can do to help them. Next school year they begin homeschooling; my niece starts high school next year. They are both against it but fear saying that to their Mom in fear of punishment. They both want to live with me or their grandmother but we are at loss of what we can do according to California law. They also say their Mother does drugs but I have no physical proof of anything. Help please
My niece is cutting on herself and is depressed, my nephew has ADHD which she refuses to treat
They are 12 and 14

2006-08-07 05:24:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seemed that way to me anyways knowing my girl cousins never got whooped bad.Dont know what a spanking is meant in america but in england where iam from a spanking is sumthing that last ages and leaves masses of hand prints!Usually over ur moms knee or a sofa arm.Weird how diff people get diff upbringings.

2006-08-07 05:21:50 · 7 answers · asked by momsguy111 1

2006-08-07 05:17:30 · 6 answers · asked by crazy puppy 1

Im 25. My mom was a single mom and she was so there for us every moment. She was sooo loving. (and still is) And growing up, i was very rebellious twards her. She pushed, i pulled. She left my dad (alcoholic) and my dad wanted to get back at her through me. They all told me lies (his side of the family) about my mom (wich turned out to be all lies) and i didnt appriciate her. I feel i was brainwashed or something. i regret its so bad. i get so depressed that i cant get those teenage years back that i mistreated her so much. She is and was a perfect mom with the biggest heart. No matter how much i appriciate her now, I cant get rid of the guilt. What do i do? Im sick of feeling this way.

2006-08-07 05:17:29 · 9 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

None of our friends or family have mentioned anything to my wife about throwing a baby shower for her. She is about 6 months pregnant, are we just thinking to early or are we okay thinking something is wrong? Friends and familes always throw baby/bridal showers for everyone prior to us?

2006-08-07 05:09:07 · 11 answers · asked by Highroller 3

So I am a single mother, 29 yrs. old, with two kids ages 11 & 7. I work hard everyday and have been their whole lives to maintain a household for us, and food on the table, but its never enough. I struggle to keep my head above water EVERY day. Deadbeat dad choses not to be in the picture, at all. I am not complaining because we are very blessed to have our health and I am blessed that I am physically able to go out and work every day, dont get me wrong, but I often wonder if I will ever see the light at the end of this tunnel? how can a man just not care about his kids, and not support them, I dont understand his logic. he owes $80,000 in back child support that i will never see, because he works "under the table" jobs, and uses different social security nujmbers in order to avoid having to pay a dime. how can a human being be so heartless? sorry peeps, had to vent! thanks for listening!

2006-08-07 05:06:13 · 9 answers · asked by Norma S. 2

i am seventeen now and me and my mom don't even talk well for one she is an alcholic and the reason i don't talk to her is because i am just scared to get hurt again because she has hurt me so many times and brakes plans and lies to me alot and i really can't handle it any more

2006-08-07 05:04:53 · 11 answers · asked by dolphinluvr47 2