siblingss?

Question

my brother like absolutleyy hates me. he doesnt call me by my name. if he wants something he sayys heyy fatty or heyy thing. and my parents jus ttell him not to sayy that and he doesnt listen. i reallyy hate being called that. i feel lik emy parents agree with him because when i call him fat i get grounded and he never gets in trouble for calling me fat. and im not fat and he is not metaly retarted because i know someone might sayy that thats why he doestn get in trouble for it. but what am i supposed to do. ive tried ignoring him, not talking to him. but nothing works. soo what should i do?

ohh yeahh im 14 and hes 13.

ohh yeahh and i forgot that he likes to tell me that he wishes i was dead and that i dont deserve to be on this planet. =[

Answer 1

trust me i know your pain. I've got 8 brothers, but the thing is... you gettting mad is what makes him do it. They love to make you mad! So when you respond you are just giving him the laugh he wants. You can't let what he says hurt you. i know ignoring him is hard, but you can do it.

Answer 2

i've had worse, and believe me...it is a serious problem. wen he says stuff like that dont feed into it by saying the same thing back. if hes younger then hes doing it either for attention of your parents or YOUR attention...if its attention of your parents ask them if they can take him out to some place nice or spend more time with...
if that doesnt work then try doing something he likes or take him out to get something to eat.
and if that doesnt work then bring it to your parents as a serious subject that needs attention...calling someone fat can cause depression and other sychological problems.
im the youngest of about 6,7 kids and have learned the hard way.

Answer 3

I think he is just trying to get attention- even negative attention is attention~ Here is what you do- be the nicest youve ever been to him before- keep it up to! When your parents see how nice your being to him and hes being so mean to you They will see their error to their ways. You can get more with sugar then with salt.

Answer 4

Sit down and talk to your parents or write them a note telling them how bad that makes you feel. That would make me feel bad I think you have a right to be mad. Good luck.

Answer 5

Don't respond to him unless he calls you by name. Don't call him any names other than his name. Try to spend as much time as possible away from him. It will be difficult, but if you don't respond to him, your parents will notice more that he says it and you don't have to respond to someone who isn't treating you respectfully.

Answer 6

I am 23.He will grow out of that imaturity one day.That is all it is.Just deal with it and one day you will see how it will manifest into love.Tolerance is a high moraltiy of life.Both of you will learn this.

Answer 7

you know what? if he calls you fat tell him "thank you for your compliment" try it it works, because he calls you that so you get angry, and so he is happy, but if you show him that you like it he's gonna change it to something else to make you angry, and if you don't like the second nickname, just redo "thank you for your compliment" until he calls you something that you think will not embarass you, then show him that you are angry so he keeps calling you the nickname you like!!! IT WORKS

Answer 8

Life is just like that missy you just have to roll with it. Since you are the older one, just be patient with her and wait for him to grow up and learn how to treat people better.

Answer 9

Hmm....ignore the kid, he just wants some attention. He still needs to go through puberty street.

Answer 10

try to agree whatever he say, let him call/say whatever he wants. dont reply him in the same manner. i am sure he will give up calling u fatty/or something which hurts u.