Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

So he's smoked pot all his life, seriously. I met him like this. He's a sweet guy, love him. Together for over 15 yrs. The other day he walks by and says..."I think I'll stop smoking soon". Im scared. hes a demon when he doesnt smoke. He's pleasant and easy going after he gets his smoke on. Now I dont smoke yet it doesnt bother me that he does. Im afraid we'll argue more...

What do u think?

2007-11-13 12:20:01 · 5 answers · asked by Best Mom!! 5 in Singles & Dating

She tells me everything is okay & to go on, but it's getting kind of uncomfortable. Does anyone else cry during sex?

2007-11-13 12:17:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 12:17:37 · 5 answers · asked by mcied150 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 12:16:24 · 18 answers · asked by maria p 1 in Weddings

Okay i see that girl every morning in the subway going to work. It doesn't matter what time i get on it, she is there almost every time. We don't talk or say anything, but every time we see each other we smile. I don't know what to say to her. I feel if i made a move between all these people i am going to embarrass her.
I need some ideas!

2007-11-13 12:15:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am i normal??....I get pissed off when i come home and discover that my boyfriend has just masturbated!---also i woke up this morning to discover he wasnt wearing his boxes because he took them off to masturbate in the night when he couldnt sleep??-----hello, WAKE ME UP THEN!!....HELP

2007-11-13 12:15:39 · 30 answers · asked by OLAY 1 in Singles & Dating

okay there is this kid p.t and iam falling for him his mom and my mom are bestfriends and i would feel awkward going out with him should i ask him out anyways ?

2007-11-13 12:14:44 · 4 answers · asked by soccerplayer359 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my mom, and I wouldnt do anything to hurt her. Though, a scary thing has happend. She is getting the clue that I may no longer be a virgin but tends to ignore it. I pictured what would happend when my boyfriend and I tell her, though I couldnt possibly imagine what she would do or say. What in the world or how in the world do I tell her?

2007-11-13 12:14:32 · 14 answers · asked by Nika 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to meet from other country?

2007-11-13 12:13:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mine and my bf one month aniversary is coming up and i really don't know what to get him. or even if i should get him somehting at all. he was on the JV football, wrestling, and baseball. he's very proud to be irish. and where's baseball caps all the time. should i get him one of those or is that to "friend-ish"?

2007-11-13 12:13:49 · 5 answers · asked by ashley k 1 in Singles & Dating

idk wtf im supposed to do b/c like my effin cell fone just got turned off and like now the only i can talk to my bf is on the comp. he lives in another state so its not like i can go see him or anything.one bad effin thing after another happens in my life and nothing ever goes right. i need someone to tell me what i can do b/c i have soo much pain built up inside me! does anyone have any advice i what i can do?

2007-11-13 12:11:54 · 7 answers · asked by iloveyou.<3. 3 in Singles & Dating

this guy has ran his hand down her back he goes through her locker everyday and I want to put a end to this.

I want to go to her school and talk with him. Threaten him a little and if it does not stop kick his ***.
Where twins by the way and in junior high.

2007-11-13 12:11:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my ex, when we went out a year ago, he cheated on me with my enemy, i caught them making out, well, he apologized a gazillion times, and i forgive him completly...but he said he still likes me a lot, and i know ive never stopped likeing him...and we've told each other. Now this kid has changed drastically, hes become a hardcore christian, he has a goal in his life, hes all i could ask for, but im not sure! i mean i dont want to get back into something I might regret later, my good friend says i should take the chance...what do y'all say, i just need a second input!

2007-11-13 12:11:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just moved back into a high school with people that I knew back in 6th grade, and there is this guy i liked then, and like again now. He is very shy and quiet, and I am the polar opposite, but not to an extreme. Also, I barely know him, and we only have one class together. But he did remember me when I did talk to him. I want to talk to him more but I don't know what to say...cause it would be really awkward just going up to him to talk...Help please and thanks in advance!!!

2007-11-13 12:11:15 · 18 answers · asked by Kelly L 2 in Singles & Dating

After given approval she went to pick up her nephew to take him shopping on his birthday. She was crushed and embarrased when told he could not go because they could find his blue or green sweater. The aunt moved away to another state years latter but returned to the hometown state five years ago, she briefly the saw the newphew with his mother walk pass her at her grandmother's funneral five years ago. She has always loved the nephew but confused about going to his wedding reception because she does not really know him. 10 Points

2007-11-13 12:11:15 · 24 answers · asked by Titus12 3 in Weddings

ok.me and my friend from texas have been emailing bach and forth 4 a bout a year now.so we got to talking about her bf, and i said i did to, and that was a lie. i want to tell her that but im afraid that she wont talk to me anymore?? please help!

2007-11-13 12:09:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do you know when is the right time to break up with someone and how can you be sure that you won't regret it later on? I am having mixed thoughts and feelings. I really do like this guy (we've been seeing each other 10 months now) and I don't wanna call it quits with him.

However i don't know if i want to stay either, ya know?
Just little things like its been so long and we still havent said I love you.. I don't really know why but I do know that I love HIM, not sure vice versa though.

And we haven't had sex. He's still a virign (and so am I) and I think that he knows we're getting close and is just waiting around for the sex he thinks he's going to be getting soon.

He is insensitive and says little things that are stupid, but that make me question his motives and our relatonship.. stuff like putting me down- in a joking way..

I don't Know!! Can't tell if i am overreacting or if I have valid concerns!! I DON'T want to do anything I'll regret later on!!

2007-11-13 12:07:51 · 2 answers · asked by sunshinegirl802 5 in Singles & Dating

How should i deal with this?? I want to turn her down but in a nice way. Or should i just let he lust over me forever?

2007-11-13 12:07:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 12:07:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Not something huge or a lower back tattoo or anything like that
If she had something small say on her lower hip that is only visible when she is naked
Is that trashy or somehow lower your opinion of her? Do you prefer your girl to be tattoo free?

2007-11-13 12:06:15 · 42 answers · asked by marm212 5 in Singles & Dating

we know each other 4 three moths.
we had sex 8-10 times.
we meet six days a week & spend 5-6 hours daily.
now she says that she needs to attend classes as her attendance will be short, but i know she wants to test another guy.
i fell insecure even though i am better in every sense than that guy as i love her.
Note:- she cried yesterday when we were about to break up. she cried loud.
DEAR EXPERIENCED YAHOO MEMBERS, WHAT YOU SAY or SUGGEST?

2007-11-13 12:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have custody of our child.. who is 15.. we divorce when she was 12 at that time she wanted to live with me.. now she wants to live with her dad.. because her sister live there.. so i agree to give him his child support back.. plus the same admount of money that he would be paying me..I think it is fair..by doing this i save the both of us the cost of a lawyer to change everything over.. plus the cost of court.. she may change her mind next year.. and if he had to pay me when i had her .. why should'n t i pay the same.. i gave him a 40% reduction in child support and we make the same admount of money so i am getting the same deal.. what do you think

2007-11-13 12:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I got mad and left when he called he was crying .The next day he said he thought he lost me.No man has ever done this for me I dont know what to think so I need help?

2007-11-13 12:05:25 · 12 answers · asked by Cynthia B 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now and we are not extremely young. He is 30, I am just about 26. I really don't think that he is thinking about asking me to marry him anytime soon. I have had this deadline in my mind from the beggining that I would give him until the end of this year to make up his mind to either ask me to marry him or move on. Of course he doesn't know about this, but do you think it's fair? I mean, I'm not going to waste several more years in my life if he has no desire to get married. I have told him how I feel-yet he doesn't seem to understand where I'm coming from with all this. Being a woman-my clock is ticking. I don't want to be well in my 30's when I have my first child. Call me crazy, but what would you do?

2007-11-13 12:05:17 · 31 answers · asked by BUTTERCUP 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin is having a wedding by january. She told me to help her find a couple of father daughter songs for the father daughter dance.
Any songs in mind?
PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-11-13 12:04:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we know each other 4 three moths.
we had sex 8-10 times.
we meet six days a week & spend 5-6 hours daily.
now she says that she needs to attend classes as her attendance will be short, but i know she wants to test another guy.
i fell insecure even though i am better in every sense than that guy as i love her.
Note:- she cried yesterday when we were about to break up. she cried loud.
DEAR EXPERIENCED YAHOO MEMBERS, WHAT YOU SAY or SUGGEST?

2007-11-13 12:03:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my bf just broke up with me. but i really like him. to make him mad i need to do something to make him want to get back together with me. what do i do?????????????

2007-11-13 12:02:54 · 1 answers · asked by sexy girl 2 in Singles & Dating

See I thought this guy and I had a mutual attraction for one another. We hug everytime we see each other.. He's kissed my cheek and hand. He's complimented me.

So I thought yeah he might like me, but it hit me today, that must be impossible or he would have asked me for my info right? So I should just forget about him completely, right? We were in college together and we both graduated. He's still there for grad school, if I get accepted I'll be going back for grad school. So I can find him, the issue is, if I should bother. We're both 22.

Is this one of those "he's just not into you" moments?

2007-11-13 12:02:03 · 39 answers · asked by Calista 5 in Singles & Dating

We pay child support of 1,600 + pay health insurance for my husbands kids of $587 per month, his kids are 16, 15, &11 the middle one wants a cell phone for xmas, guitar lessons and a xbox 360 plus 6 games, the 16 year old wants a car, insurance and $1,000 gas card, the youngest hasn't given us his wish list yet. My husband wants to provide all of these things for x-mas, however he pays over 1/2 of his imcome in support...if you add these other things on top monthly I am going to be extra busy bringing in the additional money to pay for all of these things, plus all of our expenses. I am really mad right now. I still have to buy for my daughters and son in law. Plus my mother in law wants a diamond necklace for xmas and my husband wants to get that also. These people think I am made of money!!!!! What would you do to make it stop?

2007-11-13 12:01:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i just filed 4 divorce & 2 day found out that i'm pregnant.the problem is the reason i filed 4 divorce is because i wsn't happy & have already found someone else.i will not cheat on my husband until my divorce is final,therefore i know the baby is his.the new guy says he will stand by me no matter what decision i make,but prefers me have an abortion.i don't know if i can do that.somebody please give me some input no matter what it is.thanx.

2007-11-13 12:01:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce