Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

Now dont get me wrong I love my grandkids. But my son and his soon to be ex are dring me nuts. I take care of the kids except when it is convenite for them to have them. My question is how do I deal with the parents when the kids are starting to treat me like their mother and they really dont care about her much anymore?
They need their mother. I want them to have her but she is acting like she dont care except when it suits her.

2007-11-13 12:00:41 · 4 answers · asked by reginasob 2 in Family

Me and my BF have been goin out for like 4-5 months and I think its time to break-up! How do I say it without hurting his feelings, he a really nice guy!

2007-11-13 12:00:25 · 42 answers · asked by Hollisterlover 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have Physical custody of our 11 year old daughter.My ex and I have joint legal custody. The ?? is he has this girlfriend that is a horrible example!My daughter went w/her dad to his g/f house they basically had a party lots of drinking etc.Bad envirorment.Lots of people in the house-you get the picture.My daughter was upset calling me it was a bad scene. well on a separate time my ex calls me and tells me about a situation that he was in with this g/f that was extremly disrespectful to him but at the same time she put her own 3 year old in a bad situation.My ex was so upset he was hypervenilating! Now #1 I did not ask to here this info. nor do I talk to him about people i have seen..but I do not involve them in my daughters life either. we have been seperated 1 1/2 years and divorced 6 months.My ?? is do I have the legal right to tell him not to bring my daughter around this girl? Oh yea I am not a jealous ex either I divorced him!I just want her around morol people.

2007-11-13 12:00:22 · 10 answers · asked by dee dee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, my name is Chen (pronounce Wen)....and I've been feeling kinda depressed.....I miss my complete Best Friend, knowing she wudnt be getting married...you see?

i miss my ex gf, Lauren, a lot, you could see the whole story of how we got together in my other questions....it's been quite a few months and I miss her....apparently I found out she had an arranged marriage by her family...I mean, she's still not married yet tho...but......can I still get her to be my gf? I miss the laughs, picking on her, and having her always come over to my house everyday and watching our favorite azn dramas together, and how we use to play songs onto piano from the dramas, and many more factors....any help?

I remember how her family canceled the arranged marriage after she talked to them a few months ago, but then, they changed their minds later and that's how we broke up...I hate this feeling sooo much...Help plz? How can I get a lost heart back? or How can I get over being confused..all the tyme?

2007-11-13 11:59:47 · 6 answers · asked by Chen 1 in Friends

My bf & I have been friends for 25 yrs. She has a 28 yr old daughter. I have a 28 yr old daughter & a 25 yr old son. Her daughter calls me her aunt & my kids her cousins and vice versa. Because she is my friend I have made a point of being involved in her child's life. She didn't do the same. My daughter is somewhat difficult to get close to, other friends have managed. Her daughter is getting married. I’ve helped w/ center pieces & my husband & I gave her & her fiancé a couples shower (dinner, cocktails, the works). After invitations went out I was telling my bf what my kids getting her daughter for a wedding gift. She told me my kids were not invited. She explained that they were having to cut costs & had to cross some people off the list. I didn't agree w/ it, but I wanted to be a gf and be understanding. I let it go. Then I find out they invited their hairstylist who is NOT going to be doing their hair. I'm very hurt & she doesn't understand. I was supposed to help decorated, etc. the day of. I think I’ve already done enough. Am I wrong?

2007-11-13 11:59:28 · 18 answers · asked by michele_fct 1 in Weddings

2007-11-13 11:58:51 · 46 answers · asked by jacsrbetter1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

1. As a kid have you've ever...?

2. Cheated off someone's paper??

3. Forged a signature?

4. Sneak food where you weren't supposed to in your house?

5. Prank Called?

6. Ding Dong Ditched?

7. Defied authority or lied to parents in ANY way?

If you answered yes to none of these, you were a goodie-goodie...

Stole extra cookies/snacks?

2007-11-13 11:58:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Any one know anything about them??

2007-11-13 11:57:12 · 4 answers · asked by Alana CK 1 in Weddings

I like this guy and he likes me but he is not allowed to have a girlfriend and he already went out on a semi date with me and his twin sis found out and she might tell thier perents. Wut should I do.

2007-11-13 11:56:07 · 2 answers · asked by Dani 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 11:55:43 · 3 answers · asked by stacg32 1 in Weddings

how should i tell my best guy friend that we could still be friends if we broke up. see like we both like each other but he is araid to take a step higher because of our friendship. i want to convince him that we could make it and if we didn't (not hoping that we won't) that we could still be friends afterwards.

2007-11-13 11:55:34 · 1 answers · asked by Kylah O'Neal 2 in Singles & Dating

Then her and my other friend talk about me now. But its good i think. The girl i like likes me too and is flirty and just like really happy about it. Me on the other hand im like kinda just a big dork around her. Nothing i say is even the least bit like me. I mean i just get confused and then end up saying something stupid. ex. i tried to tell her she had a pretty smile. it came out as your tall like a tree......ok that was stupid and she laughed at me. Hm this isnt like me. i dont get shy or anything. i mean i can talk t complete strangers about anything . im not the shy type. but when i talk to her im just quiet and awkward. What should i do?

yes im a girl. yes she is a girl. please i dont wan tto hear about being gay i just want advice on this.

2007-11-13 11:55:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm pretty sure it's him.. :S

2007-11-13 11:52:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have been dating this woman since march of 2007 and her and i have no children together but she has a four year old daughter whos father is locked up in prison. now my girl is very scared of this man cause of who is his not to mention she started a new relationship with me which pissed him off. however she says her daughter dannielle asks to see her father often so my girl will take herdaughter up to the prison to spend time with her father because he can have that visitation time even know hes locked up. my girl has expressed to me the bottom line is she wants her daughter to maintain some kind of relationship with her father while hes locked up and of coarse after he gets out. and even though its not my place when it comes to her child i think thats crazy. i think shes morally right and trying to be a good mom but i think its crazy. what do you all think.

2007-11-13 11:51:31 · 3 answers · asked by jerry1282004 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard from some people at school that if you are a female and you mastubate while your a virgin, your first time having sex wont hurt as bad................... is this true?

2007-11-13 11:51:19 · 1 answers · asked by bhmi492 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been seeing a man for 5 months, both of us have kids. He has his son every weekend, hes not ready to introduce him to another woman yet. He lives 40 minutes away, drives a race car and has alot of work to do on his car during the week and also drives a truck 13 hours a day. We are both very busy and I only see him on tues or wed. nights. God i miss him so much. I tried to escape him and see other people but that doesnt work. I feel alone. I'm independent and also am not looking for marriage again or to live with a man. But how do I handle only seeing him once a week. I miss him so much.

2007-11-13 11:50:35 · 11 answers · asked by Steviemercury 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I get her to realize that its a natural everyday act? (but, she finds it salty and nasty right before my main event (finishing). Any advice?

2007-11-13 11:50:02 · 30 answers · asked by ALEXANDER C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What separates high intelligence and being nerdy? One is a turn on, the other is a turn off.

I have an IQ of 141 and in Medical School at the moment. Would you think I have high intelligence or I am a nerd?

2007-11-13 11:49:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 11:48:24 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had no sex with my husban for 6 years. I dont think he is interested in me, so this past august I met someone 10 years younger than me and a relationship has blossom and now I make love to him everyother weekend (he is 4 hrs away from me) My husban knows of this relationship and tells me not to fall in love, to treat him as a "toy". my lover and I are in love. We want to be together, unfurtunaly, my boyfriend is not as secure as my husban in the money department. he is as broke as they come but he is an amazing music producer and has potential (lots of potential) sometimes I feel sorry and I pay some of his bills. He loves me deeply, I know that much. I can tell that my boyfriend sometimes use me but I know he needs help because he is strugling a lot and I know we will be together when his carrer finally takes off. his friends think I am the hottest girl ever and he loves that! Now my question is, should I leave my husban and be happier and poor with my boyfriend?

2007-11-13 11:48:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

feel inferior to a woman?

2007-11-13 11:47:03 · 33 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Singles & Dating

i was married for 9 years and me and my wife got a divorce in 04 i got sole custody of my son she gave me him with only visitations for her 1 weekened a month she only calls him 2x a month he is 7. now she got remarried and told me he wasnt mine well i went and got a paternity test a secret one and he is not mine. i dont want her to get him back and then i have to pay child support for him when he is not mine i looked online and this is what happens she told me she is taking me to court to get him back and going to order a paternity test which i already know the results. we were married at the time what should i do?

2007-11-13 11:46:13 · 11 answers · asked by TIFFFANY B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Which was it for you?

2007-11-13 11:45:56 · 10 answers · asked by pitch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

anyone at all thank you

2007-11-13 11:45:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 23 shes 22 I dont know if I can even pay my bills this month what can I do for her? Open to any ideas!!!

2007-11-13 11:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me my bf were just talking on the phone about plans for tommorrow since i don't have any school and he's off from work and he just got his new place. so we were sending each other dirty text messages, and he said how about we play the g-spot game.
and i text him asking him what the rules of the game, and he told me that there would be a lot of kissung and touching and definet pleasure for me, and all i had to do was tell him when he was warm, or cold. so i texted him ok sounds like fun.

but i still don't know what a the g-spot game is , and what exactly is the a g-spot, and how would i know if he's there, what would it feel like? is there really a g-spot any ways?
I'm a virgin so i wouldn't know.

2007-11-13 11:43:08 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have the biggest crush on this guy and I heart him sooooo muuuch. If only he hearted me back :[

2007-11-13 11:42:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy, 20, and I think I was watching porn too much. So I've decided to stop, but now I can't get it out of my mind. What do I do? How do I forget about what I've seen?

2007-11-13 11:42:18 · 15 answers · asked by sspence966 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a mom of 3....separated...I had my first baby way back in college ...i had been married for almost 3 years but got separated early this year.....with the nature of work....and with noone to permanently look after our 2 kids.I decided to seek help from my inlaws to take care of the kids...meaning we live in difeerent homes...my eldest daughter lives with my mom since she grew up with her ...My husband(ex) , who cannot withstand living in a home with my parents decided to go home and be with the kids...months later,,,,, we never heard a word from him and went somewhere else....I tried to look for him but gave up..then a news broke that he admitted that he already has somebody with him...it's unfair...I've strive hard for the family since he was jobless but he left me all alone in vain .....i know it's bad to take revenge or get even but I need legal advise...

2007-11-13 11:41:10 · 6 answers · asked by alonemama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ehmygod.
my bf and my best friends bf are best friends also, so like yeah.
well i go to an amazing church and like im a major jesus freak.
so like our bf's are both stoners :[.
and i hate that. one time they both showed up at my church stoned. and all my friends were pretty mad at all of us.
i love him and everything but i hate what he does helpp.

2007-11-13 11:41:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating