I am a mom of 3....separated...I had my first baby way back in college ...i had been married for almost 3 years but got separated early this year.....with the nature of work....and with noone to permanently look after our 2 kids.I decided to seek help from my inlaws to take care of the kids...meaning we live in difeerent homes...my eldest daughter lives with my mom since she grew up with her ...My husband(ex) , who cannot withstand living in a home with my parents decided to go home and be with the kids...months later,,,,, we never heard a word from him and went somewhere else....I tried to look for him but gave up..then a news broke that he admitted that he already has somebody with him...it's unfair...I've strive hard for the family since he was jobless but he left me all alone in vain .....i know it's bad to take revenge or get even but I need legal advise...
2007-11-13 11:41:10 · 6 answers · asked by alonemama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You went to college?
2007-11-13 11:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, go and get your children, even if it means living with your mom.
Get our children out of your in laws home or you may end up losing them.
Yes, you do need legal advise because I don't understand why your kids aren't living with you?? I was left alone and had to work, I scrapped the barrell and my ex was rich, but he made is hard on us anyway, Job or jobless, men are cold.
When it comes to what they want, they don't care about anyone but themselves.
you better get those children rounded up and placed under your care. seek several attornies advise on free consultations, they usually only last 30 minutes but make sure you ask them how much they charge for a divorce and explain your situation so an attorney can advise you of all your options.
Are you bartending at night or what? Due to the nature of your job, you don't list it. but you don't have your children with you.
My only advise is GET YOUR CHILDREN BACK UNDER THE SAME ROOF AS YOU AND GET A LAWYER,
Like Yesterday........
And put your emotions on the burnner for a moment and think of your children. you have to do this to get through it rationally, don't keep them in permantly but just do what you have to do.
2007-11-13 20:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to get over him. He was a jobless loser anyway.
File for divorce. Even if he doesn't have a job, they expect he can at least earn minimum wage. Assuming that you are a good parent, you should be able to get custody and an award of child support.
2007-11-13 19:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet would be file for divorce and sue his a.s for everything you are legally entitled. You will be awarded custody and thus support. This action will hit his wallet hard and for a very long time so hes not apt to forget about you for a really long time and no one wants a guy who broke. Think about it and good luck
2007-11-13 19:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiring a lawyer for minor legal problems can be expensive, but there are websites like LawGuru, FindLaw and other places where you can get free legal advice. I found this website useful - http://www.uelp.org/freelegal.html
2007-11-15 04:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First work on your emotional and character defects. Then decide if you still want to pick another battle with him.
Good luck.
2007-11-13 19:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋